I'm dating a guy, he emailed me last weekend and I emailed him back inviting him to come over to my house this weekend. I live about 2 hours away but he has come over before. Well he wrote back and said he's not sure if he has plans or not and that he has to get his car looked at, but he thinks he is free, etc. So I told him to just let me know and to come down if he can make it. That was Monday and he hasn't contacted me yet. It's Wednesday. Is this weird? Should he have let me know by now if he is coming or not? Should I give him more time?
2007-01-10 12:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's definitely not married. I've been to his house several times.
2007-01-10 12:47:25 · update #1
There is no reason for you to take an agressive stance, it's not your best strategy, you have nothing to gain. You should activly look for other plans for the weekend, if he contacts you then you can decide if you want him to come over still, if not you will have other plans and no loss to yourself. Don't try to contact him, that will put him in the position to choose.
So you should let him make the next move but don't wait for him, move on, you can always go back if he acts interested.
2007-01-10 12:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Economics Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he hasn't checked his e-mail yet. Maybe he's busy. Chill.
If this is a long distance relationship, then beware-he might be distracted with somebody else than to be concerned for you. Very harsh, I know-but this world we live in is definitely harsh and is getting worse with each generation that doesn't learn respect.
Good luck!
2007-01-10 20:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him again. He's seeing if something better comes up for the weekend. You deserve better than that.
2007-01-10 20:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The weekend is still a day or two away...be patient.
2007-01-10 20:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships usually don't work. Who knows he can be married or something back in his hometown??
2007-01-10 20:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that he is avoiding you but I do think that you are not number one on his to do list. I would find someone or something else to busy yourself.
2007-01-10 20:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him more time but not too much and you should talk to him seriously very soon!
2007-01-10 20:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋