Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

She chose to say 'something more' in front of family during burial service of brother when nobody else had the "guts" to do so. Is her actions based on selfish desire for her own service or are they power plays that destroy our hearts for future -selfish mortal gain?

2007-01-10 12:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by racer123 5 in Family

2007-01-10 12:45:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 12:45:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 12:44:43 · 20 answers · asked by ahab 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a guy, he emailed me last weekend and I emailed him back inviting him to come over to my house this weekend. I live about 2 hours away but he has come over before. Well he wrote back and said he's not sure if he has plans or not and that he has to get his car looked at, but he thinks he is free, etc. So I told him to just let me know and to come down if he can make it. That was Monday and he hasn't contacted me yet. It's Wednesday. Is this weird? Should he have let me know by now if he is coming or not? Should I give him more time?

2007-01-10 12:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes it seems like he likes me alot and stuff, smiles at me always looks at me...and other times it seems like he doesnt i dont know how to describe it...please help?

2007-01-10 12:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by florida queen 2 in Singles & Dating

Should my parents be hurt that I don't let them read my journal? They think it means I don't trust them and I think it is irritating my Dad.

2007-01-10 12:43:51 · 23 answers · asked by GeekGirl 2 in Family

2007-01-10 12:43:12 · 4 answers · asked by 1982 3 in Friends

My exhusband has just i formed me via email that he will be writting a letter to the DA to drop the amount he pays in child support. Does he have the right to do that? It isn't enough now how do I block this from happening.

2007-01-10 12:43:12 · 20 answers · asked by asrvivor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

..even when the guy knows you are a virgin?

2007-01-10 12:42:36 · 4 answers · asked by ashley r 1 in Singles & Dating

i've known him for a while and im startin to crush on him a lil..ok A LOT.how do i know if he likes me like the same way or jus as a friend..or worse..a sister-ish friend!! we dont really talk alot but we smile and say hi everytime we meet. but i do tht to all my friends and him too!! i really have to know if hes interested. sound familiar anyone??

2007-01-10 12:42:26 · 10 answers · asked by Chilli 1 in Singles & Dating

So basically I've figured out that advice is usually to give subtle messages to a crush, and other times it's to purposefully make it obvious, without having to say it to them [indirectly]. Girls can figure out if guys like them via body language, so should I make it more obvious by making body language more extreme [smiling alot more, eye contact etc] or just be nice to them and act friendly. Both in 10th grade

2007-01-10 12:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 12 year old son dosn't listen! When i tell him not to do something, he does it anyway! Then he gets in trouble for it, And then he does something mean to other people whenever he gets in trouble. Like on time he got in trouble for not participating in class. Well he's failing that class. He got in trouble, and he took the disc out of his older brother's laptop wich had all of his work on it, and that was the report my oldest son was supposed to take to school the next day, well he kept it until 3 weeks after the report was due, and told his brother he had used the laptop and played a game, and took out the disc and missplaced it! Then there was this time when he got an E in english, and we grounded him, he took his twins money while he was sleeping, and he *accidentley* spilled maple syrup, and cofee on his twins report. I need help with my son! Me and my husband have tried everything! He's a nice kid until he gets in trouble! What should we do!?

2007-01-10 12:40:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-10 12:40:20 · 15 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you see in girls? be honest. :)

2007-01-10 12:39:51 · 18 answers · asked by kay 2 in Singles & Dating

when they just met on a cruise and he can hang out with a bunch of 21 year old girls?

2007-01-10 12:39:49 · 22 answers · asked by ashley r 1 in Singles & Dating

am i wrong to dread my one year anniversary? its tomorrow. all my husband and i do is argue...about everything. on top of that, he doesnt want kids right now and i do, i have wanted to get pregnant for over a year, i have even gone to the doc to make sure everything is in working order and have had multiple tests done. he refuses to do the same.recently i really thought i was finally pregnant and was very disappointed 2 days ago to find that i had started my cycle. we have nothing to talk about, and i dont really even enjoy being in the same room with him. he takes no responsibility for his part in arguements and tries to put all the blame on me and mocks things that i say and has to have the last word with some snide comment. when i thought i was pregnant we both got along really well and he was the sweetest person in the world.. but since then things have been horrible. i dont know what to do, i dont really even want to speak to him. i am thinking of staying at work all day tomorrow

2007-01-10 12:38:47 · 13 answers · asked by Stevie 7 in Marriage & Divorce

What happens if this guy i do love, may not love me back? But he used to...and then just stopped talking to me. just STOPPED. and never gave an explaination? And i would give anything to talk to him again?

(oh yea...and we havent dated for a year...but we were "together" i guess you could say)

2007-01-10 12:38:15 · 8 answers · asked by annabnana76 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i have a nine year old sister. my fam just learned that one of her best friends died over xmas break..... they were in a car crash and im not sure about the rest of the details... how do we tell my sister and how do we help her cope... im having a hard time as it is cuz this kid was liek a lil brother to me...

2007-01-10 12:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by be 1 in Friends

i was a virgin before i did it with this particular guy. the first time we had sex, he didn't really talk much. but the second time he talked so much and was really caring, and treated me like a version. he constantly asked if i was alright. is this normal?

2007-01-10 12:38:02 · 6 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Singles & Dating

My niece is getting married in May and the groom to be says he wants to wear a suit instead of a tux since he is a professional musician and wears one almost every weekend while playing at weddings. My parents are flipping out over this saying it shows ..lack of respect.. the bride will wear a gown how will it look... they are embarassed what will the relatives say. I told them I was sure it will be a nice suit, probablly new, they think they will be plaids (groom and ushers) I think they think this is a clown wedding! What can I do so they won't ruin my neices' day!

2007-01-10 12:37:56 · 12 answers · asked by joan 4 in Weddings

ok my sister asked me to show her this picture of this girl i like
so now my sister told my friend
and he knows who i like now
so what should i do
and no stupid anwsers
and nothing rude please
cmon this is serious

but i do like her
and idk she might like me
bc i talk to her all the time on aim
and she looks at me in school

so what do i do
and its my friend
and he is rather obnoxious so thats a problem too


well i am shy and so is she so yeah thats also a probleem


also i dont think she knows yet since it happened after school

2007-01-10 12:37:43 · 2 answers · asked by ur_rich_jew 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I have always been there for each other and always been honest and upfront. He recently got engaged. Now I want only the best for him and want him to be happy. Since he's been with this woman, he has dealt with her drug & alcohol use/abuse, her accusing him of abuse (which I KNOW is a lie and a direct effect of her using). He's told me about other issues which are not good but I don't want to go into details. I try and be there for him as best I can. He just told me that he's getting married to her. I didn't know what to say. I'm expected to be at the wedding and be 100% supportive of him. Now obviously I don't think he should be getting married. I haven't said anything to him. I don't know if I should continue to keep my mouth shut and pretend to be happy for him or if I should say something. My husband thinks I should stay quiet. What do you think?

2007-01-10 12:37:28 · 14 answers · asked by married2004 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at a meeting with a guy I am attracted to. We were sitting next to eachother and he reached for something in his bag. It looked like a small note or something but it was a piece of tape which he pressed on the upper part of my leg. I sat there for a moment and then took the tape and pressed it against the upper part of his leg. So he presses it back on my leg and I keep the tape. This is the first time he has EVER touched me on the leg and I admit it felt amazing. We were being very discreet and I was trying not to smile. We've been flirting lately with looks and sometimes he will touch me on the arm. Is this his way of stepping up the flirting level?

2007-01-10 12:37:18 · 10 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 12:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 12:37:03 · 19 answers · asked by storage b 1 in Singles & Dating

Parody of Justin Timberlake's "Dick In a Box" for SNL. This girl is brilliant in my view. Plus, she's from Philly where I've done most of my damage so I have a special fondness for her box. http://www.youtube.com/profile?user=boxsinger Won't you put your Box in a Box?

2007-01-10 12:36:14 · 4 answers · asked by rex_razor69 2 in Singles & Dating

We are 16. In lunch, he eats my food and drinks my water and we yell at eachother and kick eachother, but we are laughing the whole time, and he trys to tickle me. Everyone stares at us and tells him "just ask her out already!" and he acts like he doesnt hear them and changes the subject. He waits for me at my locker like 3 times during the day just to make fun of me and tickle me. He also takes pictures of me when im not looking and then sends them to me online and makes fun of me on AIM. Its been like this every day for a month and a half, he hasnt asked me out. A few times he asked me to go for a walk with him after school but I say no because I GOTTA be home right after school or Im grounded.

And the surprising thing is, he is hot and somewhat popular. Sometimes i think to myself, oh...my..god, he better ask me out.

2007-01-10 12:36:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its been a month since my ex had broken up with me. he had called me on the phone and said that he thought that it was a good idea to stop seeing each other. i was in shock so all i said was 'okay'. a few days later i found out that he had been on a date with another girl. They act like they are in a relationship and he calls her 'babe', but it's not official.

a few days ago he had told me that he missed me and that sometimes he thinks that he made the worst mistake that he can't take back. We have been talking more and when we hug, he hugs me as though he's scared to let me go. im not sure what his intentions are.! im completely confused and not sure whether to pursue him or run far away.

2007-01-10 12:36:07 · 12 answers · asked by honeycluster 1 in Singles & Dating

okay on Dec22 my boyfriend went to mexico and i gave him my chain that has my name on it and he told me while he was over there his mom told him that there goin to stay there forever so he deciede to get drunk and while he was drunk he lost my chain and than his friends told him while he was drunk he was callin out my name (karen) and he deciede goin to a party with his brother and there was bunch off girls and his brother told him to go in a dark room with some girl and start makin out and he said no (but nobody forces u to do somethin right) and his brother slap him because he wouldnt do it and he back on Jan 08 and i call him Jan09 and he told my friend what he did over there and he wouldnt tell me and then he told me and he kept on sayin that he loves me while he was tellin me and after we had to hang up i stared cryin and he told me to forgive him and i said yea and i said lets just forget wat happened. Is that a good idea forgive him wat he did but i love him so much Help

2007-01-10 12:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by Boboolicious 1 in Family