if me and my bf brokeup after 2 years. do you think he thinks about me at all or just going on. he did me wrong and at times he says he sorry and then at times he says hes not doing anything to me. he played with my mind and then sometimes he acts like a human being. when he doesnt call me, is that a sign that he doesnt care anymore? i know we cant be together because of his ways but i still want to know that my relationship wasnt a total waste. what do you think?
2006-10-20 08:29:03 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relationships arent a waste a time becuase theyre fun while they last and you learn a lot. i dont think he doesnt care about you anymore. he just doesnt care about you in a girlfriendy way. you both know theres no future for the relationship, so if he doesnt call its probably because he doesnt want to feel like hes dragging out the breakup. its best to move on, but its not like you dont care about and forget eachother! you still have some fond memories, and if you ever run into eachother im sure you will be friendly.
2006-10-20 08:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your relationship was a total waste? That is all that really matters. Seeing as how he did you wrong and you are no longer together, my personal opinion is that anyone who didn't treat you right isn't worth your worry. I had a similar situation and to tell you the truth it still bothers me (after 5 years still), but I can not change another person, only myself... So, I hope things work out for you and you can find the strength to choose your own life and not let his not-calling or not-caring determine your course of actions.
2006-10-20 08:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by breezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often when we break up we play the "what went wrong game" listen it sounds to me that guy didn't care about you enough so you need to move on and know that someday you will fall in love again that this jerk will be a distant memory so be strong
2006-10-20 08:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was not a total waste u will meet a guy that will treat u right and yeah and at least u know what not to look for in a guy
2006-10-20 08:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey thank god your gone, and no he does not think of you . he was not thinking when he was with you so why would you think that he is thinking about you know . to your answer no your relationship was not a total waste learn from it and grow . that was just one more for life experiences lol
2006-10-20 08:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless. weither or not that this guy, dis-respected you.....he is going to miss you. 2 years is along time. Just because it will hurt his feelings, don't think about how he'll feel, think about what's important to you. If he is that important to you, then stay with him...But if it's hard enough for you to feel bad, and think second thoughts about him, then maybe you should take some time off.
take care. lady
2006-10-20 08:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Punk_Rockin' Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got it bad, don't you? Find something or someone to spend your spare time on. That relationship was a total waste of time for you and him as well.
2006-10-20 08:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Scott K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well after 2 years maybe he just feels sorry for what he did. just move on and stop thinking about him. you have a likfe too. and remember yo wont be young forever so don't waste it.
2006-10-20 08:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by hellodivasexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that any realtionship is a waste because you learn somehting from it.even if it took you ttwo years to figure out her was doing you wrong. I think he cares and he always will.
2006-10-20 08:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that all of the stuff is happening, then why stay? Don't you know that this is wearing and tearing on your esteem dear? Find someone who love you for you....Good luck
2006-10-20 08:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋