but she hung out with her friends on campus and didn't call me to hang out until 4:30 in the morning. we got in a fight, do i have the right to be pissed??
2006-12-09 03:54:24 · 26 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um yes. If she was going to see you, but made other plans without telling you. It's inconsiderate and selfish of her.
2006-12-09 03:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed off myself but think about it a minute.
If you two made a date and she ignored it you need to let her know that you think that is inconsiderate and you think she should at least call you earlier and cancel so you can make other plans (because she should know you have other things you can do too).
Its important that you both understand each other but don't be so angry that you don't hear her, neither be so upset that you don't hear yourself. You should both be happy. I believe that is what relationships are there for, so you would be happy. It is just difficult when one party (either you or her) is inconsiderate and disrespectful to the feelings of the other.
Just think for a minute though, if you were out with your friends, would you have left her waiting? It could be really easy if you were just having a good time and you know that she was home safe.
I would forgive her and welcome her because I am a fool for love, but do let her know that (even though you understand,) she should be more considerate in the future.
2006-12-09 04:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have every right to be angry at her. She should have been a little more responsible than that. Also why did she wait until 4:30 in the morning to make contact with you. What could have made her want to stay out that long without any contact. Reconsider this girl. I don't see a bright future for the two of you...Good luck
2006-12-09 04:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because she was suppose to stay with you and she had you waiting wondering were she was. And atop of that she didn't call until 4 in the morning. Of course you should be pissed.
2006-12-09 04:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure do. But is it the first time she has done this? How long have you been going out with her? Missing all these details, I would suggest that once you have gotten over your anger, explain to her, that it would have been common courtesy for her to call you and say that she was running late and that maybe she could cancel for that night, or have you meet her at a specific time. That's the best I can say.
2006-12-09 04:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by majean52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh ya, I think if that was me I would be more then pissed off. If she has done this more then once then dump her and date someone who will hang out with you to. And not just her Friends.
2006-12-09 03:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Differently! If she was there to be with you she should of started there then move on. U could of spend time with her and her friends if you were asked and if u didn't want to u at least had the chioce. Maybe it is time to look else were? Exspecially if this has happened before.
2006-12-09 04:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by lighthousebug64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pissed no, if your in a relationship the two of you need to remain calm and trust each other, just tell her it bothers you that she never called to tell you she wasn't comming over... people make mistakes and nobodys perfect, the trick is to get along with the persons imperfections, if you let them get to you now, they will tear you apart in the long run
2006-12-09 03:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Todd M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You should have waited the compulsory 30 mins for her to call/show and then found somethin else to do with your important time. And, she wasn't with her girlfriends, dummy!
2006-12-09 04:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do. But don't drag it out to long. Forget about it now. It is over cadover. Move on tomorrow is another day.
2006-12-09 03:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋