i am about to go crazy?

Question

i have a problem i am like bascially sprung over this guy and he says that he is just wanting sex and i am not that kind of girl at all but there is something that tells me that i just have to be with him so what would yall do if you were me

Answer 1

If I was you, I would never sacrifice who I am for someone else. The older (and wiser) you get the more you realize that the only person you can TRUELY depend on is yourself. And however hurtful this may sound, it doesn't seem as if he cares much for you if he's not intrested in more than sex.

Answer 2

I,ve been there and it is hard when you caught up but you
have to pay attention and listen with your mind an not your heart
because emotions is very tricky,and you won,t nothing
because of that man, now everyone gonna tell you to leave,
but actually it all fall on you and you need to look past your
emotions and that,s when you will get your answer, because
you should,t do something that someone tell you, you
old enough to make your own decision and don,t base it
on some answer to people who are either bitter,heartbroken,
or never been in your shoes of course they can gonna say
leave him but if you sprung it,s hard, look past your
emotions you know what you don,t wanna tolerate and
stick to it .

Answer 3

Wow. You are are sprung. Well, if you want him, you'll have to bang him. If you want him to love you, well that's not going to happen. If you want him to respect you, well, that's just not going to happen period.

If you want to be loved, get over him.


By the way, if you like being treated by dirt, I'm sure just there are tons of guys out there who would be willing to walk all over you to be with you. I don't know why you choose this guy.

Answer 4

I have had the same problem but what i did i just let him go it took me a while but eventually i got over him. Anyway just try to forget about him and find someone els who will like you or love you for who you are
Good Luck!

Answer 5

well, test it. if he is really for you, he should understand that you are special enough for him to respect you. don't have sex with him just because you have a feeling that you should be together. start talking about marriage or something and see what he does. if he's out of there, then atleast you have saved yourself from some serious emotional harm. personally, it sounds to me like he just wants sex and not you.

Answer 6

Maybe you're just attracted to the thought of being with this "no-good-for-you" guy because that's just what he is. Stay away, someone better without such a shallow view of you will come along and you'll be glad you didn't waste your time with this guy!

Answer 7

You are attracted to eachother but want different things. If you sleep with him he will have had what he wanted and you will end up feeling empty and used. It wont work. He had been honest by saying its only sex he wants. Have a long think about what you want.

Answer 8

been there done that..its hard at first but if told u outright its about sex then 9 times out 10 there's no changing sorry sweetie! move on to the next!!

Answer 9

You should find someone that loves you, not your snatch. This guy sounds like a real dick. There are plenty of other guys out there that are better then him. Find someone else.
Unless of course your ugly or fat, then you should hold on to the first man that will touch you on his own free will.

Answer 10

Get your mind off of him! Go talk to friends, to other guys, go watch a movie. Just do something to occupy your mind / time.
The feeling will fade, I promise.