Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

Well, here it goes. For 5 monthes of our relationship he has been cheating on me with 7 different girls online. (cybering, trying to get two of them down here, telling them he loves them, and stuff like that.) Well, the way i found out was went through his yahoo achives. I was shocked and when i asked him about all of it. He said" I didnt think online was cheating". Im so confused! I love him to death,he means the world to me, i fell like i cant live without him, and he hasn't recently cheated on me but im worried he might do it again. What should i do???

2007-01-30 09:18:01 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when your taking the back route and you run into an obstacle?

2007-01-30 09:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 and ive been with my boyfriend now since we were back in school and i love him soooo much he has been there for me through everything and he is wonderfull ... but i was wondering do you think that because im 17 its too young for me to be in love?? i dont think so but some of my friends think its really young... :S but what does that matter

2007-01-30 09:17:21 · 9 answers · asked by *!*Rach H*!* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i recently got back in contact with a guy i use to go to school many years ago.the first week we got back in touch he was calling a whole lot now its been a month and he hardly calls but like once or twice a week.we had a discussion about it and he he blames it on working 2 jobs and i feel its just an excuse because if he made time before he should be able to do it now.he says he does care and wants us to stay in contact but i dont feel important or like a priority at all,and another things that bothers me is whenever he does care enough to call hes asking to spend time with me.im contemplating just cutting him off completely.should I?

2007-01-30 09:16:58 · 2 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Singles & Dating

Look in my profile and see the question i asked about "I feel so guilty". Well I called him but I don't really know his phone number, i looked in the phone book and there was a lot of people that shared his last name. He hasn't been to school for days now since he got beat up. What should I do?

2007-01-30 09:16:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am almost 19 and still living at home, yet my parents dont let me do that much and I still have a 12 o clock curfew. Though Ive been resposible with having a good job and having great grades in college my parents still wont trust me fully. they dont seem to understand that I am ambitious and that if something in my work or school start falling I will remedy it. Also my dad talks to me like I dont know anything, he constantly explains things over and over to me that I already know. He not only does this to me but to the rest of my family. How can I fix these problems?

2007-01-30 09:16:16 · 9 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family

whats your thoughts based on todays society and your beliefs and stuff.

2007-01-30 09:16:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is small, 3 kids wood love 2 get in contact with her as was good friends and lost my fone with her contact details.

2007-01-30 09:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1.asks for a candy cane
2.eye contact during class
3.eye contact when leaving school
4.sister asks about rumors about me

Do u think she likes me???
what do i do for valintines day??

2007-01-30 09:15:42 · 1 answers · asked by Sammyo 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this kid that my mom HATES and my dad thinks is an idiot. OK, well he is. Plus he treats my like a FREAK! But he is kinda cute. Should i go for it?

2007-01-30 09:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by wtfff =3 3 in Singles & Dating

i allways seem to endup with the same realsonships with woman i really care about but that dont have anything in comman with.i want to find a woman to marry and start a family with am 29 now and not geting any younger. where are some good places to meet single woman?

2007-01-30 09:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by dekers 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so frustrated! My husband and I have been together for four years. He really gets off on being degraded, and it's getting more extreme lately -- most times we have sex, it has to involve locking him up in a chastity device, or chaining him to something, or if we're having "vanilla" sex, it always comes back to my having to talk out an imaginary scenario for him. I consider myself open minded and sexually giving, so I'm willing to do this stuff sometimes, but I'm frustrated because I find degradation a big turn-off and he finds it arousing. I don't want to be a dominatrix, just a mutual loving partner. I pretend I'm enjoying it, and I play along, but I really can't get into this stuff and I feel like it's taken over our entire sex life. I just can't stand the power dynamic of degradation. I'm an attractive woman, but I feel like he's more aroused by devices and scenarios than by me. When I tell him how I feel, he says these are his needs and I should be there for him. Help!

2007-01-30 09:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by sevenparakeets 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tell tell signs 1. went over my girlfriend house without telling me to take her children and his nephew out. he used the children as his scapegoat.
2. does not like me to call him alot.
3. hangs up phone in my ear and turns off cell phone so i wont keep calling.
4. to avoid an arguement one time left and stayed out all night and did nt tell me where he stayed.
5. said that both of us needed to focus on god more and stayed out for 4 nights in a row.
6. one time b4 he said god told him to bless a woamn at church. he gave her some money and took her shopping without me
7. he doesnt respect what makes me uncomfortable as a wife

am i bugging or whatz really up?

2007-01-30 09:14:45 · 8 answers · asked by crystal h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like this one guy that i liked just told me he first had sex at age 11!! he also said he had marawanna(weed) when he was 13 but didnt smaoke it b/c he didnt want to get high.he seems to be a real bad boy.should i go out with him?

2007-01-30 09:13:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months now. We love each other we make each other very happy.
The problem is that I am her first for sex, and now that's all she wants to do. I know as a guy I shouldn't complain but I just don't want a relationship based on that, because I know from experience what kind of problems it causes

2007-01-30 09:12:07 · 24 answers · asked by Kevin 3 in Singles & Dating

can anybody tell me if it's possible to have a wet dream, even though you are 30 years old ???

2007-01-30 09:11:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost my father in young age.Therefore,I have more responsibility to arrange and settled sisters marriages.Age
reached 39years.I could not find suitable girl in my Caste.
Rejected girl like poor beauty,or divorce this type of Hrpe
only come. What to do?leave it.the marriage proposal?or give your advice in practical life in my position?

2007-01-30 09:11:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We both are 19, year into knowing each other and 8 months into relationship. We both care about each other very much! AND I LOVE HER TO DEATH!!

Every single day, I look forward to talking to her when she gets back from school. I put off everything when she's on, and give her my full attention. The only thing that makes my days go my is thoughts about her and thoughts about talking to her. I have given myself completely to her. I have opened myself completely to her, and I live for her.

Wouldn't you get sad if you waited to do something the whole day, thinking about every passing second, and then not happening?

2007-01-30 09:11:23 · 13 answers · asked by abe_cooldude 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 09:10:57 · 13 answers · asked by GREATJJ 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend dumped me cause he said that i was too clingy and that he was f***d up in the head.

2007-01-30 09:10:47 · 15 answers · asked by brandi c 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband flirts with all kinds of women and I always was the type to think it's wrong to flirt when you're married. Recently I have been drawn to a hunky friend of his. Should I flirt too (like my husband does) or stay away? My husband is overweight and won't take care of himself and I do take care of myself. What do you think?

2007-01-30 09:09:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had been having problems now, been married 1 year and she blames me, im a great guy treats her like a princess and do anything possible to make our lives better, but she says shes not happy so she decided to buy a place under my name, but i helped her because i cared and now i find out shes been cheating on me with her ex boyfriend and sending him love letters. so should i confront her and kick her to the curb and kick her out of the house?

2007-01-30 09:09:14 · 19 answers · asked by MelF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend nikki is a big poser and to be honsest I hate her!!But she knows everything! about me like who i like and stuf and i am scared if I tel her th truth she wil spread so many rumors about me through my middle school(8th grde) wat should I do??HELP!

2007-01-30 09:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by if only he knew 2 in Friends

hi ok i have split with my bf missin him loads and laods, this guy i new is much older he is 27 and im 20 he has also split with his gf and tels me to go out have fun for get my ex, he asked me out for a drink with him to meet his mates down pub is this a date ? or he jus caring ? i muck round saying il come over yours soon stay the nite he goes no as others wil get wrong idea, but he chats to me so qucik on msn wonts to now how i am we find each other funny, i dont wont to get with him as i am mates with his ex i was mates with both of them and he jus said to me wel ok u no were i am if u need me! i said what do u mean for a chat or lol as i no wer eu live beware to make it a joke he goes exclaty bi and log off what he wont? i like em a bit

2007-01-30 09:08:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am intrested in a guy from online, I meet him once , and we are not in touch for sometime now , what's the best way to ask or contact him to know if he is intrested ? I'm shy .
do girls commanly ask guys it they are intrested ?

2007-01-30 09:08:26 · 9 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Singles & Dating

Hoping to find some other people that have been in a similar situation. Looking for some advice.

I've been with my boyfriend since I was 16 years old. We've lived together since I was 18.

We're now 23 years old, and we own a home together. Things are good, but I can't shut off the curiosity in my head of what it's like to be "grown up" and single. I often wonder if maybe it's important to live on my own, and be single for awhile before I make a huge commitment like marriage. At the same time, I'm scared of losing my boyfriend as result of that choice.

I really don't want to hurt my boyfriend. But I also don't want to be full of regret 10 years down the road, married and with kids.

Anyone advice? Thanks a bunch!!

2007-01-30 09:08:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 09:06:57 · 11 answers · asked by J H 1 in Family

The guy that I like,finally started showing signs that he liked me too.He did me simple little things,and he would wait for everyone to leave except for me and him.I always caught him looking at me.Well,neither one of us took a chance,and some other girl did.Their going out now,they have been for 4 months.I still catch him looking at me,but rarely.If I start paying him more attention,will he like me again if he dont anymore?If I asked him out,when he and his girlfriend are over,do you think he'll say yes?Guys,if you like a girl,and then get over her,if she asks you out after youve moved on,would you go out with her?

2007-01-30 09:06:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a serious and committed relationship for 2 years. There was so much about the relationship that was amazing, there were times I truly thought I wanted to marry him. He wanted to marry me, but I broke up with him in the end. It was really painful, and we saw each other a couple times after breaking up and reconnected. Each time he asked me to reconsider, and each time I said no because I still couldn't see myself marrying him. The biggest issue was that he is bipolar and wouldn't seek counseling to resolve some ongoing issues he had. He denied they were issues, but I was hurt over and over again because of various problems he had. Anyways, there were alot of good things, but in the end the bad things outweighed the good.
So now, I haven't talked to him in 8 months and i'm still not over him. I miss him, care about him, and still feel romantically about him. My question is: how long will it take for me to get over him? And does it mean something that I can't?

2007-01-30 09:05:41 · 15 answers · asked by OceanLovah 1 in Singles & Dating

and how much they mean to me?

2007-01-30 09:05:32 · 12 answers · asked by me 2 in Family