i like this girl at school but we only have one class together so the only time we can really talk is at the end of the day. i time it right so that i am by her (in front of or behind) walking out of school but i still don't talk to her even though i want to more than anything (i'm not stalking her, i will eventually talk to her). i don't really know anything about her and vice versa. what is my problem? why is it so hard for me to talk to her? please don't answer something like :"grow a set of balls" b/c i'm sick of hearing that.
2006-10-20 08:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow a set of balls!!!!
Sorry! I couldnt resist.
I think its so hard for you to talk to her because you dont know what to say! If you dont know anything about her its kind of hard to start up a conversation. I guess since the only thing you have in common with her right now is the class, you should ask her something about it. I know its lame but you have to start somewhere. Ask about a homework assignment that is due or something.
If all else fails just start saying hi!
Good luck.
2006-10-20 08:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jennadog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first time you talk to her it doesnt have to be something GREAT! Just ask her for a pen or something in the class. or ask her a question about the work your doing. just kinda work your way in to talking to her. Just a little at a time works, and when you sit next to her in class just simply say "hey" or someting like that. Good Luck man
2006-10-20 15:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Will S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and talk to her. Girls like guys who can be real and not play games, so if you like her, tell her. Or at least just talk to her, start by saying hi and see where it goes. Or ask her for notes from the class you have with her. You will know if she is not interested by her reaction, but by not talking to her you will never know.
2006-10-20 15:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by SarahMac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just young - you will get over it - soon you wont know when to keep your big mouth shut - just dont stalk her and do talk to her but only when you feel comfortable. School isnt always the best place to relax, try to find out where else she hangs out and magically show up and try it there.
2006-10-20 15:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls or guys can be pretty shy or anxious when it comes to crushes and communication (especially in highschool)
But, if you just take a breather before confronting this girl, you should just be yourself basically, ask questions about her; anything that comes to mind, be honest tell her how your feeling when your talking to her, maybe she'll understand and take it easy on you. see what happens from there.
2006-10-20 15:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by val_nativeg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to gain courage and believe in yourself and talk to her. I'm sure she wont bit if u just talk to her. Ull do fine just say something to her otherwise u will regret it for the rest of ur life. who knows she might be ur soul mate.
2006-10-20 15:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with something simple like: Ask her about a school event. then ask more like does she play any sports any instruments. From there a dialoge will start.
2006-10-20 15:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you like her alot and don't want to make a fool out of yourself. a first impression means alot when you truly like someone. for just any ole person it wouldn't matter. but since you admire this person you are nervous. that's normal.
2006-10-20 15:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋