There's this one guy i met my freshman year of college. i was studying for the psych midterm in the library and he asked to study with me. I've had a crush on him since then.
Since then wehnever he sees me we get into a conversation and we seem to have a lot of fun. Now I'm a senior and he's a 2nd year med student. he still goes to the same school. i now occassionally see him. I think I like him and I think I should tell him but I tremble when I want to tell him. I think what held me back was that I occasionally saw a girl with him and I thought he was taken. My friends said that they don't think he's taken.
Now that it is my senior year and I'm about to graduate, and he starts his clinical rotations nest year, I think it's time for me to move on. I want to know whether he likes me or not. He likes me i can establish a long distance relationship. He doesn't like me I can move on.
I know he likes to have lunch at the taco stand on campus. But i also found his e-mail address.
2007-02-08 11:07:05 · 14 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He doesn't know I found his e-mail adress. Should i e-mail him to tell him or bump into him at the taco stand and tlel him?
2007-02-08 11:07:49 · update #1
bump into him
say it has been a while and you'd like to buy him a coffe and catch up on his life/things (as in dating someone).Ask for e-mail (in case something comes up)
get coffee that afternoon and see if he is taken or not ( I bet not, most pre-meds are too busy and poor to date, lol!)
then not taken, offer to make him dinner, if ya can. If not, make up something quick to set up another date. If he isn't too buried in his books, he might notice you like him. Most pre-meds are busy studying and too poor to really date, so food is always a good 'lure". Any guys reading this, ignore it, we are NOT manipulating you all, just helping things along....
Good luck, hope it works out and I hope I helped! dd
2007-02-08 11:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you know he'll be at the taco stand, you manage to be there too. Ask him if you can talk to him for a minute. Tell him that you've really enjoyed studying with him and since you're about to graduate and may not see him again, you were wondering how he would feel if you invited him out (yes, you CAN ask him for a date). If he's taken, he'll politely decline. If he's not taken and is interested in you, too, he'll accept the invitation. Ask him in such a way that if he DOES decline, he can do it without embarrassing you or himself. Don't go the e-mail route - that's a little too "grade school" (as in a note that says Do you like me? Check the yes or the no box) You're an adult who is interested in another adult. No need for reticence. Good luck.
2007-02-08 11:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in person. You may want to e mail him and ask to set a time to get together with him. If he doesn't respond positively then you should assume he has a girl friend. If he does meet you don't be blunt and to the point. Ease into the conversation by telling him you know there will be distance between you soon and you just wanted him to know that you feel attracted to him. let him go from there. Good Luck.
2007-02-14 18:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bump into him at the taco stand. Emailing him might be a bit forward. Then say hey let me give you my email address then maybe we can study together again ....
2007-02-15 13:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him up front. No matter what his answer is, he'll still appreciate your boldness. Besides, if he's been talking to you on & off for a while then he must like you a little. You never know, but maybe he's been trying to work up the courage to ask YOU out! Good luck!
2007-02-08 11:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by smpumpkins3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bump into him and strike up a conversation. Ask him if he wants to hang out or see a movie. If he excepts you're offer then tell him in person when you go out. If he doesn't except I would move on.
2007-02-16 07:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll first go 2 the taco stand.. and somehow.. either:
1. casually ask 4 his email. (and then email him so that it isnt psycho)
or
2. ask him out!! like ask if hes busy on saturday and wants 2 go out 2 eat or something like that.. or the movies... whatever!
its been 4 years!! yeah u should definitely find out! or ull always wonder
2007-02-08 11:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is better to do it in person it is more personal than an email. An e-mail to me is kind of like passing a note in elementary school.
2007-02-08 11:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not email him - that is something a kid would do. Next time you see him alone, start a conversation. Ask him to a movie, or dinner. You don't necessarily have to SAY how you feel, you can show that in your actions.
2007-02-15 05:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bump into him and kiss him!! If he returns the kiss...then you can pretty much bank on the fact that he likes you!! If he doesn't...and pushes you away...well...at least you got to taste his sweet lips!! :o) Good luck!
2007-02-08 11:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by Rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋