Whenever my crush talks to me, I say something arrogent and stupid. It always HAS to be about me, i'm such and idiot! How can I lose my nerves and make a GOOD convo with my crush?
2006-12-22 13:04:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, lemme tell u this.. YOU ARE NOT an idiot.. if u are, maybe the world is full of idiots..cuz we do stupid stuff like that too when we're with our crush..
second, if u're askin me, this is wat i know.. as much as u need to be urself, if u truly love him, u'll think about him first rather than u.. listen, i'm NOT condemning u.. i'm sayin that if u care about him, then u might wanna focus ur mind on him.. keep thinkin about him..ask him about his favorites, even his weaknesses.. when he asks about u, then u answer him.. well, sometimes talkin somethin 'stupid' (i dunno wat this means..) is who u are..and he MIGHT like that.. i dunno.. he might also enjoy that openness of yours..
but i guess u outta try to be sincerely interested in him..make him the center of the conversation.. if he realizes, then he'll balance it out by asking u questions..
thirdly, i lose my nerves too when im around my crush..
lastly, u're not an idiot..and do me this small favor: Never say that to urself again.. u deserve a better encouragement than that..
2006-12-22 13:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. I don't think you can "lose" your nerves... but just be yourself.
Most people tend to sway when they are trying to impress someone, and that will lead into only trouble.
As for being able to talk to him... try NOT to bring up anything that's too related to you for now, until you're comfortable tlking with him. You can always ask him about himself.
Good-luck.
And Happy Holidays!
2006-12-22 13:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Min 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a minimum of you're trying. do no longer provide up, you will get greater advantageous with slightly greater time. some adult adult males are so afriad, they in no way get around to asking females they like out. I congratulate you on plowing for the duration of the ackwardness and going for it. it gets much less puzzling. do no longer subject with reference to the girls that don't communicate over with you anymore and don't beat your self up. Onward (to the subsequent one). you will advance your person form and learn what works for you and what would not.
2016-10-18 21:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think cool. think its ur best friend. just ask him how hes doing and stuff like that
good luck =]
2006-12-22 13:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋