She chose to say 'something more' in front of family during burial service of brother when nobody else had the "guts" to do so. Is her actions based on selfish desire for her own service or are they power plays that destroy our hearts for future -selfish mortal gain?
2007-01-10 12:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by racer123 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Her words were to commerate His life achievments mixed with family failures. I was proud that she took this initiative given the weight of this sudden loss.I sometimes pressure those I love to demonstrate how they want it returned without saying a word to them.I thrive on examples of right actions in the quest to apphere humanly correct in the eyes of those I love. My phylosophy prohibits me from truly stating my "take" on the reality of the situation because my insight is to honest for most to bear. I live for a time that elevates me beyond the prisons built by my predoccessors that builds a new day of blessings.
2007-01-10 15:10:02 · update #1
I don't know what the dynamics of your family are but maybe your mother just felt through her grief that she needed to address whatever the issue was with her brother. A family burial is certainly not a place to air grievances or resentments, so I would like to hope that whatever the comments were that they didn't hurt any of the people attending the service. The loss of a loved one can certainly cause a a lot emotions besides sadness and she would not be the first person to lash out in anger over the loss of a relative. Hope this helps and I am truly sorry for you loss you have my condolences.
2007-01-10 12:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she say something bad or mean? If not, just let it go. People do a lot of different things when they are grieving.
A lot of times when a loved one dies, people get mad about little things when the thing really upsetting them is the loss of the loved one. Take this into account; people are upset already and may react in illogical ways.
2007-01-10 21:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so much easier to focus on petty stuff rather than the issue at hand, the death of a loved one.
2007-01-10 20:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand your question all i can say is i am sorry fo rthe loss of the loved one i lost my brother on may 26th 2006 in a bad car crash so i know the pain, sorry
2007-01-10 20:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋