used to date this girl, in the summer we dated and did some stuuff wit eachother for about 3 months.. but wen school started up.. we knew things wouldnt work... b/c we were both too busy with other activites. But it was a harsh break up and we both ignored eachother. Long story short.. i had a party, we talked... and got back together durring X mas break , but a week and a bit later we came to terms and realized again this wouldnt work. (we go back to school on mon.) However this time, we promised that we wouldnt ignore eachother, and that we would remain best friends and always talk.. it was a firm agreement .. and we appologized for wut we did.. was this the right desicion? b/c i was thinking to try us out , b4 we say it wont work, (even thou it looks like it wont). If it was the right desicion.. wat are things i can say to her to keep her with me and on good terms (in case i want to do something in the future?) .. it almost seems to me like there'll b nothing to talk about now.
2007-01-09 13:32:41 · 9 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, u just have to make sure that you still talk to her, even if you are just walking through the hall and say hey or something... or if you just call her on the phone sometime just to talk, or on the net.. that might be easier. good luck
2007-01-09 13:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by felicialovesjoshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you 2 keep breaking up just because your in school and have lots of activities? that doesnt make any sense to me apparently you both care for each other and thats what i would tell her all you can do is try if you dont try you will never know if it will work out or not. i think you should try, if it happens that it dont work then you 2 can stay friends.
2007-01-09 21:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you even tried making it work during school? its easier then you think unless you go to seperate schools. its either you go out with her or you dont. you cant have both and still keep her on good terms. im sure if you actually made up your mind she would still be on good terms with you anyways. but whether or not she'll stay with you is another story. you wont be able to force her to be ready and waiting whenver you want her too, and shell wnat to try other people out too. she cant just be a sidegirl and i bet she won twait around for you either. just choose...
2007-01-09 21:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by kallissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop it and stopping beating yourself up. Remain friends, and if something else develops, so be it. Stop trying to have things both ways. Don't turn into a pathetic loser.
2007-01-09 21:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to try it out then tell her you want to try it out. It's good though that even though ur broken up you can still be friends.
2007-01-09 21:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by chickidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u mean that u cant talk to her in school?then ask her for her e-mail address and speak to her online when ur not busy
2007-01-09 21:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you guys need to get away from each other for a while and get in touch within your self first it seems to me that this has nothing to do with her its you
2007-01-09 21:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by carla p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want her to be your fu(k buddy and nothing more am I wrong about that.
2007-01-09 21:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask yourself if you really still like her. It seems you are doubting your feelings.
2007-01-09 21:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Rafael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋