2007-01-26 09:20:21 · 30 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to find that one thing.
Good Luck
2007-01-26 09:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being adult and being alone
Whole beauty of the world in front of you, you can travel, make friendships, you can read a good book when ever you want, watching good movie is always nice spent time, do some sport or may be just yoga - that really relax, do you cook - it can be a great pleasure, answer to someone question - sometimes you can help people with that, spend your energy with people who needs you - children or old people.
Life is very very (and that is 2 VERY - as Woody Alen said in his last movie) worth of living if you open your eyes to see
2007-01-26 17:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by njanja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
freedom.
freedom to come and go as I please. freedom to decorate my house the way I want it. freedom to spend my money how I choose. Freedom to be selfish (not a good idea in a relationship), freedom to sleep or be awake when I want, freedom to have any friends or experiences I choose, freedom to control all aspects of my life that I could reasonably expect to control, freedom to sleep in the middle of the bed and toss and turn if I feel like it, freedom to watch what I want on TV, to choose any hobby I like, to not answer questions about what I do or where I go, freedom to ......well, you get the idea.
There are positives to being in a relationship too, but you did not ask for those.
As an adult, you can set goals and make decisions and then implement them. You will meet someone someday, if you want to. Then you will not have as much freedom because you will need to consider the other person's feelings and input when making decisions if you will be sharing a home together. So until you meet that person, just enjoy the daylights out of the freedom. That is what I think
2007-01-26 17:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hmm if thats all you got to live for... maybe comitt suicide? Either that or take up Hang gliding or mini-Golf??
Personally I hate sharing a bed I sleep much better alone.. and well as for sex? That pretty easy to get anywhere if you want to (at zero to little cost in fact LOL)
and well as a further argument on the SEX issue.. I've never met anyone near as good as me.. Jut looking for some one only half as good and theres TRUTH in that statement HA!)
2007-01-26 18:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life itself is worth living. If you're life is centered around sex, then you need to get out in the world and become more adventurous. If the only thing to you as far as life is concerned is having someone in bed with you to have sex with, what can you offer them outside of the bed? What can you offer to yourself? It sounds to me that you are depressed and no one wants to make love with someone who is depressed.
My advice is for you to take a real good look at the condition your spirit is in and then find ways to heal. You need to learn how to be happy with yourself. Once you walk in true happiness, you'll appreciate life with or without a mate.
2007-01-26 17:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Charvet J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's worth living because you WANT someone to share your bed and sex with so you try to find a companion. People with kids will say that the kids are worth living for too.
2007-01-26 17:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off...worth is not measured by whether you have someone to sleep with or have sex with..... worth is measured by the completeness of your own life. If you are not complete on your own...adding a person to your life will not complete you either.
Secondly, another person can only enhance your life... not complete it.
And finally...anyone who equates value to the availablity of sex...is totally misguided. A relationship is not about sex....it's about intimacy between the hearts of 2 people.
2007-01-26 17:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lakota Instructions for Living
Friend do it this way - that is,
whatever you do in life,
do the very best you can
with both your heart and mind.
And if you do it that way,
the Power Of The Universe
will come to your assistance,
if your heart and mind are in Unity.
When one sits in the Hoop Of The People,
one must be responsible because
All of Creation is related.
And the hurt of one is the hurt of all.
And the honor of one is the honor of all.
And whatever we do effects everything in the universe.
If you do it that way - that is,
if you truly join your heart and mind
as One - whatever you ask for,
that's the Way It's Going To Be.
Go Forward With Courage
When you are in doubt, be still, and wait;
when doubt no longer exists for you, then go forward with courage.
So long as mists envelop you, be still;
be still until the sunlight pours through and dispels the mists
-- as it surely will.
Then act with courage.
Ponca Chief White Eagle (1800's to 1914)
2007-01-26 17:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself. You sound depressed, find something to do that you would enjoy. Now and days the dating game is on websites. You have a computer, use it. Believe me you will have somebody in your bed in no time. Good Luck.
2007-01-26 17:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by kimjoey 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sometimes that's nice after a bad 8 year relationship i spent nearly two years sleeping alone i actually got to love the Freedom! Sometimes it's nice to not have strings!
2007-01-26 17:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a grlfriend/boyfriend?
anyways, you could now concentrate on other things rather than having to share a bed and have a proper career in life =)
2007-01-26 17:25:44 · answer #11 · answered by love will always come back 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋