Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

used to date this girl, in the summer we dated and did some stuuff wit eachother for about 3 months.. but wen school started up.. we knew things wouldnt work... b/c we were both too busy with other activites. But it was a harsh break up and we both ignored eachother. Long story short.. i had a party, we talked... and got back together durring X mas break , but a week and a bit later we came to terms and realized again this wouldnt work. (we go back to school on mon.) However this time, we promised that we wouldnt ignore eachother, and that we would remain best friends and always talk.. it was a firm agreement .. and we appologized for wut we did.. was this the right desicion? b/c i was thinking to try us out , b4 we say it wont work, (even thou it looks like it wont). If it was the right desicion.. wat are things i can say to her to keep her with me and on good terms (in case i want to do something in the future?) .. it almost seems to me like there'll b nothing to talk about now.

2007-01-09 13:32:41 · 9 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I love someone who has lots of things like myself.....he has been through a lot like myself so is this typical or is it usually opposites attract?

2007-01-09 13:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by Leslie S 1 in Singles & Dating

dont say "I dont tell lies" coz everyone does it ..
mostly I hide things which is sort of lying...who gets most of your lies??

2007-01-09 13:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ coolFreak ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 13:31:37 · 30 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend, who is a girl, recently got into a relationship. I had liked before this relationship had ever been even thought of, but I was too scared to tell her anything. Well, on the day I had planned on telling her, she pulled me off to the side and told me that she was in a relationship with a girl she liked. I smiled and acted like it was great and that I was proud of her. But, the thing was... I was going to ask her if she would just love me back.... I just really wanted the right time. The relationship they are in is going no where because the girl she is with is scared to tell people, so... I am quite confused. I still want to tell her how I feel but I don't know if I should. Should I wait or should I just get it out into the open?

2007-01-09 13:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

no really do you wanna go make some eggs...

2007-01-09 13:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

besides being athletic, to make along story short my gf likes athletic guys, and it so happens i wasnt givin the gift of being athletic, and im looking for a way to impress her.

2007-01-09 13:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by chris 3 in Singles & Dating

ok...ive been hanging out with this girl for a few months now...were best friends, and honestly, ive fallen in love with her...she has a boyfriend of 2 years, but hes in jail cuz hes an asshole...anyway, i have proof hes a cheater, but she probably wont believe me...how do i get her away from him?...and by the way im still in high school, just to make that clear...

2007-01-09 13:31:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my ex boyfriend was leading me on and tellin his friend that he liked me still but when my friend asked me he jsut sed no and how he likes noone....first of all i look pretty stupid now cuz i rele liked him alot and he just rejected me and 2 i dont kno whos lying him or his friend and wen she told me i got so sad i just started crying lik i didnt kno wat to do....so someone tell me how should i deal wit this i feel really hurt right now:(

2007-01-09 13:30:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's my boyfriend and weve been together for 1 year(since 7th grade, now im in 8th) What could be some signs he really loves me?

2007-01-09 13:30:06 · 9 answers · asked by Sophie s 1 in Singles & Dating

for my brother a few weeks ago, It is causing a rift between us, at the dinner table I will talk to my sister about her schooling then my brother will say don't listen to him, "he can't even keep a girl, I always take em" this is the only time and I'm going to wid up beating him badly, while my ex was over there she told me I was just to get to my brother, what can I do?

2007-01-09 13:29:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy asked my bestfriend if i liked him. and then she said idk why do you like her and he said idk. and then the next day he said tell her i like her i just wanna see what shes gunna say! does he really like me or is he just being a jerk?

2007-01-09 13:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HOW DO I KNOW?????? HE STARES @ ME ALL THE TIME IN GYM, AND I SMILE @ HIM ALL THE TIME AND HE LOOKS @ ME IN THE HALLS... EXEPT WE HAVE NEVER SPOKEN 1 WORD 2 EACH OTHER!!! AND HIS FRIENDS LOOK @ ME ALOT WHEN THEY R WITH HIM!!!!!

help!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really like this guy...

2007-01-09 13:28:30 · 17 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 13:28:06 · 12 answers · asked by Mailyahoo 2 in Singles & Dating

i recently got reaquainted with a guy i use to go to school with,he is always asking when we,re gonna hang out which we dont really do because he has such a busy schedule.i invited him to my house and he said yea but at first he seemed so skeptical as if he were scared or something because the first thing he said when i asked him was,for what.why do you guys think he reacted like that?

2007-01-09 13:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

When i see hem in person, sometimes he is very nice with me, but others he acts like he never knew me. In the chat he's worst, we always finish figthing. In spite of al that, I can't take him out of my head.

2007-01-09 13:27:23 · 6 answers · asked by :-LARA-: 1 in Singles & Dating

when your 14 and he is 16, but he keeps asking you questions about u to gettin married

2007-01-09 13:27:11 · 7 answers · asked by ArkansasMommy 2 in Singles & Dating

is that would be weird if she says it again?

2007-01-09 13:27:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm about 5'6", medium length straight brown hair, hazel eyes, athletic body, and good/funny personality. Just so you know before you answer this question.

And I was wondering is that what guys want?? Is that what you would want?? Describe to me your perfect girl.

2007-01-09 13:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my old crush would always talk to me, walk to class with me, stare at me,but into conversations that i had w/ other friends, tease me, do things to get me mad cuz he liked when i was mad, and would just walk with me. then one day he stoped all the things he used to do and before this i thought he liked me and other people did too. so after that i tried to get him talking to me again and things back to normal. but nothing happens so today i just lost my temper about it becuz i was upset that he didnt talk to me anymore and stuff and i was kicking his locker and telling myself that i hated him so much and that i dont wanna be near him, talk to him ect. but i some what do but then why do i get so upset about it. it just gets me so mad and angry becuz i just dont understand it. i never did anything to him. and i still dont know what his problem is.but so i dont know what to do. i just have so much anger in me about it. i ignore him, walk away from him, avoid him ect. so help me understand

2007-01-09 13:25:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well there is this girl i like, and i have extremely little experience with talking to girls because i'm pretty shy, but i'd love to ask her out.

the only trouble is i would have to go out of my way to talk to her, and to me that is pretty awkward. i need pure helpful answers not just "get enough courage =P"

thx :)

2007-01-09 13:25:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 13:24:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cant bear to leave the guy who lied to me that he's not married. but in real life he's married with 2 kids. got to know the truth recently. now in a dilemma, confused and hurt. but am i wrong to love him? i really dunno he's married when i'm with him!!! but then i dun wanna lose him... am i wrong to love a married guy? am i wrong to keep thinking of him n the gd times we have? if both of us not wanna let go, r we wrong? both of us gonna get hurt but then is it wrong to love each other n meeting at the wrong time?

2007-01-09 13:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by o_O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is a slob. I want my marriage to be a partnership, but it feels more like I'm a subordinate. I feel unappreciated. I cook every day, clean after him and our dog everyday, care for our dog 80% of the time, listen to his complaints and help him with his college work, and try to be on my "best" behavior (i.e., don't say bad words, don't yell, smile). I work FULL Time as a counselor and when I get home I would really like to relax, but out of 7 days in the week, at least 5 of them he's in a bad mood, demanding, and complaining. What am I doing wrong? I'm so exhausted, confused and angry. Also, we have sex about once a week, and only if he is in the mood. When I try to talk to him, he usually yells at me, tells me to stop *yelling*, ignores me and goes up to bed. We fight really bad when I just can't take it any longer and then he gets really aggressive and angry. I am afraid to talk to him *when he's okay* because I'm scared of him blowing up at me again.

2007-01-09 13:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by El Pajaro Loco 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Wonderful husband and 2 kids. We have been married for 10 happy years. Sex about 5 times a year. What does this mean? Should I be worried if everything else is wonderful?

2007-01-09 13:23:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know. And I really want to go to this party. what to do?

2007-01-09 13:22:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think so....do you?

2007-01-09 13:22:04 · 24 answers · asked by Answers! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 13:21:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For God's sake, the letter from Dan to Connie was a JOKE! Come on, people, we're in the Jokes and Riddles section, remember?

2007-01-09 13:21:11 · 10 answers · asked by mike_in_tex 2 in Singles & Dating

if ur girlfriend was ur nextdoor neighbore what would u think of it, nightmare or dream come ture? =0, be honest

2007-01-09 13:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by chris 3 in Singles & Dating