okay on Dec22 my boyfriend went to mexico and i gave him my chain that has my name on it and he told me while he was over there his mom told him that there goin to stay there forever so he deciede to get drunk and while he was drunk he lost my chain and than his friends told him while he was drunk he was callin out my name (karen) and he deciede goin to a party with his brother and there was bunch off girls and his brother told him to go in a dark room with some girl and start makin out and he said no (but nobody forces u to do somethin right) and his brother slap him because he wouldnt do it and he back on Jan 08 and i call him Jan09 and he told my friend what he did over there and he wouldnt tell me and then he told me and he kept on sayin that he loves me while he was tellin me and after we had to hang up i stared cryin and he told me to forgive him and i said yea and i said lets just forget wat happened. Is that a good idea forgive him wat he did but i love him so much Help
2007-01-10 12:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by Boboolicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Forget it buy a new chain with your name on it , then move on . let this be a life lesson and be glad you aren't married to the jerk
2007-01-10 16:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, without being too rude I am going to try and get my point across. His first mistake was drinking / getting drunk. His second mistake was cheating on you. No matter how much you love someone, you have to realize that there is more than one person that you can fall in love with. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, and cheating on someone takes trust away. You can not love someone if you don't have trust in them, and you can't trust a cheater or a liar. If I were you, I would take a break for a month or two. No talking what so ever, then see how you feel after a break. If you still feel like you are in love with him, then it may be meant to be. However, while on your break don't be shy, flirt a little and do something for YOURSELF. Everyone can be selfish every now and then. Always have confidence and remember that you ALWAYS deserve THE BEST.
2007-01-10 12:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Manda * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people are in love sometimes they have a promblem thinking with their brain instead of their heart. If you love him a lot your heart will tell you to forgive him and that he didn't mean it. Don't let yourself fall into the trap of constantly forgiving a cheating mate. You run the risk of him thinking since you forgave him the first time you'll always forgive him. Since you plan on staying with him you need to let him know how hurt you felt at him cheating. You already said it plain and simple that no one makes you do anything. You can forgive him...but you should really make sure that he's on the same page with you that cheating brings about mistrust and can really ruin the relationship. You have to be careful with handing your heart to cheaters. You don't want him breaking your heart everytime you get a report about his cheating. Think long and hard if you're willing to keep getting bad reports of his cheating. It's okay to love but first you must really love yourself not to put up with someone cheating and breaking your heart.
2007-01-10 12:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie, heres where i think it all went wrong, number one you'll sound young cuz he has to do what his mom says, number 2 if all it takes for him to cheat on you is him getting drunk you should end it anyways,number 3 if he did it cuz his brother said so he isnt a man so i think you should move on sweetie you deserve more than that if he can hurt you like that then he dosent want to be with you, you know what they sy your true feelings come out when your drunk, so that is a sign you need to really realize that i think you should forgive him so you can move on but dont be with him.
2007-01-10 12:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the chain and him. His mom said they were there for good. Mexico is too far for you to watch him. You will go crazy. Sounds like too young for settling down. Get a grip & replace him.
2007-01-10 12:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by carol jean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my last relationship. What happened to me, will happen to you too if you don't do something now. My boyfriend cheated on me (there is no good excuse for cheating) and I forgave him. After that he probably cheated on me atleast 4 more times, before I finally ended things. Once a guys cheats on you once you have to break it off. Otherwise he will continue to do it because he knows he can. EVEN IF HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU. If you break up now, you will save yourself so many more heartbreaks, Trust me :) Good luck.
2007-01-10 12:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by amIbeingcheated? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all he got drunk and cheated on you, then he says he lost your necklace. How do you know he didn't give it away while he was drunk? If he is never coming back then you need to move on and find someone else. Your still young and there is someone else out there that will treat you better.
2007-01-10 12:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what?
this whole blob of foolishness made my head hurt. ever heard of periods, commas, capitol letter?
2007-01-10 13:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by mamabag06 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋