My friend nikki is a big poser and to be honsest I hate her!!But she knows everything! about me like who i like and stuf and i am scared if I tel her th truth she wil spread so many rumors about me through my middle school(8th grde) wat should I do??HELP!
2007-01-30 09:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by if only he knew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am in 8th grade too and I think you should leave her alone if it doesn't affect you. But if you think that someone really needs to tell her off, doing just that and telling her she's a poser and needs to grow up will be enough of an embarressment to her. She'll get mad and start rumors or whatever, but just make it known that she really is a poser.
2007-01-30 09:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how much do you know about her that she doesn't want people to know. If she wants to keep her secrets secret then she won't say a word most likely.
Ahhhh, to be young again with no real big problems.
Not coming down on you with that statement or anything....just know don't worry about things like that. Just enjoy your youth while you have it. I'm only 24 and I feel old b/c of life. Just....enjoy these days you live now. K?
2007-01-30 17:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, your in 8th grade. so doesnt matter what you do really. friends come and go, secrets are nothing in middle school, you guys are about to meet new people and seperate either way in high school.
so, just dont hang with her if you want and just tell her its time to go seperate ways but you enjoyed being her friend.
if she decides to spread stuff, let it be, and back yourself up.
just shows she's not mature and you are. and be mature to tell her how you feel than be in a fake relationship in which one hates the other, no communication. talk to her also if you do decide to keep the relationship
2007-01-30 17:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're afraid to tell her personal things, then don't. Better yet, if you don't like her, then don't be her friend. You're setting yourself up for something bad. She could black-mail you with all the information she has on you, but I wouldn't worry about it. All that middle school stuff is all drama. Just hold your head high & don't care what anyone thinks. If she starts rumors, deny them. Tell them that she just doesn't like you & thought of making up stuff about you. Just don't be her friend.
2007-01-30 17:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's impossible to get out of and i'm sorry either you'll have to deal with the rumors and hope ur true friends stick with you or learn to bear nikki. that's why you never ever tell secrets that matter unless it's to ur bff.
2007-01-30 17:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by m&m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares after u graduate u really don't see any of your friends they all go their separate ways and besides your only in The 8th grade you have a while left so just tell her what u think and besides u do have other friends don't u.
2007-01-30 17:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y'know back in my day if we wanted to be cool we spelled it "poseur"
i'm still not sure why. probably because i grew up and stopped acting like a four-year old.
just thought you might like to know
with regard to your question, do you really think you'll have to piss her off? can't you just sort of slooowwly distance yourself from this person?
or, if that's too wussy for you: YOU start spreadin' **** about HER first! that way when she hits back, she sounds like she's just crazy and trying to get back at you. who cares if its true or not?!
2007-01-30 17:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging out with her..start avoiding her and get busy with extracurricular activities...eventually you two will grow apart...just don't be hostile and let nature slowly and amicably separate you two
2007-01-30 17:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Curiously 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging out with her. Stop worrying about what others think. Stop it, stop it, stop it. If they are lies, just tell people she's full of it, it it's the truth, just look at people and say "So. What are you going to do about it?"
2007-01-30 17:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and if she says any rumors then you start worse ones too.
2007-01-30 17:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋