my boyfriend dumped me cause he said that i was too clingy and that he was f***d up in the head.
2007-01-30 09:10:47 · 15 answers · asked by brandi c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the sound of things, you should be happy he broke-up with you. What kind of guy gives an excuse like the one he gave you? Maybe he is screwed up. RUN!!!!
2007-01-30 09:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He called me the next day "to see if you're OK", and I was like, "yeah, actually, thank you for letting me out of this". (It was mutual anyway, but it still kicked his ego down a couple notches.) In your case, if it's mutual (even the tiniest bit), make it clear. If it's less than mutual, act like it is and just have fun and do things you never have before like a hobby you've been wanting to try-it takes your mind off of him and it gives you a new fun thing to do. Make sure that you give off vibes that you're better off without him, cuz, you probably are. Think of all the things that he did that upset you, but were too scared to say to him for fear of losing him...now you can think for yourself and be any way you want to be. Grow from this. Move on. You'll find someone who actually deserves to be with you. =)
2007-01-30 09:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm just out of a relationship, I usually spend one day with just icecream and movies, crying it all out, then the next day I spend some extra time getting "pretty" and act a bit more flirty with guys, and go out to new places to meet new people. It's really hard to want to get out there...but I just remind myself "why would I want to be with some dude who just left me? Obviously he sucks.."
Let's face it, you're probably pretty awesome, and he's just stupid. Let some other guy enjoy what he'll be missing!
2007-01-30 09:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mellissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just answered a question like this to someone else. Message to all girls:STOP BEING SO CLINGY!!! MEN HATE IT!!!!
2007-01-30 09:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by cloud10muzik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on as there are other fish in the sea to pick from. best to listen to what he is saying to u, and accept it as being what he is truly feeling. if it were me i would distance myself, to beg and plead just cheapens u and won't win his heart back.
2007-01-30 09:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to let go. It might hurt and you'll prolly resent him, but don't think about it at all. He sounds like a dick.
2007-01-30 09:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept that you have been dumped and move on with your life.
2007-01-30 09:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on ,there is always someone else out there for you.
2007-01-30 09:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by lynda w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some "me time". Concentrate on you and have fun in life.
2007-01-30 09:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by JK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and eat ice cream
2007-01-30 09:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Vin R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋