ok so im in 7th grade
i have ADHD
and i like a ninth grader
i am suposed to be in 8th grade
i really like this boy
and he is a good kid
he doesnt do drugs
and he is hot
and he doeesnt use people
and i reallly like him
but my mom and i got in a fight
and i was going to school at night to my sisters drama thing
and i told her that i was going to see my friend
and i didnt tell her i was going to see that ninth grader (joe)
and she was like well i want to make sure there are no boys involved
and i was all like god mom therie isnt
and do oyu really think im gong like go off and have sex and die
and i want to telll her that im going out with tihs guy
cuase im kinda goona ask him out.
but i didint tell her i got my peroid until a year after i got it
cuase i dont like talking to her about those kinds of thing
sorry its so long
but what do i do
how do i gain her trust
i really like joe
a lot
2007-01-13 09:54:59 · 7 answers · asked by livers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and also the fact that he is two grades older then me
i dont think she will like that
2007-01-13 10:03:53 · update #1
Oh sweetie, you sound like a good girl
I wish i had an answer for you
Maybe spend more time wiht your mom doing girl things
and while you are out ask her opinion about things
maybe something happened to her and you remind her of what happened to her
Talk to mom-get ot know her and ask her what will help her trust you
i am not sure why she doesnt trust you so I hope this helps
I will say a prayer for you!
2007-01-13 10:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your Mom you like this guy that is 1 year older than you, because you lost a grade I guess. Let the guy know you might be interested in dating someday, but you just wanted him to know, even though you are not ready quite yet. Then see what happens next. Continue to talk to your Mom...
2007-01-13 18:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by winter_new_hampshire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not about your mother or your friend. this is about you. If you want him then what can you do to make yourself the kind of person that he would want to date.
By the way, how do you know that you have ADHD? Have you ever sat at the computer screen for more then 20 minutes at once, chatting, reading, or playing something?...?
2007-01-13 18:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Vely 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let your mom know you like a guy and would like to go out w/ him...that you'll be home by certain times and stuff
and tehn if you ask him out and he agrees have him visit your mom for a chat, so she gets to see how nice he is
good luck
2007-01-13 18:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by kaeh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go with the flow and go wit ur first chose and forget ur mom there just there for decoration
2007-01-13 18:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by km_amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom.... that is the only way to gain her trust.. talk to her about sex.. tell her what your doing and not going to do.. tell her everything... that is how you gain trust.. and she will thank you for telling her... she will understand... try it..
2007-01-13 18:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
2007-01-13 18:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋