I'm about 5'6", medium length straight brown hair, hazel eyes, athletic body, and good/funny personality. Just so you know before you answer this question.
And I was wondering is that what guys want?? Is that what you would want?? Describe to me your perfect girl.
2007-01-09 13:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't change yourself to please others or be who others want you to be. In a matter of speaking, guys don't like that from as far as I know. Men and guys like women who are independent and confident and don't worry about how others think, they are proud to be who they are. Take pride in yourself, stay indepedent, stay confident. Don't change yourself for others, especially guys. If a guy can't accept you for you, then he isn't the guy for you.
2007-01-09 13:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... unless you've got about a hundred grand to spare on plastic surgery, there's nothing you can do to change what you already have. So conern over what's "perfect" will only lead to frustration (senseless, useless frustration). Further, what's perfect to one guy will not be perfect to another (some like thin, some like athletic or curvy, some like "heavy set", and some are not into the PHYSICAL at all).
To me, there's nothing more sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. A good example would be the African American comedian "Monique". I'm not sure if you're familiar with her, but she talks all the time about how she KNOWS how sexy she is. Physically, I'm not attracted to "bigger" women, but I find her attitude and self image of herself VERY sexy!
Be yourself. You are woman. You are queen. Ultimately, and frankly, there's ONE THING you have that ALL GUYS want. :-) Use that to your advantage and don't settle for some shallow chap who might be with you for the wrong reason(s). Don't worry about your status and appeal.... KNOW you have it (like Monique). You should be more concerned about who will be "Mr. Perfect" for you.
2007-01-09 13:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by gabound75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! You want to know if, by your description, you are attractive to guys? I thought you wanted to know about what guys want. That would include a 'hot babe' and a pickup truck with a camper on the back for me.
The perfect 'woman' (I'm too old for girls) for me would be something more like an android, built by the Tyrell corporation-- like 'Pris' in the movie 'Blade Runner'. I would want her to be dressed differently though-- all decked out like a storefront mannequin in a dress, of course. She could ride in the front seat of my pickup truck with me. Of course she would have to move aside for the dog fairly often. Yea, I'd call her Polly (short for polyvinyl). That would be the perfect woman because I gave up on the concept of perfection in a real woman years ago. I think it was Gloria Stienman who started empowering women to abandon their man-pleasing stereotypical self images back in the 60s. Maybe you should look that up?
You asked!
2007-01-09 13:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Double O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys want a girl who is not so shallow as to think that all guys want the same thing, and a girl who understands that you can't sum up a complex human being with a handful of physical statistics, and a girl who understand that there's no such thing as a perfect girl.
2007-01-09 13:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No---
Change yourself --- yuck
Stoop all the time so you can be 5'-4" and cut your hair off and tattoo one on. go to the eye doctor and get those swirling eye contacts. eat alot of junk food and start watching alot of tv so you can be good and ripe, and stop thinking of yourself as such a good person but to be honest your not all that funny anyway.
2007-01-09 13:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by pa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly, if this is true, this would be good for dating. However, Americans are very obsessed with certain body parts, if you know what i mean..
You are a good person and many people would find that attractive.
Also, height sometimes is a factor.
2007-01-09 13:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if 50 guys answered this question you would get 50 different answers.
The only reason I think you would put what you look like is to get the people answering to say what they think about you.... in which case
you sound fine, but it seems like you worry to much about how you look.
2007-01-09 13:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a hard one i like long hair colour does not matter to me and alittle bit shorter than myself aswell , the eyes i like to same as mine lol,i like a funny person somebody who is easy to talk to romatic and loves adventure
like to go out and have fun and also stay in and cuddle and watch a movie,,likes to have fun in bed,,,and for me like i like something up top to play with if you know what i mean lol but from what you said you sound very nice call me if you want to go out lol bye abd good luck
2007-01-09 13:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy
2007-01-09 13:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by sheerugg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a girl that does something besides sit around and look cute... dance, paint, sing, volunteer with children... I like women who are passionate about something, ya know? Beyond that, my friends and I like women who can open up, let their hair down, and be like one of the guys.
2007-01-09 13:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋