i was a virgin before i did it with this particular guy. the first time we had sex, he didn't really talk much. but the second time he talked so much and was really caring, and treated me like a version. he constantly asked if i was alright. is this normal?
2007-01-10 12:38:02 · 6 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes this is normal the first time he was nervous and did not know how you were going to respond to him afterwards. Once he seen that you were okay with it he became comfortable with you. He just did not want you to feel uncomfortable around him or think otherwise of him after the intimatcy. BUt it is fine he is normal now he wants to make sure that your okay and not gonna hit him upside the head for taking your virginity. just picking.
2007-01-10 12:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time he was probably either nervous too or concentrating on his needs, then he went away and thought ' i hope it was ok for her' and then he decided to focus on you. It's not a virgin thing, it's showing consideration to you. eventually, he will stop having to need to ask when you two have got used to being with each other and you know what you both like.
2007-01-10 20:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he a virgin too? maybe he was nervous the first time. or maybe if he wasnt, he thought about it after and realised he should have been more caring for you.
2007-01-10 20:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's been cheating with many women and forgot if you wer a virgin or not.
2007-01-10 20:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayby the first time he did not think you enjoyed it, o mayby he talked to someone who told him to be extra special kind since your first time was with him.
2007-01-10 20:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by pa625 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a nice guy
2007-01-10 20:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mickster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋