Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

my husband and I have decided to explore this side of us, do you think its a good idea or bad idea... we are both okay with pretty much everything except for going behind each others backs and fooling around...

2006-10-20 08:31:48 · 27 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you prefer short nails or long fingernails (well groomed)? Do you prefer them painted or natural?

2006-10-20 08:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every day at sthe end of the day at school i am walking behind the girl i like ( I don't stalk her, so please don't think that) and want to talk to her more than anything, but never do. what should i say? just say her name and when she turns around go up next to her and take it from there?

2006-10-20 08:30:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 08:29:58 · 31 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

I am on a budget so nothing too expensive- I really would love to do something he'll never forget! Something just really sweet! Any ideas?

2006-10-20 08:29:42 · 6 answers · asked by nat_00420 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well you guessed it, reno and I live miles away. But our love has withstood obstacles until recently when he asked me to be his lady inspite of the distance. I love him but i can't take it anymore. Should I start ignoring his phone calls and letting them go into voicemail. so that i can be stronger for my future goal called single and loving it? we are adults not teeny boppers by the way. but not old folgies lol!

2006-10-20 08:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by renosgirl2006 4 in Singles & Dating

and scratched, and cuddled with and played with so much?! This is the neediest pu**ycat I have ever met. But he is so darn adorable and lovable!

Sorry all....but how can I resist a few about these adorable pu**ycats of mine?! They are the only ones that get violations nowadays....HOW DARE THEY VIOLATE MY PU**Y!

2006-10-20 08:29:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 31-yr-old /w no children who has been /w my boyfriend for 7yrs+ now. We have lived together for 5 of those years, but still not married. I have asked him repeatedly but do not get a response until I threaten to leave. At this point, he says " I do want to marry you and only you". Then, he precedes to mention the infidelity from some 4 yrs ago. In 2003, we were going to go our separate ways at that juncture. After the fact, he bought a home and asked me live /w him again. I admit that have made some bad decisions in regards to the relationship in the past. But, I am trying to do right by him in the present and future. I become so discouraged at times and dont see the point in being faithful if he is not going to marry me. I am confused on whether he is hiding behind that to not be married or is he truly hurt and will eventually come around by burying the past and marry me?

2006-10-20 08:29:11 · 6 answers · asked by icon2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if me and my bf brokeup after 2 years. do you think he thinks about me at all or just going on. he did me wrong and at times he says he sorry and then at times he says hes not doing anything to me. he played with my mind and then sometimes he acts like a human being. when he doesnt call me, is that a sign that he doesnt care anymore? i know we cant be together because of his ways but i still want to know that my relationship wasnt a total waste. what do you think?

2006-10-20 08:29:03 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I've decided that I have a life and sitting do this is wasting it, good luck to everyone else though!

2006-10-20 08:28:22 · 22 answers · asked by Kathryn r 1 in Friends

Today in Math class durring our free time my ex bf Matt told his crush a.k.a his ex gf that I hated her and I am only her friend b/c I'm just trying to be nice. I said that but I didn't mean it. And when him and I were daiting he said I don't like her too. Then I was talking to my friend Lindsay about my new bf and Matt heard and he put his head down on his desk and my other friend Laura asked him whats wrong and he said "Leave me alone". And he also made his crush cry when he told her that she had no friends and they were all trying to be nice to her. B/c they don't like her. What do u guys think?

2006-10-20 08:27:57 · 7 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl at school but we only have one class together so the only time we can really talk is at the end of the day. i time it right so that i am by her (in front of or behind) walking out of school but i still don't talk to her even though i want to more than anything (i'm not stalking her, i will eventually talk to her). i don't really know anything about her and vice versa. what is my problem? why is it so hard for me to talk to her? please don't answer something like :"grow a set of balls" b/c i'm sick of hearing that.

2006-10-20 08:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to tell me how it is possible to gain over 80,000 points in one week?

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2006-10-20 08:27:01 · 5 answers · asked by TARA B 1 in Friends

I love my boyfriend dearly but, I don't know if his family will take it well that I'm African American. What do you think?

2006-10-20 08:26:49 · 12 answers · asked by Careatha 3 in Singles & Dating

My huband have a woman work# and now today I saw a cell# on his cellphone. Before he didn't have a cellphone, He have her number inside his wallet it been long time I didn't came up with topic in my head. But it drive me crazy. And I find out she work at Acct Dept in Anaheim Conviention Center. I prented to ask him do you know anybodys work in Anaheim Conv-Center. He "NO" But why it show her number on his cell, He call and she call bk. But does that mean just a friend. Does that mean he chating on me. Pls give more advice or answer. Drive me crazy! HELP!!!

2006-10-20 08:26:47 · 27 answers · asked by Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf & are on a break right now. we were friends first so we are back there now but we are going out tonight with his cousin (a guy) to a movie (as friends). the following conversation occurred between us last night, could he be jealous?

me: 'your cousin commented on my new myspace picture.'
him: 'what did he say?'
me: 'ummm...just that it was a good picture, why?'
him: '...just wondering..'
me: 'yeah, tomorrow he will see me in normal clothes instead of my pajamas like he did last time.'
him: 'he better not think he's getting any..'

i was quiet then said 'what?' acting like i didn't hear him and he said 'nevermind'.

any ideas?

2006-10-20 08:25:40 · 19 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1 in Singles & Dating

Asian guys?

The media says you're only attracted to black guys, my question is, do you find yourselves attracted to asian guys?

2006-10-20 08:25:08 · 18 answers · asked by linko9789 1 in Singles & Dating

What sort of gift should we present to them? He is 57, she is 35. They had a baby about a year ago but have lived together for at least 5 years.

2006-10-20 08:24:32 · 18 answers · asked by jdbagus 1 in Weddings

2006-10-20 08:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been really good friends since 5th grade. Him and his best friend both go to my church, and all three of us have been friends. Just this summer I started going to this bible study at a church family's house. He didn't start coming till later during the summer. So anyway one night, the boys were inside playing video games and me and a couple of my girl friend were out on the lawn playing Extreme Spoons. He came out and asked if he could play with us. We said yes, we played and then it was time to go home. So we began talking more at the bible study. So then one Sunday morning, me and my girl friends were in the Church Cafe' getting tea and coffee when another girl came in and started talking to us. As I get ready to leave she asks me if I like him and I tell her that we're friends. I ask why and she tells me that he asked her to ask me. Now, he seems to be avoiding me. Every time I try to talk to him at church or am even in his general area he starts freaking out and avoiding me.

2006-10-20 08:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by jessi.swimchick 2 in Friends

Do you think that my marriage is over? Back in March I had a hysterectomy done. When the doctor said thet we could have sex again it was great. But the last cuple of months we hardly have sex at all and when we do it is short and I don't thank he finishes. Six months ago he started a new job and he tells me that it isn't me that he is just tired. His last job he worked from 9 to 5 and sat all day. Now he works from 2am to 12pm and it is a physical job. What you do you think???

2006-10-20 08:24:03 · 7 answers · asked by greentigereyeddragon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i like this guy.
he's only in two of my classes and we never actually talk before.
and everytime he walks by me he smiles.
i'm not sure if he likes me or not
should i make a move or not??
please help me.

2006-10-20 08:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by sup, ninja? 1 in Singles & Dating

yea i need to know what u guys all like in a girl!

2006-10-20 08:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 08:22:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's true, they always yelling at a brotha, and no matter what u do u can't make 'em happy. it's like they gots to be mad about sumthin. that's why so many brothas turn to white women..white women are quiet and respectful, and they know when to shut their piehole.

so yo, how many black women gonna jump in the mix and try to tell me i'm wrong? see, you always dippin' when you don't know the flava.

2006-10-20 08:21:46 · 30 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister -in -law is a single mom with two kids from different fathers.She decided that she did not want them to support the kids.She is at university now and her mom is taking care of her kids while my hubby financially supports them.She has always been fortunate enough to get help from both her mom and her brother,my hubby, while she does her own thing.
I have nothing against going back to school but my husband and I are working damned hard to make ends meet for our family let alone his sister's but I have said nothing to him about it.Should I keep it to myself

2006-10-20 08:21:23 · 21 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family

we are both really looking forward to seeing each other but since it has been so long since we were together i want to make it the best night of his life, i have his favourite chocies and have a candle lit room with some oils to give him a body massage, is there any tips to make his evening even better?!

2006-10-20 08:21:03 · 18 answers · asked by Gina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my co-worker is a nice girl, for the most part. it's just that everytime i have a conversation with her she has to oppose whatever i say. i've never met someone like this before, it's like she craves arguements. it could be the smallest thing like where i want to eat for lunch or what exercise i like better, whatever it is she has to talk against it and say what she thinks is better even though i don't ask. can someone help me understand why people would be like this?

2006-10-20 08:20:17 · 14 answers · asked by lynne 2 in Friends

i hate the school people are alleays calling me a masshole because i am from mass

2006-10-20 08:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by catcfh1020 2 in Friends

I would never cheat.

2006-10-20 08:20:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anthony 4 in Marriage & Divorce