do you think my husband is cheating?

Question

tell tell signs 1. went over my girlfriend house without telling me to take her children and his nephew out. he used the children as his scapegoat.
2. does not like me to call him alot.
3. hangs up phone in my ear and turns off cell phone so i wont keep calling.
4. to avoid an arguement one time left and stayed out all night and did nt tell me where he stayed.
5. said that both of us needed to focus on god more and stayed out for 4 nights in a row.
6. one time b4 he said god told him to bless a woamn at church. he gave her some money and took her shopping without me
7. he doesnt respect what makes me uncomfortable as a wife

am i bugging or whatz really up?

Answer 1

Can we say, CONTROLLING?????? Your man is very controlling. I've been through almost everything you listed above, Girl, and let me ask, how long have you been in this? Don't be like me, and sit stagnating in it for 8 or 9 years because "you love him". His heart is NOT with you. His heart, and prolly other things are all over the place. You said it in number 7. He doesn't respect you as a wife. My advice? Move on, before you waste too many years being heartbroken over this loser. You'll gray fast, be all stressed out and for what? For someone that really doesn't care how you feel.

Answer 2

dude... he has to be cheating. No child of God is gonna stay out all night and not tell his wife where he is! He is obviously making this up for an excuse. I have been cheated on plenty of times and these were all the things my ex use to do! And most importantly if he doesn't respect what makes you uncomfortable then he needs to go! Talk to him about it... i'm sure he will deny but just look at his reaction when you ask. Check his cell phone for outgoing,receiving, and missed calls. You could always follow him to see where he goes...lol. But obviously if you have doubts and he is disrespecting you then i would seriously re-evaluate your situation... you have to do what's best for you

Answer 3

I don't think you have "smoking gun" type evidence, but it appears as though it is more likely than not that he is cheating.

Do not confront him, yet. Doing so now without sufficient evidence will only make him go further underground and more efficiently cover his tracks.

If he is cheating, he will eventually slip up, make a mistake, and blow his cover. Until that happens, just hope that you are mistaken.

Answer 4

I belive that you are extremely confrontational and like to argue and he's just avoinding having to fight with you over and over again. What you describe doesn't fit the pattern of a cheater in my book.

Maybe is time for some marriage couseling so you learn to communicate withour arguing, pointing fingers, over analizing and accusing him of cheating.

Good luck

Answer 5

hahah hes cheating hunny and if not hes doing something thats not a husband thats just a guy u talk to everyonce in a while tell him if he dont tell u whats goin on ur marriage wont work girl come on do u really wanna be with someone like that??

Answer 6

Damn...you must really have low self esteem for him to do all this to you and you are still like, "Ummm...is he cheating? I don't know..." Get yourself a back bone and stand up for yourself. You deserve better, listen to your instincts. He is only getting away with it because you are letting him. If you are not happy, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, don't just let your life go by and continue - eventually when he's tired of you he will dump you and move on to some other stupid girl.

Answer 7

maybe you are just naggy and he decided to stay away from you or else you would just nag him to death

Answer 8

i never herd of such story before....wow