i am 16 and marry is that 2 young and wrong?

Question

we dated 2 years, her mom loves me, her dad hates me, i really love her shes my 1st true love, and i am her 1st love.

Answer 1

Lets hope your love can survive education seperation, bouncing hormones that havent yet settled and dreams/aspirations that could be stunted because of it.

If so, then i guess - why not ? Its all about commitment and maturity i suppose. Even at 30, a person would have to worry about all the thigns i said above and get thru it.

Answer 2

I don't want to sit here and say "You are way too young!!!!11", but I will say this:

You are young. You are both young. I know that when I was 16 years old, I was certain that I knew who I was, and what I wanted out of life. My best friend, the same age, was engaged to the person she *knew* she wanted to spend her life with. Now, 5 years have passed, and neither of us are where we thought we would be. She is married (to an amazing man, very much the opposite of her then-boyfriend). And I am engaged to someone I'm not sure I would have dated even 3 years ago (*not* my first love). Meanwhile, people I knew in high school have children with people they hardly speak to, and some have even gone through divorces. And they've just broken into their twenties.

What am I saying? Wait. Just wait. The next few years (especially those directly following high school) will hold so much change for the both of you. She will grow, and transform into a new, and better person...she may not recognize herself. And you, dear, you will do the same. The trick is to see if when you grow, you do so in the same direction, or ones that differ. So give it time. If, at the age of 20, you find that you have grown together. If you still share the same passions, for life, and each other...then do get married. Until then..just be patient; you don't need to be married to enjoy your love. Good luck, kiddo.

Answer 3

I'm dating a single mom... she was married at 16 and thought she would have a partner for life... now she's 24, divorced and fully responsible for the kids. She works so hard to support the kids (and her ex works hard for child support) that college isn't really an option for either. Life doesn't always go according to plan and by getting married early you put your futures at serious risk. If your love is for life, then it can wait for you to put college and a career first. Heck, if you have that kind of love, you should put encouraging each other to grow ahead of consummating the relationship.

Answer 4

Way to young, if the love is really there then it can wait a few more years, the 1st love is always very emotional. I was engaged to my first love for 2 years and then we decided to end everything. Love and marriage is a very tricky don't mess your self up, and wait.

Answer 5

that all depends on why u got married and how long u've known each other. u're both each others 1st loves and u don't no what else is out there which could lead 2 problems. i say yes and no. if it is true love it should last and u really should have waited.

Answer 6

16 is way too young to get married ! how will you support your wife ? how will you support your family? Do you still want to live at your parents house when you get married ? I don't think so !Best is to enjoy what ylou have right now and enjoy your first love ! Enjoy the time you have with her , because you both are so youg yet and need to finnish school ,

Answer 7

It would be nice to get both parents blessing first. Or wait until you are eighteen, but good for you for getting married young and having sex when you are young and healthy. But, like I said, it would be a whole lot better to have the father's aproval. If the father want you to wait a year or two, I would wait to gain his blessing.

Answer 8

I think that's great if you love eachother. Maybe you should sort things out with her dad. Maybe a little son-in-law and dad-in-law football game or something. Invite him to lunch so you guys can sort out your problem cause if you marry a girl you dont want her to be pressured by her dad to break up with you just cause you and him dont get along. I think it's fine to be married that young just nooooooooooooooooooooooo babies untill she is over 21 so her parents dont get pissed at you and her and shun you guys from the family. If you wanna talk more email me, [e-mail]

Bisous
*~R0siE~*

Answer 9

Are you working? Can you support (not a roach infest apartment- but REALLY support) a household and family? Can you pay for medical/dental/vision care? Can you emotionally deal with any handicap a child may be born with should she become pregnant in the next few years? Can you handle emergencies and stress and emotions without realying on someone else?

MMMM.................no

Answer 10

In some cultures, people marry at a younger age then 16 so it all depends who you ask. Her dad hates you because you took his "baby" before she had a chance to experience life.