Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

so theres this boy . ive gone out with him 3 times. Basically, when i break up with him he gets really depressed and yells at me constantly and says hes gunna kill himself, which hurts me because hes one of my bestfriends. thing is, deep deep down i'll always love my ex. i went to a party a few weeks ago and i said i missed him and he said he missed me too, then i broke up with my boyfriend(the second time, we went out the year before) and the other guy and his girlfriend broke up.. then i asked him out and he said no, because he doesnt wanna hurt anyone. now im going out with the boy i was with before, and idk if i like him, and yesterday i figured out that the guy i really love is trying to decide between me and another girl. my boyfriends getting suspicious, i dont wanna hurt him.. but its the right thing to do.But theres no guarantee im gunna get the other boy, who ive always loved. but theres a high

2006-11-11 14:01:57 · 17 answers · asked by xPEANUTx 2 in Singles & Dating

Im in college now, but I have a few friends from high school that were really close to me for 3 years straight and we do talk to once in awhile. Sometimes they act cold and distant almost as though they dont want to talk to me .. and other times they are as friendly as can be only when i tell them how much I miss them--they never say it first? There is one person in particular that I really do not get along with from high school and whenever we do talk they bring he/she up and how much time they spend together. These were people that I trusted whole-heartedly and suddenly they are acting very different why is this? why do people change so much after highschool and should I still consider these people close friends?

2006-11-11 14:01:35 · 8 answers · asked by lolo s 1 in Friends

I can get her when she is unstable and on the rebound...We will then have a couple kids and I will have it made.It's okay Sharon at my job told me Britney likes big men.

2006-11-11 13:59:42 · 28 answers · asked by Italian Stallion 2 in Singles & Dating

well my bf (now husband) cheated on me. and I was done and ready to leave but my heart wouldnt allow it. Well he's army so he is deployed but so is the female he cheated on me with. So whenever we get the chance to talk I always bring it up. I dont like to and I feel its ruin my marriage and we are still newlyweeds. So my question to males and females. How do u get pass this or did u just leave. I want to stick by him but i dont want to be blind to the fact of it happen again. And I know it hurts him when I bring it up EVERYTIME we talk. And not only that but they still communicate thru emails after work which I dont think is ok. I havent told him cuz im not tryna be a pest. But what dIo i do? I told him that I want counciling when he returns and he said ok. I dont want to add more stress to our marriage thats why im askng for advice. PLEASE answer only if u are serious and are truly trying to help. Thanks in advance

2006-11-11 13:59:16 · 9 answers · asked by poohbeark19 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I get my energy back? If you look at the previous question I just asked (my husband wants to date others and let me date others but not get separated legally) I told him NO WAY. Yet I have since lost psychic energy for doing much of anything. I feel drained. How can I get my energy back?

2006-11-11 13:59:10 · 25 answers · asked by Sweet 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what do u do when u like some one but u have never met him,and your friend saids he is a sweet guy,but u don't know what 2 do

2006-11-11 13:58:56 · 13 answers · asked by you should have signed out 2 in Singles & Dating

Well me and my buddies were joking around at teh lunch table and were having a great time.then we were talking about penis sizes (ik it's a really weird thing to talk about at lunch.) well my bf sat at the next table over and i was showing him how big his was which i showed it wasn't very big.everyone started laughing and joking around even his friends did.but then he mouhted the most horrible words he or anyone ahs ever said to me in my entire life.(seriously) he said, "F**k you."i was so hurt and embarrassed at that point i couldn't believe wut he had just said to me i didn't even feel like talking to him after that.i didn't know wut i did wrong.because we joke about that kind of stuff with him all the time and he never seems to get mad. he always laughs his head off.i have no clue wut the heck i did.he said he was sorry right after lunch and he didn't mean to tell me that but part of me forgave him and part of me didn't want to.girls wut would u do about this? i am so lost right now

2006-11-11 13:58:44 · 12 answers · asked by kkdej89 2 in Singles & Dating

Wife of 13 years wants open marriage. We have three kids (7,2,1) and I do not want to be reduced to being a part-time Dad. Thoughts?

2006-11-11 13:58:42 · 26 answers · asked by downs_boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to marry a beautiful half Greek and half Spanish girl with a 36C and a nice rear. I want her to be very gorgeous so all the guys will be jealous of me. I want them to drool at my wife and knowing they cannot have sex with her except for myself. Can our marriage last a long time? Would my beautiful trophy wife cost me a lot of money like buying make up and clothes? What would she want from me to continue to be my trophy wife?

2006-11-11 13:58:22 · 8 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well my bf (now husband) cheated on me. and I was done and ready to leave but my heart wouldnt allow it. Well he's army so he is deployed but so is the female he cheated on me with. So whenever we get the chance to talk I always bring it up. I dont like to and I feel its ruin my marriage and we are still newlyweeds. So my question to males and females. How do u get pass this or did u just leave. I want to stick by him but i dont want to be blind to the fact of it happen again. And I know it hurts him when I bring it up EVERYTIME we talk. And not only that but they still communicate thru emails after work which I dont think is ok. I havent told him cuz im not tryna be a pest. But what dIo i do? I told him that I want counciling when he returns and he said ok. I dont want to add more stress to our marriage thats why im askng for advice. PLEASE answer only if u are serious and are truly trying to help. Thanks in advance

2006-11-11 13:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by poohbeark19 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we dated 2 years, her mom loves me, her dad hates me, i really love her shes my 1st true love, and i am her 1st love.

2006-11-11 13:56:55 · 26 answers · asked by Kellen McConnon 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend just hit me with kinda a shocker, that being that he suggested I go out with his wife's younger sister. I really don't know her all that well, but that is not the issue. I am very concious of maintaining a good relationship with my friends wives, and I worry if it happens and I am just not interested but she is, that will put a strain on me being cool with my buddy's wife. Am I looking way too deep or is this a legitimate concern...

2006-11-11 13:56:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 13:56:39 · 6 answers · asked by --V-- 5 in Friends

2006-11-11 13:55:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you knew this girl, but you arent really friends and you come to find out that her husband is going to strip clubs and then taking strippers back to hotels with his friends to party and to do whatever else, would you tell her? What if he was sleeping with them without protection and she ended up getting something from him, would you feel that it wasyour fault because you never said anything?

2006-11-11 13:55:46 · 33 answers · asked by Jasmine829 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can you be friends with you ex boyfriend with out if being weird? or should i totaly not go there?

2006-11-11 13:54:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you ever think about what's your purpose in this life?

2006-11-11 13:53:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

conversation (in myspace boy seems to have alot of friends):
girl- do you talk to all your "friends" ? im just ...curious by the way sorry 3 bother u y/dy swb

boy- hahahaha umm most of them i mostly have them for just in cas eif i need them

2006-11-11 13:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f has been friends w/ this guy 4 about 14 years. ive become pretty good friends w/ him..he comes over 2 my house sometimes but we stopped thinkin that will make my b/f mad! when he came ove rhe kisses me on the cheek. and hugs me and stuff. when he hugs me i git butterflies in my stomach. and we talk on the fone.. do i like him. and is that ok? its not like i would break up w/ my b/f 4 him! i have the greatest gift in the world rite now, hes mine. and i love him! so wut do i do?

2006-11-11 13:52:14 · 3 answers · asked by -adri; Your my wonderwallll. 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to research the napoleon complex syndrome but no good websites or encyclopedias will tell me more about this subject....either can you tell me a good website or tell me more about what they do;...what there lives are like...if you are a napoleon complex/ etc...

2006-11-11 13:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had a kind of very strict upbringing,and i have got a very few friends.I moved to a different country and don't seem to be able to get rid of "attitude" as my entourage call it,which makes it difficult to befriend people. Did anyone go through that situaton or is going through? have you got some tips on how to look friendly? i have to add the fact that i'm a bit shy.

2006-11-11 13:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by Teila 2 in Friends

a 42 yr old man leaves his wife of 24 yrs for some 21 yr old.......their daughter says to her dad........how can you be with this girl shes young enough to be your daughter (the daughter is 13)....the dad says to her dont you want daddy to be happy......i ask you all this.......is that a statement that should be said to our daughter.why she she be concerned with his happiness...why would he even say this..........am i right to feel this way or what.......give me your views

2006-11-11 13:50:37 · 11 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am "casually" dating this girl. She is 25. She and I just got out of long relationships and want to take it slow. What should I get her that wouldn't push things too fast? She has expensive taste but I do not have alot of $$.

2006-11-11 13:50:05 · 18 answers · asked by sbinder3111 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why?

2006-11-11 13:48:31 · 19 answers · asked by Compton,CA 4 in Singles & Dating

My best freind Laura..well she doesn't have a the POWER to ask her crush out. She LOVES HIM omg. Should I call him and ask him out for her...that is how i got my bf. Ummm....it is okay with her if I do it but I need more than that SHOULD I asap

2006-11-11 13:48:17 · 11 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Friends

My boyfriend of 3 years is drivng me crazy. When we first got together it was good, and he was sweet and caring. Now he is becomming selfish and mean. He drinks alot and he has always done this but now when he gets drunk we argue all the time. When he wakes up the next day he has no idea of what happened the night before. I have talked to him about it and he just appolizes for what happed when he was drunk, but I still remember what was said and done. I cant take it any more, but I do love him and when he's not drunk, he's the best. Any suggestions?

2006-11-11 13:48:16 · 3 answers · asked by mschrissy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 13:48:08 · 1 answers · asked by lala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just wondering what the benefits are. I'm 21 and right now marriage seems depressing to me. How do you keep things exciting and don't you ever feel burdened, like you're responsible for keeping that person happy for the rest of their life?

2006-11-11 13:46:59 · 16 answers · asked by redpillowcase 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 13:46:33 · 9 answers · asked by chinadoll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 13:45:55 · 7 answers · asked by tinkerbear2000 1 in Singles & Dating