Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

i use too talk to my mum but she walk out on me when i was 12 year old i see time to time but i dont now if i cant trust her anymore im so down i dont now wat wrong with me i want to be happy. when i get mad or upset i take it out on my self ive rip same of my hair out and cut my self i have not told anyone befor till i found this site i dont feel safe anymore i dont now what i am going to do next people at school use to call me name when i was younger so i dont now if this is samething to do with it i hate school im in year 10 and cant wait to get out of there ive had 4 boyfriends but the last one i had have cheat on me 6 times andi ive told him back thinking he will not do it again i think im going crazy i need help plzzz sameone help me

2007-02-08 11:15:05 · 12 answers · asked by tammy_holmes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 11:15:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

..in this hard time he's going through because of his dying grandmother. Nothing physical or inaproppriate plz.

2007-02-08 11:14:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Huh?

2007-02-08 11:14:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 weeks. first off, is there any length of time that is the "no kiss zone" so to speak? and second, how exactly is the correct way to go in for the first kiss?

2007-02-08 11:14:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who thinks that taz from looney tunes is really cute?

2007-02-08 11:13:11 · 3 answers · asked by amanda e 1 in Family

the guy ive been datin has slipped in2 a deep depression and isnt talking to ANYBODY! he's shutting ppl out really and im scared about it now. he wont answer his phone, return calls, or texts. is there anything i can do to reach out to him? i text him or call every now and then, but not too much because i dont wanna ba annoying or anything like that. any suggestions?

2007-02-08 11:12:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I"m 16 and love to play real football as in street ball we call it here. i like playing rough with the guys and i'm a tomboy and i like to look pretty when i feel like it. But football and baseball are my two favorite sports. i want to meet a guy who loves football just as much as i do. is that possible and if so then where can i find them? if you guys like football then you can e mail me and we can chat.

2007-02-08 11:12:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last year this guy asked me to the dance and before I could say yes he asumed I would say no and I never got a chance to tell him yes and that I liked him. well this year my frind came to my school and we have all the same classes and he has 1 class with us well he met my friend and asked her out! she said no but I can tell she likes him a little. I Really like this guy but I don't know how to tell himor what to say without getting hurt, what should I do?

2007-02-08 11:12:05 · 1 answers · asked by ♥gabbygrl♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but he is a different clic then me. I know if i ask him out or the other way around his friends would think he's weird or something. And i have a small school so i would be totaly ridiculed. Help!!!

2007-02-08 11:11:44 · 15 answers · asked by Rach 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you know you're in it?

2007-02-08 11:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance is about to finish up his training so that he can become an over-the-road truck driver, and when he starts his job he'll be gone for weeks at a time. Before now he's always had jobs in which he could be home every night, so this is a big change for us. How can we cope with having so much time apart? Are there any truck drivers' wives/girlfriends on here who are in similar situations?

2007-02-08 11:11:20 · 2 answers · asked by Persephone 6 in Family

2007-02-08 11:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen this guy around school. When I first walked passed him, I noticed at the corner of my eye that he was staring at me (my face, to be exact.) I looked back at him, and he did not avert his gaze. A couple of days later, I was walking with my friend and telling her about him, then suddenly, he walked passed us! My friend said, "THAT'S HIM?!" sort of loudly, so I'm guessing he probably heard us.

And now, whenever we walk pass each other, I noticed that he'd look straight ahead, then when we're a foot from each other, he'd glance at me for a couple of seconds, then look away. (I saw this at the corner of my eye)

Does he think I like and stalk him? (which I don't!)
Does he think I'm attractive?
What exactly is he thinking?
Next time, should I maintain eye contact and smile?

We don't know each other at all, if that helps.

2007-02-08 11:09:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really don't know what to do. One part of me says to go ahead find a great guy and get married, so I will no longer fight this battle. I grew up in a christian home, and I am shocked that something like this would happen to me. I don't know whether its some sort of fantasy or whether I really want to be with another female. I don't want to let this one experience lead me to hell. In a way, I know I am condeming my own self, but I just can't deal with something of this magnitude. I have always had a sexual attraction for females, and believe it or not I have never dated a guy or had sex, and I am trying to maintain purity, but its difficult having a huge sexual attraction to women. Its weird bc I dont want a relationship with a woman, I just want to be with one sexually. What's up with me?

2007-02-08 11:08:09 · 10 answers · asked by bicuriouschic 1 in Singles & Dating

at first sight!!!

obviously personality is going to make a difference.

But physically.....

2007-02-08 11:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by Questionnn 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this one guy i met my freshman year of college. i was studying for the psych midterm in the library and he asked to study with me. I've had a crush on him since then.
Since then wehnever he sees me we get into a conversation and we seem to have a lot of fun. Now I'm a senior and he's a 2nd year med student. he still goes to the same school. i now occassionally see him. I think I like him and I think I should tell him but I tremble when I want to tell him. I think what held me back was that I occasionally saw a girl with him and I thought he was taken. My friends said that they don't think he's taken.
Now that it is my senior year and I'm about to graduate, and he starts his clinical rotations nest year, I think it's time for me to move on. I want to know whether he likes me or not. He likes me i can establish a long distance relationship. He doesn't like me I can move on.
I know he likes to have lunch at the taco stand on campus. But i also found his e-mail address.

2007-02-08 11:07:05 · 14 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this girl i like right and im gonna call her on the phone she lives kinda far from me what should i do ask her 2 go out with me over the phone or hope she can come to school on friday and ask her ...... what should i say.its kinda stupid to just ask right when you meet her.

2007-02-08 11:06:51 · 6 answers · asked by aznboi2go 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm confused about what my friend thinks of me. I've known him properly for about three months, and we generally hang around in a group, although I do talk to him one to one. Sometimes I get the feeling he likes me. He looks at me and smiles at me a lot. He often sits next to me. If I'm talking to other people he often seems to be listening to what I'm saying, and sometimes joins in with the conversation, commenting on what I've said. He'll remember things I've said to him, or things I've said when he's around from weeks before. He'll always comes over and talk to me when he gets the chance, and sometimes when I'm talking to other people he'll hang around me, as if he wants to talk to me but doesn't have the chance to. He's generally quite shy, and doesn't give much away, so it's hard to tell what he's thinking. What signs should I be looking for? How can I tell whether it's just friendship he wants, or more?

2007-02-08 11:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im just wanting a few opinions from brides here.. Is it best to wear a corset or a torsellete under your wedding dress? Ive heard it you wear a corset with a lace up back it will be seen through the dress similar to lace or any pattern. I just dont want a plain old boring underwear so can someone tell me there experience?

2007-02-08 11:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Weddings

I have been at her school for a year and i kinda think she likes me but im not sure if i should ask her or if something is going on or what. If i do ask her out i think it will be on valentines day.

2007-02-08 11:05:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well im in 8th grade and theres this guy i reallyyyyyyyyyyyyyy like, like alot. were friends and we sit at the same table at lunch with a bunch of other people. i dont know i f he likes me or not like he'll look at me and then when i look at him he'll keep on looking at me for a second and then look away. please help me!! also what do guys look for in girls??

2007-02-08 11:04:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you can answer this question Generally.. or specifically to my situation.. Whatever advice you can give would help immensely! (thanks in advance..) specifically this is what happened.. i fell in love with this guy after getting to know him Really well.. we talked Every day and night for hours on end and he said the absolute Cutest things to me.. i felt like i was the Only girl in the world. things were going great. and we only got to go on Two dates.. one weekend after another for two Great weeks. he held my hand a lot on the last one and gave a Really nice hug. i thought things were going good between us. then he still continued to text and/or talk on the phone every night after that.. and still said he liked me and all that stuff. but then 3 weeks after that i learned that he liked some other girl.. and had liked her for that past 3 weeks.. while continuing to still lead Me on. so basically would you say he played me? but i just cant figure out what went wrong..? did i do something?

2007-02-08 11:04:15 · 14 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

dont tell me madam curie her husband had done everything before he was killed by a cart.

2007-02-08 11:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a sophomore in highschool, and there's a freshman girl I saw who I want to get to know. I haven't really talked to her, but sometimes we make eye contact in the hallways.

I have NO classes with her, and i only see her in between some classes.

Sicne it's just between a few classes, I can't really go up to her because she's with all her friends and we don't get much time to switch classes.

I wanna go up to her, but I can almost never find her during any of the breaks or in the morning or after school.

If I did find her in the morning or after school, how would I say that I've seen her around and think she's beautiful and stuff? It kinda sounds stalker-ish to me. But I'm not sure how else to put it.

Anyone have some adive?

2007-02-08 11:03:53 · 3 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 11:03:42 · 26 answers · asked by broken 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u get ur man to love u again if he loves u too but yall broke up and he loves u but yall are frinz now?

2007-02-08 11:03:32 · 4 answers · asked by ~Jayda~ 2 in Singles & Dating

1 dont have the guts to go through with tellin him how u feel and 2 knowing u cant have a relationship because he lives and works away and there is more to the story ill explsin if u wanna know but u prob dont but bascially im tryin really hard not to text or email him but i end up doin all that i could go on but any who do u know what im on about and have u ever been in this position????

2007-02-08 11:03:15 · 7 answers · asked by misssherlock06 3 in Singles & Dating

We had lunch and we talked and spent about 3 hours together. We talked for a couple of days. I called her last night and left a message. I saw her this morning and she said she got my message and that she would call. But as of now no call. What's up with her?

2007-02-08 11:03:03 · 5 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in this relationship now for 2 years & have fallen in love with this man ... mostly because when I met him, he was a much different person ... he was responsible, had a job, & made his daughter a priority. Here's the timeline:
- His parents passed away & he received an inheritance ... he quit his job 1-1/2 years ago & has not worked since
- He has admittedly "hung out" with a girl he met when he travelled one time -- two weeks after he told me he loved me.
- He has let his finances go ... he now gets collection calls and has let his vehicle get repossessed
- His ex-wife has had to take him to court in order to get him active in his daughter's life again
- We have split up 3 times & gotten back together (with my convincing) -- 2 of these 3 times he slept with his ex girlfriend 4 days after we broke up.
There's much more, but in a nutshell it seems that he is using me ... he says he wants to get married and have a life with me, but I don't seem to be any motivation.

2007-02-08 11:02:56 · 6 answers · asked by anon2009 1 in Singles & Dating