A lovely couple married not long turn to break up after several miserable disputations, Is divorce a good solution?
2006-12-09 03:49:45 · 21 answers · asked by ELGINKOH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No.
Get some counseling first. If you believed in each other enough to get married, you owe it to each other to work at the relationship for a while. Remember that any person, no matter how 'perfect', is going to chafe a little when you're living with them all the time - try to find compromises where you don't get your way all the time, and be appreciative of your spouse. Listen to them, respect their opinions, and compliment them for the things they do. You'll soon find things improving - although divorce may still be in your future. It takes two.
2006-12-09 03:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is not a GOOD solution to any marriage. It is the final solution.
If you have exhausted every possible means of reconcilitation, with no hopes of working things out, then and only then should divorce be considered.
What is "married not long?" A year? Less? The first couple of years of marriage are the hardest, for any couple.
Things start out well and you ride the high emotions of the honeymoon for a few months. Then, that high wears off an dyou are left with the other person.
The other person is the one you told you would standy by them in good and bad times. Better or worse. Right now, it sounds like you are at a bad spot.
It will pass, unless you deide not to do anything about it, and walk away.
I think if you quit on the marriage before you begin to fight for it, you will have lost more than you think.
Get some guidance from a counselor. If you both are committed to the relationship, you will be able to work through this. Don't forget, you love your spouse and they love you, you just may not like each other at the moment. Figure a way to get past this moment and the coming years will be better.
Good luck
2006-12-09 04:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by bux_martinfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the disputes were. Some can be fixed and some can't because trust and respect was lost, as in my case. If there is any chance of working things out, I say the couple needs to sit down and have a long talk, and possibly go to therapy. But part of talking is also listening to what the other says and how the other person feels. Communication won't work if there isn't anyone listening.
2006-12-09 19:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes to divorce, If love is no longer apart of a "couples" lives, remaining married to each other is no longer justified. Many marriages break up and do it badly angrily and nasty, I know some breakups are friendly and civil. Most people getting divorced can't stand to be in the same room little share their lives together unhappy, and making everyone they know unhappy as well.
2016-05-22 22:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, marriage wasn't made for divorce. arguments, big fights and things like that happen. The way I see it, now they're family. If you fight with your sister/brother do you "break up" with them? No. You eventually work it out. So I don't think so, as long as there's some mutual agreement, without hate or resentment that has been made that this is the end of the ride.
2006-12-09 04:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Are you fighting over toothpaste? People get divorced over the silliest reasons these days...and even sillier are the reasons they get married in the first place. I say if you both were stupid enough to marry someone you can't get along with, then you deserve each other. Marriage is a contract.
2006-12-09 04:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing would be to talk thru the diffrences and make up. What God has put together, no man shall separate. And thru marriage, God puts man and woman together and Him alone has the right to separate.
So divorce wuldnt be the best thing to do.
2006-12-09 03:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Geolove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you should work it out, communicate with each other. Listen more, and understand alot. It is so easy to get divorcced these days, why not try to salvage the marrieage by talking or seeking counseling!!
2006-12-09 04:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Who Dat Chic!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definitely not.There are no perfect marriage in this world.Al
couples have their own problem and differences.Love unconditionally is the only way to celebrate your 50th anniversary,but this applied only to those with great patient and a big heart.
2006-12-09 03:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oddly written but the answer is "no" divorce is not a good solution.
2006-12-09 04:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋