okay, my fiancee and i live together, and have recently been fighting more often than we aren't. there were some things he did that really upset me, and i thought we had figured out a way to work things out. we had tentatively agreed that we needed to leave certain parts of our relationship out for a while, in order to make things work.. those parts would be the sex-related ones, seeing as the things he was doing were all sex-related. i thought that if we concentrated on the non-sexual part for a while, we might develop a better understanding of eachothers mindsets... however this morning he got upset and told me i was being selfish, and that the whole no sex for now thing was just my idea, and that i needed to REALLY think it over. maybe i'm just a selfish female, but is sex supposed to be the only important part of a relationship? or is actually knowing eachother kinda important too, seeing as one day we'd like to be married? PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-12-09
03:49:08
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Marriage & Divorce