My friend Lisa is really making me mad! She is always being such a darma queen! There was a fist foght today (AND I GO TO A CATHOLIC SCHOOL!) and she started to cry for no reason, she always has to be the center of attetion!!! So we were walking home one day and my dad called and asked if we wanted a ride home from my sister and her boyfriend, I said yes. So then I told her that my sisters boy firend is picking us up. She got all defenceive and kept saying "Well its against the law for someone 18 years or younger to be driving with more than 1 non-family member. And i told here that, that law wasnt passed yet and she said that she didnt want to come home with me and so i said to her, "If you want you can walk to your house" So she did and now i dont want her to come over because she is annoying me, and now she is mad at me that i said to her that i was buys tonight. I feel like i cant have any other frineds with her around. I need advice!!!
2007-01-26 09:16:36 · 12 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, she sounds really controlling and that must make it hard to be her friend. Also, it is probably hard to confront someone like that, because she may not take the comment well. Maybe, take a step back. Don't make plans with her for a while. When she asks why, THEN say, listen, I've been having plans with other people because I have been really upset by some things that have happened while we hanging out that made me feel like you wanted to control me. Tell her that you enjoy her friendship, but you don't need a friend telling you what to do all the time. Good luck; this is a hard one but the most important thing has already happened -- you've recognized that this is a problem!
2007-01-28 04:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave drama Queen Lisa behind and go on with your business. She is a controlling person and like you mention, she likes to be the center of attraction. Do you really need someone like this around you? This is the question you ought to ask yourself. And besides you also say that she is annoyng, so why bother? There are plenty of interesting girls who would share your company and be more understanding. Look around, and you will soon find out there is one much more interesting around the corner!
Good luck
2007-01-26 09:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 03:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "friend" is not controlling your life. She is just a royal pain in the ***. First of all, don't make overtures to your friends while she is around and second, you have every right to tell her that she is not invited to participate in every thing you do. She will probably go ballistic at which point you should suggest she got to confession.
2007-01-26 09:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has some mixed up ideas here. Good Luck.
2007-01-26 09:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should let the relationship go. slowly become more and more distant (if possible), that way you can make more friends and not be so limited.. or restricted.
Maybe you should talk to her about it first (if you haven't done so already)
2007-01-26 09:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don;t let her take advantage at you becoz dat;s a slavery.Just tell her dat ''Your no longer agreeing with her becoz she;s growing up Dramatic and your loosing your self confidence'' Just tell her dat you don;t like what she do becoz she;s acting like a Child.
2007-01-26 09:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck. Sounds like a brat.
Just slowly brush her off. She's annoying.
2007-01-26 09:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds kinda toxic and controlling. You may have to face the possibility that maybe you're friendship won't last. Sorry.
2007-01-26 09:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ughhhh tell me about it... dats how my friends are!!!
juss ignore everything !!! its juss stupid lol y u care about dat soo much. have fun!!!
2007-01-26 12:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋