Yeah, she hates me! Andy (my ex) is real immature, but he lives in my neighborhood with his friends Josh and Solen, who happen to be my bff's brothers! So when I go to Allana's house (my bff) her brothers Josh and Solen always invite Andy to come over when I'm there! I've tried being friends with Andy, and it just doesn't work out, and we have to hang out almost everyday when we get invited to their house! So let me tell you about his mom...
I've never ever talked 2 her b4, and when I say,"Hello, how are you?" she ignores me and glares. I feel really unconfortable around her! idk why she doesn't like me! When we go to Allana and Josh and Solens house, we hang outside, and his mom is always out there keeping an eye on me, and I feel real nervous and hated... what should I do?
2007-02-07 16:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and I still like Andy, so how do I get over him?
2007-02-07 16:16:32 · update #1
talk to her more, she probably thinks you broke her babys heart or took away his innocense or something, if she doesnt get over it try not to worry. you're not with him anymore.
2007-02-07 16:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Have Allana visit you. His mom doesn't need a reason to dislike you. She's a mom and you aren't with her son who she must love and adore so you are the problem not him. Be nice to her when you see his mom somewhere but there is no need to keep popping up around her and getting glared at because you want to see your friend.
2007-02-07 16:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I'm not sure why you care about what she feels if you're no longer with her son. Just ignore that, it's easy to like someone, it's a full time job to hate someone. So just be the bigger person. Of course you greet her whenever you see her, thats only natural, dont mind it if she doesnt reply. At least you've done what's right.
2007-02-07 16:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by diamant152001 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Kill them with kindness! It seems really strange that she would act this way unless she is jealous of you for some reason. Maybe she doesn't trust Allana's choice of friends! Good Luck!
2007-02-07 16:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your ex's mom why she treats you this way or write her a letter. Maybe she thinks you treated her son bad in the relationship. After trying to talk to her and she still refuses just ignore them.
2007-02-07 16:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask this question in as many different ways as you like, but the answer remains the same. Stay the hell away from this mother, who has nothing to do with you what so ever. WHO cares what some lady thinks of you?? Grow the eff up.
2007-02-07 16:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Doug Church 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Show her that you are mature and just ask her why she doesn't like you.
There must be a reason..it could even be a misunderstanding that can be resolved!
I have seen misunderstanding cleared up and friendships form!
2007-02-07 16:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question i would ask your ex is why is it that you never met his mom. and he must have told her some really bad things about you when you two broke up but just ask her what her problem is with you
2007-02-07 16:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They r both immature, just don't worry about either of them have ur fun and to hell with ppl like that ur better than that ne way and it doesnt speak much of her when she acts like that..........
2007-02-07 16:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you care if you don't care bout her son?she just must have just not like you from the start
2007-02-07 16:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋