i dont know what to do...i love a guy and we both dating eachother but he hardly gives me any attention unless when he got nothing to do or bored...he works whole day and that keeps him busy for calling me or texting me, and when his home he either goes roams with his friends or goes to bed early....i am leaving for uk next week and he doesnt value the time for spending with me..i dont know what to do with him
2007-02-08 06:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he dosent apreeciate u leave him
2007-02-08 06:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is really into you, there is NOTHING that will make him "too busy" for you. My boyfriend works 2 jobs, an 8-5 and a 6-10, but he always has time to send me a text message, or call on his lunch break to let me know that he's thinking about me... I think you should leave this guy alone and find someone who really likes you.
2007-02-08 14:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Untouchable2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should seriously reconsider whether you are meant to be together. Use your time in the UK to sort out your feelings for him, and vice versa. Ask yourself how sad you are to be without him, and see how many times he calls or contacts you to tell you he is missing you.
At the moment he sounds very inconsiderate, and you deserve someone much better than him. It sounds as though he is treating you as a stand in while waiting for someone better.
Use this opportunity as a way to break free. Be independent- ask him for a breather in your relationship, and use your time in the UK to flirt with some nice blokes here (England has plenty!) just so you can see what you are missing, and whether you truly want to be together.
Best of luck
2007-02-08 14:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie it seems like it's as clear as day that he doesn't care about you. You two are only dating why should he? It's not going to be important to him. So you're wasting your time. Someone will come along that will value your time spent together and who will give you attention, the one you're with doesn't seem like he's worth the trouble or the worrying. Drop him. Good luck babe!
2007-02-08 14:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this guy is not that into you. If he really cared about you or cared about your feelings he would try to make time for you. Maybe you should try to talk to him about it and see what he says and if he still makes no attempt to change get rid of him lifes too short to be stringed along.
2007-02-08 14:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by onlyoneshea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he aint really that interested and maybe not worthy of your attention & affection...
have a good time in UK, flirt a bit and see how you feel if a bloke returns the flirting...
2007-02-08 14:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Blind Wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the drivers seat here if he really cares...Absence makes the heart grow fonder so it goes.... He'll miss you like crazy when you're gone (hopefully)
2007-02-08 14:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by double_klicks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him! mostly hes only using you wen hes bored and got noone welse to talk to or his frends dont hang out wit him!
2007-02-08 14:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by candy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN FAST. GO TO THE UK AND DON'T THINK ABOUT HIM
2007-02-08 14:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't have time for you ??? MOVE on !!
2007-02-08 14:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋