Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

I have these friends,they're great, and I know I can't expect them to be perfect, but they can be quite condescending they go to this really "hard" school, and look down on my grades like "Oh, all A's? That's nice, but if you went to MY school you'd fail" And I want to scream and say, "No, I get good grades because I apply myself and work my butt off!" but I've never done that. When I say that I have a hard class they say, "Yeah right, as if it's hard as mine." They also refuse to believe that I could get into an Ivy League school because my school isn't as "hard" as theirs. I want to say it's not exactly what school you go to, but what grades you get. And I've had enough, they come and ask ME for help, when according to them their school is so smart, and mine isn't. They love pointing out how far ahead they are of me and I'm tired of it, because all it is is that I try my best to get good grades. How can tell them my good grades are due to my hard work, not because my school is "Easy"

2007-02-06 16:23:27 · 3 answers · asked by LalaLola 2 in Friends

2007-02-06 16:22:53 · 14 answers · asked by answers999 6 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this girl at my high school her parents are really poor and abusive so she never wants to be by them she doesnt have anywhere else to go so she makes deals with a different guy everyday its pretty simple you give her dinner and a place to spend the night and shower and a ride to school she sleeps with you AND is nice to your family

well i brought her home the other night and i know it was just part of her "job" but she totally impressed my family, she was good with my little sister and amazing to everyone and now i think i like her but i dont think shes a relationship girl.

should i tell her how i feel and live wit me or what ?

2007-02-06 16:22:26 · 18 answers · asked by man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just wondering....if you're a typical "pink is my favorite color, especially when it has frills!" girl, or a girl who can joke around and be like 'one of the guys'.....??

2007-02-06 16:22:09 · 15 answers · asked by :] 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating someone for 1.5 mos, most of that time "exclusively". I met his parents & friends, he met mine. We both know we both have opposite-sex friends. Both of us have Yahoo personal ads, but both state "for friends only." 1.5 wks ago he left out of the country with a friend (male) for 2 wks vacation. I thought he would be unreachable and I hadn't heard from him. No biggie. So, I logged on to delete emails from personals & noticed his profile said "active within 24 hrs." I didnt jump to conclusions but I did email that I didnt realize he had internet access & I was dissapointed that he didnt drop a line if he did. I also said, I wanted to talk to him about it when he got back in case there is a misunderstanding. My friends say I was "psycho" just to bring it up? C'mon, I didn't accuse or go off on him, I just expressed dissappointment and said "lets talk about it" please tell me I am not the only one who would at least bring the issue UP if they were in my shoes?

2007-02-06 16:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by Esmeralda 4 in Singles & Dating

how do you get a guy to like you? i like this guy but i dont know if he likes me back. i have know him since 2 grade and he is not the best of friends. we had a guy verse girl fight all year in 4 grade im in 5 grade now.

2007-02-06 16:22:02 · 2 answers · asked by Karibear <3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 16:21:28 · 26 answers · asked by man 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 13+ and i liked a guy recently . his name is dominic, i liked him as he and me had a pure friendship. i dont think he knows that i liked him and i dont know if he likes me too. he seems to like me but also treats me as a kid. he have friendster and he seems to flirt a lot. everytime i see his photo, i would be super happy! i dont think this is infatuation and i know i really liked him. but i am scared if he has a girlfriend or he dont like me. should i tell or shdnt i say. how shd i say it to him? i need a specific answer and i want to resolve this love-thing with him soon. thank you!

2007-02-06 16:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by elaine_lurvbes_yooh 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm the older one, and I have one younger sister. The thing is, we have a completely different characteristics. For example, she likes to listen to rock/rap music while I like to listen to classical/pop. Plus, she doesn't mind if the room was dirty, while I care (although not to a point where I'm a perfectionist)...

Anyway, the list goes on and on. The thing is, we're five years apart, and we don't talk much. My mom keeps complaining that's not the way siblings are suppose to be behaving, but we just don't get along with each other! We each get frustrated by the other one's personality...Is it normal? Or is it because of the age difference?

I would be interested to hear from people who have a sibling with different personalities; some years apart; OR same gender as your sibling.

2007-02-06 16:21:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-06 16:20:56 · 12 answers · asked by nene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 16:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After what age should you just give up on being married. I am thirty and because the wagon came before the horses i feel I will never get married. What is the likely hood that I will marry?

2007-02-06 16:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by nene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is the thing...I need new ideas to get a girls attention What do i do

2007-02-06 16:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by Salvy102 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so I have been married for 11yrs. I for the most part thought things were going welluntil about 3 weeks ago. My husband just basically woke up and said that he was unhappy and that he doesnt feel loved. I am not sure what happened I do know he and a close friend of mine have been talking alot her husband is in Irak. They both swear they are only friends and I think I believe them but it is all to weird. He says he can talk to her and she just listens and doesnt give any advice or an opinion. OK I get that we all need someone to talk to right. I dont know if I am over reacting or under reacting here. It is not like they talk on the phone it is in person at her house sometimes he takes our kids over there to play with her kids we have 5 all together between the two families. Things are going down hill fast and I am not sure if it is because of me or us or maybe her. How to really truely know and when is enough enough.

2007-02-06 16:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by hedda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?

2007-02-06 16:17:54 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

'someone says to another 'i wouldn't be w u if u were fat and if u get fat theres no way i would stay with you"...?

2007-02-06 16:17:49 · 9 answers · asked by M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 16:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by franke 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 16:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 16:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i used to have them and we just used it against each other and it almost cost us everything. Does everyone else feel the same?

2007-02-06 16:15:04 · 7 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-06 16:14:05 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do I/How do I ask out a girl that my best friend is dating, but the relationship is on thin ice?

2007-02-06 16:13:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever somebody close to me is going to die, i don't know how I know, but I just do. I don't think they even know it. Whenever I get that feeling, it's about a week before it happens. I knew it with my grandma, my grandpa, my little cousin, and a few of my aunts and uncles. and some of those weren't even like natural causes. like my grandpa, he fell down the stairs and broke his neck. and that was when i was little. And my little cousin was only 7 years old when he passed away. I was like 8 at the time. I just hate that feeling so much. I don't even know how to explain it. it seems like they look differnt or feel different or i don't know. I hope I never get it again. Is that normal? Does anybody else ever feel that way?

2007-02-06 16:13:09 · 5 answers · asked by xeno 1 in Family

There's this kid John and he found out that i liked him yesterday. He wasn't to thrilled but I want to ask him to the Valentine Dance on Friday. Only one problem I dont know how! If he goes to the library tomorrow I'm going to talk to him and I was hoping to bring up the subject of the dance then and then ask him. But I've never asked a guy to a dance before, and I want to. I really like him but I don't know how to ask him. Help!!!???

2007-02-06 16:12:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is a very busy man and travels alot. Hes always very serious and aggressive at work and thats how he is with me, so cold. But when I do get to see the other side of him, I love that. We had good moments together. He did say he's serious abt me. However, he rarely calls and hates it when I 'bother' him whether he is in the office, outside or overseas. When I voice out my concerns he said im being unreasonable, demanding and childish . I dont want to have negative thoughts but I cant read his mind, what he wants and cant get use to this cold treatment. Im a very affectionate person but hes actions make me feel less important at times and this would eventually drive me away. I do love and want to be with him. Maybe its his nature and maybe he has other ways of showing affection which is so hard to tell. How do I break this 'big piece of ice' without giving wrong signals and damage the relationship further.

2007-02-06 16:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Sheri 1 in Singles & Dating

That isn't the normal, name date bs. I want one that asks funny questions so my guests can pass it around during the reception and me and my fiancee can read it and get a good laugh.

2007-02-06 16:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by starzzdcay 1 in Weddings

2007-02-06 16:11:03 · 13 answers · asked by Rick O 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married eight months now and I am considering divorce, but I also have thought that we might qualify for an annulment. He has refused to have sex with me at all during our marriage and we have absolutely no intimate contact of that nature. We had sex only once on our honeymoon only after me making a hysterical scene in the hotel room and threatening to go get drunk somewhere if he didn't. We both live in Ohio and have one child together from before the marriage. Thank you for any information on this matter!

2007-02-06 16:09:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been separated for 18 months. In 6 more months (according to the state that I reside in) I can file for a complete divorce. I drive by the place he resided at about once per month since I moved out. When I drove by in December he was still living there (car parked outside furniture on patio, drapes in windows etc.) Now since January I have been driving by and now there aren’t any drapes, patio furniture or his car there. In fact I can see straight inside from the parking lot and the place is totally empty. I can’t serve him papers unless I find him … I don’t know where he works and we have no mutual friends. What do I do? Even if I could find his phone # (I doubt he has one) he wouldn’t tell me his address anyway so that I can serve him with papers! I don’t want to get a lawyer involved b/c I don’t have that kind of money.

2007-02-06 16:09:24 · 10 answers · asked by msu_milk_chocolate 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've thought about writing a cute little Valentine card, as this would be a good time to break the ice. Any suggestions?

2007-02-06 16:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by "Stacia" 1 in Singles & Dating