Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

My boyfriend is 31 and still living at home with momma. We have been going out for almost 3yrs., he stays home all the time. Never comes over. When he is sick or hurt...who takes care of him? Huh need not ask, MOMMA. He recently feel and broke his arm, when his mother arrived, I was told to get out of the ambulance and let her ride, no he didn't stand up for me. The other day when he had his doctor appt. she took off work to take him, I did too thinking I would be the one, I was instead asked to ride along with them...NOT. I passed. He has even missed a Valentines Day to go spend it watching Nascar with his family instead. I have two kids and He Never does anything with us. He acts like a big ol' baby about everthing. My daughter poked him in the eye one time and he held it and nursed it for a intire day and night, no blood spot was there either. I could go on forever. But you all would really be questioning my inteligance. My Question is " Do Momma's Boys EVER GROW UP?????? Is there anyone out there that has seen the miracle of a mommas boy getting off the nip?

2007-02-07 16:21:26 · 10 answers · asked by Desperate to get out of it? 1 in Singles & Dating

They are actually undergoing Divorce with wife and he is actually living with me now eversince! Wife actually forced him to marry him last year and just after a few months, he left her to be with me! The wife actually used him because of his wealth. He was the one who came after me. So many times, I've actually convinced him to go back to wife and try and settle things out, but he refuses and said that he's not happy with her, but he has found new diamension of life with me. His family doesn't like her either! She checks on his personal staff, checks on him, and they seem to fight alot! The wife can't have children, quite sad! And he had actually said things like really wanting to be with me and start a family together! I've tried my best to convince him to leave because i feel that this whole thing is wrong and i really felt for the wife! I'm quite lost as to what to do next! Should i Leave him, because I tried forcing him to he just doesn't want to. Should I just keep him? Confirmatn

2007-02-07 16:17:50 · 20 answers · asked by Ian Smith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so confused about what I want to do with my life. Well actually this happens to me quite often. When I start on something it goes very well for sometime then I start to change track!
My education - Im currently studying Psychology. But all of a sudden I've got this "dream" to become a nurse!...and I've started to belive that I'll be better at nursing etc...but I know, the minute I start on nursing I will lose interest in it.
A feild that I've liked for a long time is disease control. So Im hoping to do my degree in Public health and minor in Psychology. And I was so excited about doing this course and what is more it felt so right. But again "nursing" is in my head and I've started to lose track.
Im not really that interested in nursing, but I do like to do something that involves health. Public Health therefore is ideal for me. But how do I stop changing my mind like this?
I want so badly to get a good education but this is a really big problem for me. Please advise

2007-02-07 16:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by sapphire_wisdom 1 in Friends

someone PLEASE give me some pointers. i really dont want to lose but mostly i dont want a black eye. please dont say "walk away" its not an option.

2007-02-07 16:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do woman likes metrosexual guys??

2007-02-07 16:16:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband deployed a month ago, and its been kind of hard on me espically with me being nine months pregnant and caring for our other two children. I was really relying on my family support and they all promised they would be there if I needed to talk or anything, well since my husband left I've not spoken to my family. They don't answer,they don't return calls or anything. And the one time I did get a hold of my mom, she ended the call in less than 1 minute!! I have 4 sisters, and not talked to any of them. My husbands family calls and checks on us everyday. What should I do? I feel so betrayed!

2007-02-07 16:16:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey guys i was hopin u can help me like u've been helpin me all along. i notice a girl for the first time during my last year of h.s. in witancial h.s,MD . she cute but i really like her personality. even though i only know her for 6 days and really talked for 3 days. i know i make her laugh. my question is how do i know she likes me too since she is one year younger than me and how would like you guys to give me some pointer to both win her heart and give signas that i like her without reavealing to much....

2007-02-07 16:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just sitting in class, minding my own business, looked around, saw a pretty girl with a nice rack, my eyes caught fire...we both made eye contact...i went on to listen to the lecture, when i would look away i can feel that "force" that she is looking at me so i turn and look..she quickly looks elsewehre but then she looks on the side of her eye kinda towards me but more towards the ground, i think she s using her peripherals..and when she does do that, she bites her lip and taps on the table..does that mean anything or is that just my imagination going wild.?

2007-02-07 16:15:18 · 2 answers · asked by Agent [Smush] 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 16:15:07 · 31 answers · asked by macky 1 in Singles & Dating

my frnd has been with a guy 4 yrs n now the guy jst stepped back sayin he feels he was jst attracted n its nt love,kindly comment on their relation

2007-02-07 16:13:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for boys-how many gals u had dated?
how many gals u had kissed or sex?

for gals -how many boys u had dated?
how many boys u had kissed or sex with him?

2007-02-07 16:13:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was thinkin of getting the blue Lacoste but i dont knw which one its better. And i want it to smell like a young guy, not like a grown man if u knw what i mean.

2007-02-07 16:12:14 · 19 answers · asked by Robert R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 16:11:59 · 21 answers · asked by rashida e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you do if a guy ask you to be his girl friend but he has a girl friend but their relationship is no longer doing well...but his girl will not let go of their relationship..this is crazy

2007-02-07 16:11:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-07 16:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know who is he, but he keep sending me short messages this last 3 months. Some about love,wise words, and some just saying hello or telling me that he miss me. I try to reply them n call his number to know who is he, but he never answer it.
I start thinking that he knows me better than anyone else. He knows my activities,my rythm,n my mood n he is very romantic.
Deep inside my heart i enjoy all of his attention n i miss it sometime.
I've told it to my husband, and he said "Never mind" as i done nothing.

The problem came yesterday, he asked me to give him a chance to meet me face to face. He said that he only need one moment, then he will leave.
Even my husband said that i could go but i still confuse. I am curious, but as i said... i enjoy his attention. I afraid he will make me attracted then.

2007-02-07 16:10:29 · 14 answers · asked by Rien 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have friends that meet this criteria and seems hard for most of them to find suitable mates due to their lifes situation.

2007-02-07 16:10:11 · 13 answers · asked by Kill_Me_Now! 5 in Singles & Dating

He already knows I like him; thing is he just broke up with his girl for around 2 months and got rejected like last week when he wanted to go out again.

Im not sure hes ready;

another thing is we are REALLY close friends, we been through alot. Should I still ask him out>?

edit: maybe I should tell you how close we are, we went out as friends like 3 times already and went home faces red off of laughing.

and I always help him deal with his ex when they had problems. I spend time with him alone every morning during school

2007-02-07 16:09:55 · 8 answers · asked by tofueli 2 in Singles & Dating

Uhh...yeah i dont understand why wierd people follow me around all the time.....this wierd stoner kid meets me one day, follows me around, and by the next day hes proclaiming his love for me.......and this has happened like 4 times already........do i just attract freaks or something?!?!?

2007-02-07 16:09:22 · 19 answers · asked by Kaykay 2 in Friends

2007-02-07 16:09:19 · 4 answers · asked by Lee S 1 in Singles & Dating

To have sex that doesn't mean a thing with two different guys the same day but at different times?

2007-02-07 16:09:06 · 14 answers · asked by thegetgo291 1 in Friends

Yeah, she hates me! Andy (my ex) is real immature, but he lives in my neighborhood with his friends Josh and Solen, who happen to be my bff's brothers! So when I go to Allana's house (my bff) her brothers Josh and Solen always invite Andy to come over when I'm there! I've tried being friends with Andy, and it just doesn't work out, and we have to hang out almost everyday when we get invited to their house! So let me tell you about his mom...
I've never ever talked 2 her b4, and when I say,"Hello, how are you?" she ignores me and glares. I feel really unconfortable around her! idk why she doesn't like me! When we go to Allana and Josh and Solens house, we hang outside, and his mom is always out there keeping an eye on me, and I feel real nervous and hated... what should I do?

2007-02-07 16:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy gave you a home made V-day card, would that be a good first impression?
assuming hes never talked to u before but uve seen each other in the halls quite often

2007-02-07 16:05:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... the cruelest way to tease a man?

2007-02-07 16:04:44 · 16 answers · asked by habib122873 1 in Singles & Dating

people who are just made for each other?And how do you know when you meet them?

2007-02-07 16:04:42 · 17 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I have asked a girl on a date, somebody I know, they treat me differently afterwards and they rarely talk to me. I always see girls treat "better looking" guys different then Iget treated. I never had a girlfriend and I am 24 years old. I never understand why I get rejected. I'm told I'm cute from some girls, or I'm sweet and to never change, but then I ask a girl on a date and it's avoid or loserville? I'm the kind of guy that holds doors open for girls and who is a friendly person and I try and get along with most people. What's the problem, and what can I do?

2007-02-07 16:04:40 · 17 answers · asked by psalm42_8 2 in Singles & Dating

Her sisters husband and I dont celebrate...BUT i feel sorry for her sister, so what do i buy?

2007-02-07 16:03:18 · 16 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 16:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Jhary G 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 16:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by josie 2 in Singles & Dating

So I like this guy i work with, but there are a few problems. 1. he is worried about being with a girl after the way his ex crushed him. 2. he is younger than me, not by much, but still younger. 3. he acts differently as work then when he is just with me. 4. i want to ask him out and i do not know if that is okay in a guys eyes.

I do not know what to do. i really like him and i think he likes me back.

2007-02-07 16:01:24 · 25 answers · asked by Double D 1 in Singles & Dating