Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

My boyfriend said that he was going to stay home with me for christmas, but he blew me off to go home because his mother offered to cook her famous ribs. Should I be mad.

2006-12-08 13:21:48 · 21 answers · asked by Mia W 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy. so i told my friends thay i liked him. somehow a rummor went around and got to him. once he found out he started talking to me more and was flirting with me. i dont know if hes flirting with me cuz he knows i like him or cuz he really likes me?

2006-12-08 13:21:36 · 11 answers · asked by littlebell1993 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 24 year old woman who had lots of anger towards her father my father delivered me brought me into this world. When I was about 16 I notice my dad was acting funny then I found out that he had lost his job that he had for like ever and I found out that he was using cocaine and then he started not comming home my mother and father where married since they where 18 years old so like 39 years ago they hooked up they have 5 children and I am the 4th child. My father and I where very close to each other but hen I found out that he was doing cocaine and that put a wedge between us I ran away because he became a person that i couldn't face when I came back I was pregnant and that wasn't really hard on us but then he started to act even weirder and then he started to ask for money I would borrow him money and then he needed more money and then we had a storage unit that had all of my daughters baby stuff in and all of our baby stuff from are entire family and he was suppose to pay on it

2006-12-08 13:21:08 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda B 2 in Family

What should I get her? She said she likes whatever "the average girl likes". Meaning?

2006-12-08 13:20:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sites please :)?

2006-12-08 13:20:10 · 1 answers · asked by Mackenzie W 1 in Friends

2006-12-08 13:20:02 · 12 answers · asked by lonely 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

does anyone know a good love spell that is guaranteed to work that i can do myself and that is free if so please tell me it would be very appriciated thanks.

2006-12-08 13:18:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 13:18:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy molested me daily for about two months, till finally I threatened to tell. Now he is starting again and I want to know why?? It happens with both him and his friend now. Will they eventually lead to rape??

2006-12-08 13:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but im not sure if its the right thing to do.im not sure if i love him or not.he cheated and i feel he cant be faithful.how can i call it off?

2006-12-08 13:16:23 · 11 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl name ashley she thinks I am going out with someone

2006-12-08 13:16:00 · 2 answers · asked by shane p 1 in Friends

This girl and I went on a couple dates and lunch dates. She is 24 and just broke up with her bf. I heard she was doing stuff with him so I asked where things were at with him. She just said it was "complicated". I asked if that meant she was getting back with him or not and she refused to answer one way or another. I asked if she wanted to go out that weekend and she said things were too fragile but that she would like to go out in the future. Am I just waiting for nothing or why can't she seem to be honest if she is going with this other guy? Does she want to be friends or something or is she confused and trying to decide who to be with? I give up...

2006-12-08 13:15:41 · 9 answers · asked by Chuck J 2 in Singles & Dating

What could I buy for my 5 year old nephew , I don't want to buy any toys cause he has way too much toys? Any ideas?

2006-12-08 13:15:00 · 2 answers · asked by Agusia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

8th december:

~i found out that one of the staff from my training place was fired because she was involved with one of the students =O
~i found out that my "almost-boyfriend" really is serious about ending what we had between us but i like him alot still... ='(
~i found out that my teacher is a great mentor
~i learnt that i cannot do good in exams if i am stressed about love no matter how hard i try to forget it
~i heard that my "almost-boyfriend" spent alot of time with some girl called stacey...this week (i am sure she is just a friend from college BUT STILL ¬¬)
~i learnt that i almost loved that "almost-boyfriend" and didn't realise it BUT HE IS A BASTARD for not loving me out of all people lol xD

can't remember the rest...

how about you?

2006-12-08 13:14:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 13:14:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

theres this guy that goes to my church and he is a good christian and a great friend!
BUT online, he answers back slow and they are fairly short answers [he says he is just hanging around, so he isn't busy.] but in real life he talks a TON, blushes, and flirts even.
im his first single girl in his top friends, but he never comments me back.
hes always there to listen to me and help me.
he also tries to innocently touch me [like brushing his hand against mine, holding something so his hand is on top of mine and stuff like that] but thats only in real life...
in real life, he starts ALL the conversations, but online, i start all of them?
he just acts so much different online than he does in real life... and i don't get why! because hes never busy, always bored, and stuff like that

2006-12-08 13:13:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i took your peoples advice and brought this sweet honey to the beach for our first date earlier today. she was nice and ooked cute in her bikini, but when i asked her if she wanted to go swimming or surfing, she said no. i love surfing and the beach is a big part of my life, but shes afraid of the water. is that reason enough not to ask her out again because she is a hottie?

2006-12-08 13:13:07 · 3 answers · asked by justinxtime 1 in Singles & Dating

It's all very well to see them on-line,
But would it scare you to see one for real?

2006-12-08 13:13:04 · 11 answers · asked by nev 4 in Friends

Do you think we're born with a certain kissing style, like a fingerprint, or is it possible to change/improve?

2006-12-08 13:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by CuriousT 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

recently i got hurt from this guy i liked. we were friends and he called me a freak and s*it because i was gonna make him a card and get people to sign it for him for his birthday (big mistake on my part) and now i feel afraid of telling guys how i feel because i dont want the same thing to happen again. i really like this guy and we are friends and i want to let him know how i feel but i dont want to be too forward. i would really appreciate some advice or words to help me get over my irrational fear. i think he likes me but he might not. i'm so confused right now

2006-12-08 13:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by b3lla 3 in Singles & Dating

I have fallen for my ex boyfriend of 6 years friend. It is acutally his best friend. I know that he feels the same way a little bit becuase his roommate told me to just wait a little longer because of the friendship between the ex and his friend. The roommate also said the friendship between my ex and his friend is sorta not as strong as it used to be.

My ex's friend knows about my feelings but I havent talked to him about it. Should I wait or what?

Also, am i a horrible person for falling for his best friend?

2006-12-08 13:12:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where she is what she's doing who she's w/ and who's at home w/ her and i don't think my mom likes it either but she won't stand up for herself she feeds his need to control which she pretty much has done all her life well when she was living w/ him i understand cuz he cud get violently angry (he has a huge scary *** temper even ppl older than him get **** scared and no kids like little him) and he also does this w/ me and i wanna be free of him 4ever i feel like cryin sumtimes and feel suffocated and trapt a lot cuz of it he hardly would let me do anything (i don't know even if my mom will let me have normal amount of freedom lyk normal parents cuz she might get afraid of him) if u have a control freak parent then u know how i feel and soon my cuz is cumin so i'm gonna be hanging out w/ her but he might stop tht (specially sine she's the only 1 who sees him 4 wut he relly is so how do i break free and break contact w/o getting **** 4rom fam i'm not aggresive hes ruined me persoanl

2006-12-08 13:10:51 · 1 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family

2006-12-08 13:10:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 13:10:36 · 4 answers · asked by PATRICIA 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 13:10:10 · 2 answers · asked by bournejackal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The strangest thing happened to me today and I just wanted to relate to anyone else that has been through something similar.
Story is...
I went smooth off on my husband in Jan.05. I decided to leave permanently. I divorced my husband shortly after. I basically kept all of my feelings inside from then on. I did not become bitter but was sad for awhile. Still, I held myself together until Nov.05 when I was in a car and a song came over the radio. It gave me chills. It was exactly how I felt about the situation and even spoke of some things I had actually said to him in the end...I wept hysterically. I bought that CD, the song was "I wish I wasn't" by Heather Headley. I played it for about a month then realized it was not helping me and threw it out. I managed, and have been okay ever since. Until today that is. I was sitting in an office and that song came over the speaker. I could not control myself, I left crying. I thought I was over it.

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2006-12-08 13:09:38 · 14 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to my friends durring the weekdays only when my mom says i can to work on homework then when i get home my dad yells at me and grounds me for to weeks just because i forgot to tell my mom what time i would be home.

2006-12-08 13:09:25 · 30 answers · asked by samirae217 1 in Family

2006-12-08 13:09:23 · 14 answers · asked by Sooo. 3 in Singles & Dating

My long-term/live-with boyfriend has a mood disorder and anxiety issues. He's on medication which works well. However, he still has the occasional, bad panic attack. I've been trying to convince him to see a psycologist (not necessarily on a regular basis even) to get some copeing techniques. Every time I talk to him about it he gets really upset. He has an appointment with his psychiatrist coming up. I was thinking of e-mailing the psychiatrist asking him to talk to my boyfriend about it. Coming from an expert, my boyfriend would probably listen. And he could get a referral to a good/appropriate one. Would this be totally wrong? Thank you for the help!

2006-12-08 13:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by mume13579 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 13:05:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating