Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

my husband has a history of things that arent good. It started years ago he would leave and say he would be right back i wouldnt see him till 2am. recently he has come home twice smelling of perfume. he stayed out all night had girls hanging around him at his job riding in our company van used false names to theese girls lied to be about calls to and from them. phone records prove different. when i called the girls they said they got with my man. he has a history of looking at porn. He dinied it all siad it just looks bad. its all about perception! i forgave him he promised to never do anything that would hurt me like that again. well 3 days ago i came across his my space giving some girl a sexy comment i freaked out said it was over the following to days all he did was hunt down girls on the computer had covos with them telling them he wants to wine and dine then and has giving out a friend of your cell phone number for the girls to call him. he dont lokk if you dont w/t hurt

2006-12-22 13:18:02 · 20 answers · asked by lucky 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 18 and hes 22..we both want a baby and we love each other alot...he is saying to me that having a child now would be ok without getting married. hes saying that if we rush into a marrige at the ages that we are we might not want to be with each other when we get a little older and more mature. because you do change as a person from 18 to 22. and if we have a child say next year and we raise the child until he or she if 5 and we get divorced because we chaged so much its gonna mess the childs life up. but if you we have and baby now and its doesnt work out it wont effect the baby that much. and he says he wants a dream wedding not just some bulls-h-i-t and he doesnt have the means right now to get that big ring and big wedding

2006-12-22 13:17:58 · 22 answers · asked by <3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're both in high school. Yet we don't have any classes together but we have mutual friends. I have yet to talk to her, yet I wanna go out with her sometime.

We're both in winter break now. What would be a good precedent for us to meet?

2006-12-22 13:17:55 · 4 answers · asked by midwestteamsportspack 1 in Singles & Dating

would you be happy with their unhappiness?

2006-12-22 13:17:32 · 8 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5 in Friends

All my friends like the same boy I do

2006-12-22 13:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by Olyvia F 1 in Friends

i have a friend who is constantly getting manipulated by her boyfriend. I can tell she is really unhappy with him but everytime she tries to end things between them he talks her out of it. How would you help her get out of a bad relationship, she doesn't really want to be in?

2006-12-22 13:16:14 · 9 answers · asked by megans_98 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy named eward me and him fight not like fighting but the frlirty types and this happened ever since I started it at this dance and I wanna konw if u think this is just an act or that he is just doing this or that he likes me but also he wouldn't fight back but now he starts the fights and I only started one .

2006-12-22 13:15:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never had s3x..but i mesterbate ..so when i do..i cvm so quick..so i thought if i cvm quick during mestarbate i would defenitly cvm even earlier during s3x....so what sould i do?? and when sould i cvm if i dont use a c0nd0m...cuz i heard it feels way better without c0nd0m?? HELP ?????

2006-12-22 13:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever my crush talks to me, I say something arrogent and stupid. It always HAS to be about me, and he just get turned off. How can I lose my nerves and make a GOOD convo with my crush? please help

2006-12-22 13:13:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 13:13:32 · 16 answers · asked by lol omg jk lmao brb ty yw stfu 1 in Family

he spends all of our money on booze is out all weekend never calls i have 3 young children and am 22 he is 34 you think he would be more mature any suggestions please

2006-12-22 13:13:23 · 18 answers · asked by subbysbaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well i like this boy rite lol...and i sit next 2 him in 1 of my classes and sit near him in another...he talks 2 me every know and then and even teases me a little bit...hes funny and makes me laugh bt i dnt know if he likes me...and if he dosent wat could show him i like him?

2006-12-22 13:12:52 · 3 answers · asked by disperson 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 13:12:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 13:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-22 13:11:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, and i'm sure he likes me because we danced twice at a dance yesterday. Anyway, everyone is saying i like him now, and word has probably gotten back to him, and I'm afraid that now he'll think I was telling everyone that I like him, now I think things are going to be akward. I don't know him that well, at all, and now I'm afraid he won't be interested in me anymore. He's two years older than me. What do I do to make sure he's still interested and make things un-akward for both me and him?

2006-12-22 13:10:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My so-called best friend is a gay male. We met in college because we both liked drinking and dancing. It was always a surface friendship that we perceived as being much deeper, but never truly was. The more I get to know him (known since 1998) the more I realize we have very little in common. He lies to me and I've busted him. He keeps sleeping with this same horrible person who has ripped his heart out despite my advice and then lies to me because he knows I will ask him why. I don't see how I can continue in a friendship that is going nowhere and especially with someone who calls me his best friend, but lies frequently. When I think about ending the friendship, it doesn't make me sad. Almost seems like a relief that I won't have to deal with the gay drama anymore. His reaction would be horrible as he thinks everything is fine. He also recently asked me to move in with him. In my better judgement, I can't. How do I handle and/or possibly end a friendship and tell him I won't move in??

2006-12-22 13:10:55 · 6 answers · asked by GiMo 2 in Friends

she does thing just to get me mad as H*** imma bout to beat the S***T out of her if she don't stop flirting with him and bumping into me i swear !!!!!!!!!

2006-12-22 13:09:56 · 6 answers · asked by LoveDolve 1 in Singles & Dating

Feeling charitable, I brought a new girlfriend and her 3 daughters home from a shelter to live with me. A month afterward, I realized the responsibility (and her "habits") to be far too overwhelming on me. She was "absent" for Thanksgiving, and I packed her things and ordered her out. She had called yelling, and I nearly had a stress heartattack from her actions...so I called the cops. We talked through that, and she went back in the shelter (soon to have her own place). Should I keep my faith that things will get better? Or, is it just time to call it quits?

2006-12-22 13:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by Kaptain Kirk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you ever read the shampoo bottle while shampooing your hair?

I do all the time, I was just curious as to if you do as well..

2006-12-22 13:09:14 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going to see my husband after 6 months he is out of the country what gift should i get him?

2006-12-22 13:09:06 · 6 answers · asked by tropic f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, and seriously none of that crap "Its what you do with it". Obviously if it is small you have to do something pretty bloody amazing with it. Bigger is better yes or no and some comments inbetween. Really would like to set it straight.

2006-12-22 13:08:47 · 24 answers · asked by Bacistocaz 1 in Singles & Dating

last minute, need to ship immediately, she is very elderly

2006-12-22 13:08:32 · 5 answers · asked by dfb_construction 1 in Family

at school she hangs around alot of girls as if she were a man...she scares me and i am starting not to want her around me but she still follows...how can i get rid of her>?

2006-12-22 13:08:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-22 13:07:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Broke up with a man 25 yrs ago as he couldnt take commitment,got in touch 5 yrs ago, met 2 yrs ago,felt very strongly, resumed e mails,we both live oceans apart but all of a sudden, he sounded very pissed off at me for calling,felt i was needy and now has stopped communication. i dont call very often, maybe 2 times a mth. I am married to another and he knows there is no question of a divorce so i am not about to end up at his doorstep nor does he wants marraige.I am hurt beyond belief. I thought that after loosing me once, he would want to keep the friendship.what do i do?

2006-12-22 13:07:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 13:06:25 · 12 answers · asked by ~*~iTS BRiTRT BABE >3 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't go to bars. I am an attractive woman and wondering where is the best place to me honest men.

2006-12-22 13:06:19 · 12 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ok i know race is not an issue when it comes to love .. but i'm sure most will have a preference before u can go to the next level of commitment (hmmm... roughly get what i mean)?

ok since i'm south east asian
so my preference will be
1. south east asian
2. asians
3. hispanic
4. caucasian/european
5. middle eastern

whats yrs

2006-12-22 13:05:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever my crush talks to me, I say something arrogent and stupid. It always HAS to be about me, i'm such and idiot! How can I lose my nerves and make a GOOD convo with my crush?

2006-12-22 13:04:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating