My boyfriend said that he was going to stay home with me for christmas, but he blew me off to go home because his mother offered to cook her famous ribs. Should I be mad.
2006-12-08 13:21:48 · 21 answers · asked by Mia W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he sounds like a mammys boy
2006-12-08 13:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO family comes first. Does he get to his his mother very often? If he doesn't then you should not even be the slightest mad at him. How would it make you feel if he go mad because you went home to be with family?
2006-12-08 21:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tyetta P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you close to your mom?
If you are, than I would hope you'd understand,
If not, try to understand that some people need family.
Have you shared your feelings (without nagging or guilt trip)?
Have the two of you been dating long enough that you could possibly attend X-mas with him at his mom's? If yes, maybe you aren't as close as you think or if no, give it till next year.
Do you have friends or family you could be with?
You could enjoy your time alone, watch movies, down a bottle of wine and give yourself a facial & paint your toe nails.
Life won't end if you're alone for x-mas... My mom lives in a different part of the province & always works x-mas, I have felt for years that x-mas is for kids and it's highly over-rated. (christians stole it from pagans and it's now overly commercialized)
Last year my husband and I were supposed to go to his parents, he picked a fight with me Dec. 23, he went, I relaxed, cuddled with the dog on the couch in front of the fireplace & watched movies, cleaned the house and spent some time thinking about our relationship... we seperated shortly after.
This has actually been a really good year.
2006-12-08 21:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by aljo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Don't be mad. We all should be around "family" for the holidays. Maybe you two can get together afterwards. That way his mom is happy, and you'll end up happy cuz you'll see him later. And he'll feel great because he made both of you happy.
2006-12-08 21:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depend on how long ya'll have been together! If you are a new couple then nah you shouldnt be mad. If you have been with him a while then heck ya you should be mad, his mom had him for the first part of his life now it is your turn!
2006-12-08 21:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by hottie_n_ms69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and no, Yes b/c he blew you off. And no b/c he went to spend the Holiday w/ his mom. Just tell him that he should not make plans w/ you and then blow you off. Tell him how you feel.
2006-12-08 21:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just occupy yourself until he gets back. And could you get the "famous rib" recipe for me?
2006-12-08 21:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get up set...tell him to bring some to you,
and all is forgiven.
Seriously...don't start the your mama thing.
It has ruined many a relationship.
Mama will always win.
If you want this to go the long haul,
pick your fights wisely.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS
2006-12-08 21:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be...disappointed......you should realize it's hard to come between a Boy's stomach and his Mom's cooking.
2006-12-08 21:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his mother makes some really good ribs.
I'd be annoyed.. definitely..
2006-12-08 21:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋