Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

i have been with my bf for 10 years, since i was 15, we have 2 kids and he works full time. i take care of the kids full time.

he never spends any time with our kids at all, when he comes home from work or the gym he sits in front of the computer or the telly in our bedroom. he dosent eat with us either he sits up the stairs. if our daughter needs her bum changed then he shouts me. i do everything in the house and for him and the kids he dosent help me out at all, he thinks because he works that he dosent need to do anything that everything is my job and i should be grateful to him for providing for the family. he is in a good paying job and we get working tax credits, although he only pays for the rent, council tax and the shopping, and electricity. i recieve 45 pounds in child tax credits for my girls and i have to pay the gas, the phone, the internet and clothes and nappies and anything else my girls need. i never go out, he speaks to me like im beneath him.

2007-01-26 09:25:51 · 27 answers · asked by jenniflower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and 4 of my friends are getting a jacuzzi suite at a hotel 2night with 5 girls that we've never met before. Is this a waste of money, or should we all freak out?

2007-01-26 09:25:23 · 19 answers · asked by cloud10muzik 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 09:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by naiveandyoung 1 in Singles & Dating

Today was the best day for me...and yet the most confusing. I have chosen to go to Bloomsburg University Located in PA in the fall of 2007. I went up there with my boyfriend today...we live about 6 hours away we left early this morning drove up there i payed and everything is done! I'm so excited...but...i don't feel my boyfriend is. When we went up there he kind-of "complained" he said that it was taking to long and wasting his day. he then said that bloomsburg in his opinion wasn't the type of college he would attend. When i finally made my decision and payed and registered and knew that i was 100% positive that i was going there he became REALLY QUIET....he didn't say much the whole car ride home. The only thing he did say was how he had planned to go to a local college near our house for his first year then transfer. When we got home he hugged me said congratulation's and then left...
why is he acting this way? he should be happy for me! He complained today it made me feel bad..

2007-01-26 09:25:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

am cute and annoying right now and how should i change so girls like me?
EX: Jock
EX: Sweet

2007-01-26 09:24:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are they into 20 years old boy from saudi arabi LOL !!
i jsut wanna be R I C H !! and hey not cause im from saudi arabia doesnt mean im rich ok ?!


so rich ladies. the older the better . please just tell me where i can find them lol

and dont go like ' aww all arabs are like that" thats just me dont blame it on the whole arab nation. GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-26 09:24:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a great voice, and I have done ^^that^^
The guy seemed to love it. But I want to know, if I sing to you would you think it is weird or not

2007-01-26 09:24:13 · 2 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm with this really cute guy we been togther for only 2 years . I love him a lot and he loves me too , he ask me If I want to do sex I said I don't know , I want to but I can't you know I'm only 15 gosh!!!!!!!! by the way he's 17 so yeah

2007-01-26 09:23:43 · 6 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

.my sister in law always helps her family by asking my brother for help..financially or through our friends whom I personally hesitate to bother.
last year her sister's husband had some trouble with the law and my brother came to ask me to ask my friend's husband who was a lawyer for help.
her broher's wife was pregnant and wanted to deliver in a hospital and is asking my SIL in advance if my brother can help by asking us to save money for hospital bills..
My mother one time had a health check up and my Brod on their visit to my mom had my SIL checked up as well that I had to pay for them both.

2007-01-26 09:23:37 · 3 answers · asked by CYRILLE102 2 in Family

Or is everyone here just another frustrated opinionated social outcast?

2007-01-26 09:22:54 · 10 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Friends

I'm 16 soon to be 17 in less than a month. I can barely stand being at home anymore. i have a baby due at the end of next month and my mom still acts like she doesnt ahve to do anything. My boyfriends/ fiancee lives with hiw gparents and they ahve bought just about everything we have for this baby. The bed the stroller/carseat clothes bottles and ive bought a few things myself. My mom says i need to be buying stuff but i have no job and she doesnt pay me for anything i do around the house. Yet my 7 year old brother gets new toys and money for passing his spelling tests and other stupid things and when i do the dishes or watch him or anything around the hosue i dont get anything, much a less even a thanks. My boyfriends grandparents have already said im welcome to come live there and we've even tlaked about changing the garage into living quarters for me my bf and the baby.I need to know if i even qualify for emacipation. My mom treats me like crap and i dont get half the things i need.

2007-01-26 09:22:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

weve been going out for about a month. I know most girls get chocolate or flowers, but they never really "tell" you what guys get.

2007-01-26 09:21:29 · 25 answers · asked by snorerms 1 in Singles & Dating

He is my best friend and we have been freinds since we were 5 and ive been starting to feel that i like him more than a freind.

2007-01-26 09:21:04 · 6 answers · asked by speak 1 in Friends

I met a guy from an on-line dating service and he seems normal and like a guy I'd like to get to know. When I signed up for this service, I had absolutely no expectations, but large reservations about the creeps that are online. Honestly, I didn't expect to run into someone I'd actually like (sounds stupid... I already know!) I'd like to meet him in person, but am extremely paranoid. What would you do? Any advice/suggestions? Have you ever done this type of thing before? Serious answers please.... :)

2007-01-26 09:20:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my school that I have a huge crush on, but I can't date him for 2 reasons that I don't want to mention here.

He is sooo hot and so irresistable, and even though I try to convince myself that he is a jerk and that he is not right for me, I can't help but to fall inlove even more with him!!
I can't avoid to see him everyday, cuz we go to the same school, and I can't help but to always cross with him at the cafeteria or at a corridor.

What should I do to get over him?? Please help me!!

2007-01-26 09:20:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 09:20:21 · 30 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was raised a very controlled person. My brother also, really tended to pick on me. Now that we are in our 30's, my brother still makes fun of me. He thinks it is funny, but it hurts my feelings. He wrestles and plays rough with my kids and when I ask him to stop, he won't, and just keeps being rough with them. Whenever I ask him to stop doing something, he blames me for being sensitive or stubborn. We have alot of fun and joke around alot. We can get along really good if I play by his rules and let him pick on me. The last straw was when he started doing this to my kids. At Christmas he was wrestling with them. They said 'stop' and he didn't. They got hurt and I gave him crap and he lashed out at me and blamed me. I emailed him saying what the new bounderies would be and he emailed back really mean. So I told him that until he can show repsect he is out of our lives. Did I do the right thing? I know he has a point of view to.. but if I have hurt feelings... I think that is valid.

2007-01-26 09:20:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-26 09:19:42 · 9 answers · asked by J-Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 09:17:55 · 2 answers · asked by frogbfound 4 in Friends

I'm 36 years old and have never met my biological father. I spoke to him when I was 20 years old because a friend/co-worker took it upon herself to locate him because she knew I wanted to eventually find him...and she did this without my knowledge. She left a message on his home answering machine, stating that she's MY friend and asked him to call her at work. She told me after she did it what she'd done. Three days later he called our office and I happened to answer his call. I apologized and explained why she did this and told him that I only wanted to meet him and didn't expect anything in return...that I'm curious. I asked if his wife and family heard my friend's message and he said she did. All he had to say was "I've been through one divorce and I don't want to go through another, so I think we ought to leave things the way they are". I got really mad and said "FINE !!!" and slammed down the phone. My boss let me leave early. I never heard from him again.

2007-01-26 09:17:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 14 year old guy... and I am very close with a friend who many of our inner circle to be anorexic. At lunch, she does not eat anything, and she constantly tells us how at home she also does not eat much, if anything at all.

However, the real problem is this: one of us refuses to believe that this girl is anorexic. Recently, five of us went to our guidance counselor and put forward the issue that we are worried about our friend, the anorexic. However, we did not include the girl that refuses to believe our friend is anorexic, because she is too immature to understand what is really going on.

Now, the friend that denies our other friend has an eating disorder is outraged that we did not include her, and she also is angry that we would "go behind (the girl who has an eating disorder)'s back."

To make matters worse, the girl who denies our friend has an eating disorder is also my ex-girlfriend (we just broke up recently), and she has also suffered from bulimia.

Can anyone help?

2007-01-26 09:17:33 · 18 answers · asked by benjymg92london 1 in Friends

How do i tell a guy i luv him so much?? I am so afraid of wat he'll say back! HELP!

2007-01-26 09:16:57 · 15 answers · asked by ChocoLatte092 1 in Singles & Dating

Women with regard to penis size what do you consider to be small,average and above average/well endowed?

If you believe size matters what is your ideal size and what is too small and if you dont believe size matters just say so.

No essays please! :)

PS
(Or if you are a guy I guess give your real size if you want)
And give measurements please.

2007-01-26 09:16:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend Lisa is really making me mad! She is always being such a darma queen! There was a fist foght today (AND I GO TO A CATHOLIC SCHOOL!) and she started to cry for no reason, she always has to be the center of attetion!!! So we were walking home one day and my dad called and asked if we wanted a ride home from my sister and her boyfriend, I said yes. So then I told her that my sisters boy firend is picking us up. She got all defenceive and kept saying "Well its against the law for someone 18 years or younger to be driving with more than 1 non-family member. And i told here that, that law wasnt passed yet and she said that she didnt want to come home with me and so i said to her, "If you want you can walk to your house" So she did and now i dont want her to come over because she is annoying me, and now she is mad at me that i said to her that i was buys tonight. I feel like i cant have any other frineds with her around. I need advice!!!

2007-01-26 09:16:36 · 12 answers · asked by . 3 in Friends

Anybody got anything cool they'd like to say?

2007-01-26 09:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by blah123456 1 in Friends

Honey, is that you? Are you following me around removing my having an affair questions?

You shouldn't do that. You know how it upsets me. I'll be home late from work again, so don't wait up.

2007-01-26 09:15:46 · 4 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

just friends.. nothing more. no benifits. and they are both straight.

2007-01-26 09:15:44 · 10 answers · asked by Shana 2 in Friends

What would you think I was trying to do if I followed it up with a general fun conversation?

But what would you think if instead I followed it up with a fun conversation but instead of it just being fun I added things like "your beautiful" and asked questions about what kind of things you liked to do and stuff like that. Then what would you think I was trying to do?

2007-01-26 09:15:26 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 09:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by Amber S 1 in Singles & Dating

thanx

2007-01-26 09:14:23 · 2 answers · asked by jgal 2 in Friends