Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

Ok here it is.... One of my closest friends growing up Ex-wife has contacted me and is expressing a little interest in me.

Here are the facts:

1) they where married for 5 years....they dated for seven years before they were married.

2) they have been divorced for over five years now

3) My friend and I are not as close as we use to be. I rarely hear from him. he never calls me. Infact if it not for me calling him or going to see him the once or twice a year that I do, I would never hear from him.

4) Now durring there divorce, I NEVER.... not once looked his ex up. She contacted me. It has been over six years since we have talked. But now that we are in contact, I find myself interested in her.

5) what do I do????

HELP A BRUTHA OUT !!!!!!!!

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I told this girl I liked her and wrote her a poem not giving major feelings, but telling her that I liked her for some reasons and she replied this:

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What does this mean?

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i never want to be in a real relationship with a woman. its to much to put up with.

why i dont want a GF/ wife:

too much money, nagging, figuring out what she realy wants, mind games, jealousy, cheating, fighting, and living with her.

instead i just go out on one night stands ONLY. and after that i never want to see the woman again. thats pretty much all i do. i go for a girl that has no respect for herself or her body and is very drunk. i pretend like a have a lot of money and when were done with our business, i call her a cab and i never see her agian. is this normal? whats wrong with me?

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Just wondering....

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i havent had sex yet and i am the first person my boyfriend has done anything with he seemed really nervous to do anything with me at first but now we have been together for about 3-4 months and we have done everything but sex and everytime he comes round he gets really turned on, we havent talked about sex but he told me to sit on his penis while we both had clothes on and sit up and down on it..which i didnt do becus i thought it was a bit odd! and then he was prodding my leg with his penis and laughing then lying on top of me with his penis pressed against me do you think hes hinting for sex? or is he just really horny! lol

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2007-01-13 09:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by Wonderboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so im in 7th grade
i have ADHD
and i like a ninth grader
i am suposed to be in 8th grade
i really like this boy
and he is a good kid
he doesnt do drugs
and he is hot
and he doeesnt use people
and i reallly like him
but my mom and i got in a fight
and i was going to school at night to my sisters drama thing
and i told her that i was going to see my friend
and i didnt tell her i was going to see that ninth grader (joe)
and she was like well i want to make sure there are no boys involved
and i was all like god mom therie isnt
and do oyu really think im gong like go off and have sex and die
and i want to telll her that im going out with tihs guy
cuase im kinda goona ask him out.
but i didint tell her i got my peroid until a year after i got it
cuase i dont like talking to her about those kinds of thing
sorry its so long
but what do i do
how do i gain her trust
i really like joe
a lot

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My friends daughter, 20 years old has brain cancer and very little time to live. She was a foreign exchange student to Japan and fell in love with ayumi's music. She would love to get an email or phone call from her. All the foundations have turned her down because she is over 18. If you have any idea of how to contact ayumi, would you please help me? Time is short for this girl. It is her dying wish. Please help me make her wish come true!! All the information we find is written in Japanese and we are american. She is the adopted grandchild of my friend. They are both in their late 60's and disabled. I know there has to be a way to reach this singer, I just can;t figure out how!! So freakin' frustrating. So now I ask you, Yahoo members, will you help me to find a way to get a little girls dying wish fulfilled?? We would so appreciate this. She doesn't have many friends and she is so alone in this battle. Please help, any idea will be appreciated.

hubbyistall@yahoo.

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