I am almost 19 and still living at home, yet my parents dont let me do that much and I still have a 12 o clock curfew. Though Ive been resposible with having a good job and having great grades in college my parents still wont trust me fully. they dont seem to understand that I am ambitious and that if something in my work or school start falling I will remedy it. Also my dad talks to me like I dont know anything, he constantly explains things over and over to me that I already know. He not only does this to me but to the rest of my family. How can I fix these problems?
2007-01-30 09:16:16 · 9 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No one ants to hear it, but your parents are trying to make you a responsible person. I used to feel the same way, but now my friends who were given free reign of they're lives are failing college, working at a fast-food restaurant and have no money saved because they spend it all on booze. I am 24 now, and am working for a huge corporation, with my own house, my own car and a great income, because my parents got me into good habits and helped me learn with thy're experiences. If you feel like he is talking down, maybe you should try bringing the conversation up to an adult level. And they tell you over and over to amke sure that you don't make the same mistake they are telling you about. They aren't trying to hurt, they're trying to help. I promise.
2007-01-30 10:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Living for today and a good wine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad sounds like he is either very over protective or is too domineering. If he is a good dad he is just being a concerned parent. The world is a dangerous place for a young woman. Some parents just want to keep their kids from growing up. When their children grow up, sometimes a parent feels like they are no longer needed, making them feel useless and that can hurt. Give your dad some time and don't give him any reasons not to trust you.Try and talk to your parents about how you feel. If you continue to ex cell they will see that you are trustworthy.
2007-01-30 09:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
touching directly to the privateness difficulty, communicate approximately him! enable him understand the way you sense on that ingredient. As for the themes of the place he shops.... He makes no longer something!!!! He desires a greater valuable interest or to artwork 3 jobs. in line with threat your mom has given him reason to suspect her from something in her previous, till now they had babies or married. that's why he shops so thrifty. He has no longer ran out on you all, so i assume in that admire be satisfied you have a father. i do no longer only like the reality that he stole your password, your an person yet once you reside at homestead and have him paying your expenses, you're able to desire to go out in case you want privateness.
2016-11-23 14:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by trebil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
I really think you should sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel, you have nothing to lose.dont wait till tommorrow do it today! i think they are stuck in their old days or maybe you are the only girl
I can understand where you are coming from, my dad bitches abd bitches about everything and thats the only way he can solve things. If nothing changes, save enough money and move out, once you are comfortable, and dont look back.
2007-01-30 09:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by goose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 51 years old, my dad died this summer, and when I was around him I was still 10 years old, he talked to me like I was in kindergarten. Learn to live with it, he won't change, get out on your own as soon as you can, get a roomate or move to the dorms.
2007-01-30 09:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. As long as you live under your parent's roof, with your parent's supporting you financially, you have to live by their rules. If you don't like it, then move.
It's also harder for your parents to realize you're grown up when you're still living at home. If you move out, and start working to support yourself, they're realize you ARE an adult.
2007-01-30 09:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and show them you're not a child like they think you are.
2007-01-30 09:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok! whatever ur dad what saying with u.u just hear about what are ur dad said it la.n u don't be unhappy.make ur face happy for everyday ok!god are alwys bless u.
2007-01-30 09:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and be your own woman.
2007-01-30 09:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋