i have been dateing this guy who i LOVE, but im so scard about kissing him...disopointing him you know...he loves me. i know he deos. i cant explain it but you just know. but we have been gooing out for 2 mounths and we only kissed once. i love him so much. please help me. I cant lose him.
2007-01-13 09:51:42 · 30 answers · asked by duckie52290 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really loves you, and you really love him, you shouldn't be worried about disappointing him.
#1: Just go for it.
a) You can just say: "Can I try something?" And just kiss him.
b) You could say: "Hey, I have a surprise. Close your eyes!" And when he does, just lean up and kiss him.
c) It doesn't have to be one of those passionate, three-minute kisses from the movies. Sometimes (like in my case) a peck on the cheek can kick things off. It'll make you feel more comfortable.
#2: Relax. Don't worry about it.
2007-01-13 10:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by whoops! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and kiss the guy....
And even if it is too wet (you don't swallow at the right time and such) don't worry. If the guy has been dating you for 2 months and not kissed he is very attracted to you (many guys less than very attracted would have given up after 2 months and not a whole lot of kissing).
So almost anything you do will turn him on: holding your arms around his neck, lifting your legs and wrapping them around him helps a lot also...I had one girlfriend who did that who, honestly, wasn't a good kisser at all and, just by doing that with her body, she turned me on more than the best kisser I've had (it was more fun than the kiss itself).
So, don't worry, you're good now enjoy your kiss. :-)
2007-01-13 09:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by M S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact same boat at one time! Don't let anyone pressure you or anything, because that ends up being really, really awkward. He's probably scared too because obviously he hasn't kissed you either... maybe just give him a little peck or something and go from there, its okay to go slow!
2007-01-13 09:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it
sit there and be like its now and never
me and my boyfriend had some wierd kissing at first cause we didnt know how the other one kissed
but give it a few days
and it will be no problem aat all
its super common to have wierd kissing moments
just look at them as cute times!
i mean ive drooled on my boyfriends face one night falling asleep on him, before we ever did anything(even kiss) and he thought it was cute
im sure whatever happens it will be amazing
2007-01-13 09:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by aww lovee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just be nervous. It doesn't mean that your relationship is any weaker. The strongest relationships are the ones that can survive even without kissing... When you're ready to kiss him, you will. Don't worry about it for now. =)
2007-01-13 09:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by TheDogStar12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont want to mess things up, but u gotta go for it. if ur both ready, just go at the right moment.
if u really love each other, you should be able to understand each other and respect that ur not ready.
never want to move too fast, cause it can turn into a landslide, and ull find that u cant stop.
2007-01-13 09:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by dominoeffect816 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, you can do anything to them or with them... I dont even see how you can say you love someone that you have only kissed once. If he loves you, he wont mind how you kiss, because love is love whether youre a sloppy kisser or a great kisser.
2007-01-13 09:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem with my bf, i went out with him for 6 months and we didnt kiss once, the time just got too late and it ended up being harder and harder to get over, u have to go for it im afraid, create a really romantic setting or something to get u in the mood good luck x x x
2007-01-13 09:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you kiss him enough that initial concern will be gone. Forget all of your worries and when the moment is right you'll know. If he Love's you, he'll love kissing you.
2007-01-13 09:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by pearl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you want her Look at her, you know you do
It’s possible she wants you, too
There is one way to ask her It don’t take a word
Not a single word Go on and kiss the girl
Sing with me now
Sha-la-la-la-la-la
My, oh, my
Look at the boy too shy
He ain’t gonna kiss the girl
Sha-la-la-la-la-la
Ain’t that sad
Ain’t it shame, too bad
You gonna miss the girl
Don't you worry little lady you'll get your kissing time soon with whoever comes your way
2007-01-13 09:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Wheaties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋