im only 15 years old but im so down and no one to ture too ???

Question

i use too talk to my mum but she walk out on me when i was 12 year old i see time to time but i dont now if i cant trust her anymore im so down i dont now wat wrong with me i want to be happy. when i get mad or upset i take it out on my self ive rip same of my hair out and cut my self i have not told anyone befor till i found this site i dont feel safe anymore i dont now what i am going to do next people at school use to call me name when i was younger so i dont now if this is samething to do with it i hate school im in year 10 and cant wait to get out of there ive had 4 boyfriends but the last one i had have cheat on me 6 times andi ive told him back thinking he will not do it again i think im going crazy i need help plzzz sameone help me

Answer 1

What I really hate is when kids get on this site and moan about things like this. I don't hate the kids, I hate the parents. No self respecting person should have a child without being prepared to spend the rest fo their life bringing that child up.

I feel for you girl, I really do. First off. Forget boys. Start thinking about school. You have 1 1/2 years to get back on track. Come out of school with some exams and you will be able to make more choices in life, and will have a better life. You are too young to have serious boyfriends. Think about yourself. You're going to have to stand on your own 2 feet and it seems you have for 3 or 4 years so you're obviously doing a good job without decent support. Harming yourself is a sign of depression and also a sign of wanting to show others how much you hurt. You may have waited a while but you told this site. You must have a passion for something. Animals? Clothes? Music? Think about it then set yourself a goal. How can you get a career in the thing you love? Start talking to the school careers person about it, look stuff up on websites like monster.co.uk then aim for that goal. If you aim for something you really want to do it will help you get out of this rut.

Honestly you shouldn't be in this situation but as your wanker parents haven't helped you and the government couldn't give two sh*ts you will have to do it for yourself. Good luck

Answer 2

You are saying that you are15 yrs. old and you feel sick to put it mildly, and you do not have anyone to turn to. maybe what I am going to tell you might not agree with you but, I will try my best to make you understand that what you are feeling is, rejection from your Mother, when she left you and did not take you with her. What you need is someone that would understand how you feel and help you in some way to make you see that there is sunshine at the end of the rainbow, or hope if you will. Have you talked to a counselor at your School, or someone that you know who can understand your predicament,do not belittle yourself by doing harm to your body, If you need someone who can help you cope with your feelings, please get some information on where you can find a physicologist, some of them can see you free of charge just look them up in your town directory. All you need is to know someone cares what happens to you, and that you are important which you are, no one is the same as you,we, as people are unique in our own way, and do not let anyone belittle you or make you feel like you are no one because you are special, even though you do not think that. You will not find comfort if you keep on hurting yourself, please stop doing that and concentrate on finding your true self, and I am sure that with time you will start to appreciate what you have. Do not let your past boyfriends ruin your life, concentrate on the future, and tell yourself that it was their lose, someone will come your way that will appreciate you because you are you. I might be rambling on, but, I care about you and I hope that you will be able to get some kind of help with your problem.

Answer 3

I think you're definitely at an awkward stage in your life. The pressure of high school and what not is very intimidating, but you've gotta look on the bright side.

There are many many people who's parent(s) walked out on them. Most of the time it's unintentionally, and some of the times, they have to for the good of their children. I mean, adults have problems too and things that you or your father may no be able to resolve. Your mom may have left for a good cause, i don't know the situation, but there are other things you can look to. I know you trusted your mother a lot, and you looked up to her, but you've got to realize that she is gone now, and although you may see her from time to time, you've got to ask yourself if you want this "half-way relationship" with her. It's obviously causing you a lot of psychological damage and perhaps it's best for you to look to someone you trust other than your mother. It's okay to not trust your mom because afterall, she did what she did, but you can't punish yourself over it.

First, you've got to stop hurting yourself. Hurting yourself doesn't solve anything..It may feel "good" and give you an adrenaline rush, but in the end, you're not getting even with anything or anyone. You're only making matters worst by taking it out on yourself. I'm not saying take it out on someone else, but i am saying you've gota to learn to let go, and not let your past hold you back from being what you could potentially become.

I'm sure you're a smart person and you definitely don't need boys to treat you badly either. Don't take him back just because you feel bad. And don't believe what he says. Once is enough.

Don't put yourself through this abuse. Things only happen to you if you let them happen to you.

Answer 4

Honey, you really need to talk to a counselor, which I'm sure they have then at your highschool. You can trust them to help you and keep everything confidential (a secret) that you tell them but you deserve to be happy with your life but it sounds like you have a few issues to deal with. Don't hesitate talk to a counselor at your school tomorrow, there is nothing to be ashamed of either so just do it so you can start getting your life on track.

Answer 5

FIRST off, let me say this: u cannot look for comfort in those with lyin cheatin ways. i am terrably sorry to hear about wat ur mom did. when i was younger alot of things happened to me, my mom kicked me out so she could have friends over. it didnt matter wat time of day it was. i hurt myself in many ways, as i grew to love myself, i learned that i needed lov more than anything and i wanted others to luv me too. this is the most difficult time in ur life, and i cant say that it will be easy once u graduate. wat u need to do is sit down, make a list of goals for urself. at the top u need to have learn to luv urself, u need to understand that u are important, dont date assfuckers/ losers. know ur worth, u are worth more than ur ex's have led u to belive. anyone that cheats on u doesnt deserve u. belive that because its true hun. if u ever need to talk im here jsut im me. everyone gets down in the dumps but u got to learn to pick urself up, i knwo its hard but eventually u will have to grow a tougher outter shell. u dont need to become a b**** but u need to let people know where u stand. i hope this has helped u someway or along the way.

Answer 6

hi
i've been in this feelings before
but not so bad as urs
i think u must come down and think about ur priorities
ur 15 yrs old
u haven't seen anything yet in this huge world
so think about ur study and ur friends
they r the only way to live a life full with happyness
meet a boy or girl friend.
we can be friends if u send me to [e-mail]

Answer 7

Talk to a counselor, I'd love to talk to you online, I've gone through the same thing almost. It'll take too long to explain.
Just talk it out with someone like the girl below.

Answer 8

trun to school and friends and counslers dont hide your feelings im alot like you and i went crazy just find some friends or some one who cares if not try people who are payed and if nothing else you can always come talk to me im here for anyone who needs or wants me help i have been where you are

Answer 9

look i have a friend who come froma broken family. i prayed for her and things went well for a while and then they went down hill. so i suggest a counseler. they relle help. i suggest you get a good. one i know that is better said then done. but you never now. but i will be kepping you in mind. i will be praying for you. if you need someont o talk to email me at [e-mail]

Answer 10

forget the guy. now tell your dad you need to go to a rehab and have therapy. its not as bad as it sounds and people at school will talk, but once you come back maybe you can transpher or something. also i heard that some one whent to rehab and when they came back everyone clapped for them. but hun it will help you soo much.