My friend, who is a girl, recently got into a relationship. I had liked before this relationship had ever been even thought of, but I was too scared to tell her anything. Well, on the day I had planned on telling her, she pulled me off to the side and told me that she was in a relationship with a girl she liked. I smiled and acted like it was great and that I was proud of her. But, the thing was... I was going to ask her if she would just love me back.... I just really wanted the right time. The relationship they are in is going no where because the girl she is with is scared to tell people, so... I am quite confused. I still want to tell her how I feel but I don't know if I should. Should I wait or should I just get it out into the open?
2007-01-09 13:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My friend, who is a girl, recently got into a relationship. I had liked before this relationship had ever been even thought of, but I was too scared to tell her anything. Well, on the day I had planned on telling her, she pulled me off to the side and told me that she was in a relationship with a girl she liked. I smiled and acted like it was great and that I was proud of her. But, the thing was... I was going to ask her if she would just love me back.... I just really wanted the right time. The relationship they are in is going no where because the girl she is with is scared to tell people, so... I am quite confused. I still want to tell her how I feel but I don't know if I should. Should I wait or should I just get it out into the open?
(I am a girl also, just to let you know)
2007-01-09 13:38:43 · update #1
(I am a girl also, just to let you know)
2007-01-09 13:39:20 · update #2
My Dad use to tell me that I would never know someones feelings unless I asked them. That the worst thing that could happen would be that they might say no. I just pretty much live my life following that advice and it's been good it has never let me down.
2007-01-09 13:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all find out if shes either full Lesbian or Bisexual. If shes Bisexual you might have a chance with her because that there shows that she has some interest in guys and even if she didn't like you its not because your a guy. Secondly you shouldn't just assume because you confront her and tell her you like her, doesn't mean shes going to have mutual feelings. So you should be prepared for the unexpected. Like you have 2 options if you do 1. choose to tell her then you will face rejection
2. if you don't tell her you face not knowing if you might have a chance.
But If you are planning on telling her before you do ask her if shes Bisexual or Lesbian. Because if she is a Lesbian which is that you are only attracted to girls then she wont want to go out with you what so ever. If shes Bisexual she is both attracted to boys and girls.
Best of wishes, Keisha.
2007-01-09 21:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has something else going on.It's better you keep it to yourself for now.If you still feel the same for her and her relationship doesn't work out maybe there's still a chance for you.Don't wait around, meet other people and have some fun.Good luck.
2007-01-09 21:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your questio sounds like your friend is homosexual. first and foremost still be there for her. she values your friendship enough to let you in on her secret. the person she is with is not up front about her feelings so maybe it will go nowhere. wait and see what happens, your friend will see this for what it is. be there for her.GOOD LUCK
2007-01-09 21:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by sharon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. let her know before its too late and then youll be thinking 'what if'. once you let her know how you feel, its up to her and if she doesnt feel the same way, theres tons of other girls our there.
2007-01-09 21:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her.
2007-01-09 21:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem to
2007-01-09 21:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to her.
2007-01-09 21:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. I don't think that you should drive yourself insane. TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 21:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfbane Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋