I want to move out of a home that my husband and I are buying, we've only done 3yrs (plus re?

Question

I've been married for 10 yrs, and in the past 3 years we bought a house. in the last year we've become foster parents to 3 kids, soon to be licensed. My spouse now want out of the marriage, and may not want to parent anymore either. How do we/I get out of a 30 yr refinanced mortgage, if he's not ready to sell the home. If I move with the kids, what do I stand to lose. He says he want to be alone now. We can't continue much longer like this.

Answer 1

This sounds like a question for a good divorce attorney.

Answer 2

He picked a fine time to decide this didn't he? If he is not ready to sell the house and you don't want it. He needs to refinance again under his own name. You would have to sign off of the house in order for him to do this. This would also mean you would get no profit when the house is ever sold unless you have this put in writing like a contract in the divorce papers. You could be entitled to 1/2 the profit made on the house, but this must be stated in the divorce papers. Talk to a lawyer about it to be sure how to proceed. Maybe he has become overwhelmed by the three kids you have just become foster parents to. He may have thought he was ready to be a parent and has just found out he is not.

Answer 3

Well in your case you have the upper hand. If he is wanting out and you are not able to pay for the home by yourself he will have to help with alimony and child support since you have adopted children and by law he is the father. If your name is on the mortgage and so is his you both are stuck on it till you pay it off or refinance and have the other one removed. Or Sell. Try to see why he is so unhappy though. It sounds like you both had a lot of love with each other and I am not sure why now he is wanting to go. Try to save if not get a good attorney.

Answer 4

Honey pop out of denial and scent the Playa in Yo abode. Your husband has stumbled on a thanks to create heaven in the international. he's not in any respect gonna supply this up and why ought to he. He may have the spouse and residential and respectablily and the warm honey on the aspect. in case you flow he will stumble on a thanks to flow this woman too or he will in basic terms stumble on a clean one interior the hot city there are pleanty like her to be stumbled on. you want to end wondering what he will do even as and commence wondering about what you'll do. If the stability falls that you're extra effective off as you at the instantaneous are then stay yet ignore about him ever being straightforward. i quite doubt that he may prefer to go away you yet you should imagine about in basic terms what it really is you'll or received't have in case you do stay. the different determination is to flow. i do not comprehend your situation or if there are youthful ones in touch and after 20 years there is plenty in touch and plenty at stake. i visit comprehend you staying there's a lot advantage in that determination yet be authentic about it. flow and stay your existence and do not proceed to imagine that you've an outstanding husband which will in some unspecified time sooner or later end and become the husband that you want. So sorry yet ya were given what ya were given, and it ain't good, yet you want to take a authentic seem at you situation and comprehend if a guy, or each person for that count may have both one among their staggering objectives, who's gonna supply it up in the experience that they comprehend they could in basic terms shop on having it? he won't be able to change or make a flow he's were given each little thing he needs. you should take those steps and make that changeif you want something to be any diverse on your destiny. The ball is on your court for what your destiny will be.

Answer 5

1- you two have to talk seriouly about who will be keeping the house and what is own to the one that will be moving out
2- upton that decission than one of you can quick claim tothe other (meaning you will sale you share or give it to the other)
that way the tax will come to that person name only
because the morgage will still be on both name if a quick claim is made than the person that will keep the house will have to refinance on his/her name only (with the quick claim proof that person will be able to show that bank that he /she own the house and has been paying for it )
but if you get a lawyer involve it will cost more and closing cost has to be paid because it will be one partner selling
the quick claim cost 5$ to file
At least look into it
Good luck
sorry about the divorce

Answer 6

Find yourself a lawyer and get the answers to these questions. You cannot get out of a 30 year mortgage without selling the home.

Answer 7

If there is any way for you to stay in the home, do so. No matter what, you need a home. If you're unable to keep the home, than obviously it needs to be sold. Do not let it go back to the bank if at all possible. Dont leave, work on a plan that will work for YOU!

Answer 8

Get a lawyer. (It's called ALIMONY) All of a sudden he may or may not want to be a father and out of a marriage. Hell no somethings not right. He will either sell the house or he would come up with something to help me. I'll be damn if I do this on my own. Honey,yes please get legal advice. QUICK!!!!



Best Wishes,


Kimberly H

Answer 9

You split everything 50/50. What he wants out of life and what is feasible financially are two different things. I would get an accountant and maybe a financial specialist to go over your net wealth and money going forward if a split occurrs.

Answer 10

if he wants out then he has to make sacrifices, like the house, if he dont want to sell then he can buy you out or vice versa. if hes being greedy and wants to keep the house and you get nothing, get an attorney and get half of everything or take him to the cleaners, this is his mess he can clean it up