Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

We were at school last lesson on a monday, english we wo readin and 2 of ma best m8s wo rytin notes. i wo relly tempted, so i luked thru 1 of ma m8z pencil case n i did find dis note.. it wo bout me n da guy i fancied. den i fell out wi em nd dey fell out wi me. da nxt day b4 first lesson, dey wo propa pissin me off, so i just walked off. n i hung out wi ova ppl durin break n lunch. den da nxt day, da ova best m8 of myn wo sayin id bin bitchin bout em, wen i onestly hant. ive herd 4 diff. reason on y dey fell out wi me. 1, immature 2, bitchin bout em 3, 2 obsessed wi da guy i fancy n d 4, cuz of wot appened da day b4, b4 first lesson. i dunno hu 2 beleive now. nd i hant spoken a word 2 em since. n now ma m8 told er boyfriend, hu is also ma best m8, dat id bin txtin er n callin im a ginger b*stard. n now hes fallen out wi me. wen i hant even sed owt bout ny1 n i wudnt. wot am i supposed 2 do?

2006-10-15 08:23:02 · 2 answers · asked by suicidebob 1 in Friends

you are currently broken up but have a strong desire to have relations with someone. human nature is calling. It needs to be tended to but if he would not have dissapeared this weekend my needs will have been met and we would still be together. Is it cheating? I have been waiting on him all week to take care of my needs he no called no showed so I left him a voice mail ending our 11/2 year relationship.

2006-10-15 08:22:48 · 19 answers · asked by Leslie B 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-15 08:21:02 · 14 answers · asked by hotrodyeah 2 in Singles & Dating

Where was it? What did the people do when they saw you? What did you guys do when people saw you "having fun in nature" and getting a tan while you were at it.. ;)

2006-10-15 08:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 years old(almost 14) and i am very close to a girl
shees pretty, cute, and smart
one time at the movie theater witha group of freinds we made out
is it strange that we arent "going out"
all my freinds are trying to pressure me into asking her out, but i say that since we have done things like just hang around together or such that we have gone out just without the title and commitment with which it goes
does anyone understand or have tips or thoughts?

2006-10-15 08:20:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When people are nasty, the first hat is said, satan has control over them. But sometimes I think people are aware of their behavior. What do you think?????

2006-10-15 08:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by purpleone726 3 in Friends

2006-10-15 08:20:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 08:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by MizzzIndependant9 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 08:20:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 08:19:21 · 22 answers · asked by MizzzIndependant9 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 08:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by MizzzIndependant9 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 08:18:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got a new cell phone so one knows my number yet. they don't even know i got the phone so no one will suspect it's me. I want to send my boyfriend a text message. it can be about ANYTHING because he won't know it's me! =] it can be funny,dirty,stupid, whatever! thanks!

ps-we're 16...

i like the whole pretending to be his secret admirerer but what should i say??

2006-10-15 08:18:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 11 yrs and he works out of town often,so I'm let here and so is my daughter,we talk a-lot on the phone but he never really has nothing to say.He always replies I don't like talking on the phone for to long is what I hear,its like a onesided conversation,does he not love us or is he just bored with the conversations,cause there is a 6 hour differents with our time periods.But we are leaving to see him in a week so I guess we'll see how it ends there.All I would like to know am I being taken for a ride and wasting my effort too?on someone who will never care?He always says I Love you but does he mean it?

2006-10-15 08:17:49 · 13 answers · asked by very concerned55 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 08:17:17 · 21 answers · asked by want to know 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I like this guy a lot. His locker is about 20 lockers away from mine. Well, I catch him staring at me in I.Tech. a lot, and my friends even see him staring at me, too. Well, I.Tech. is the only class that we have together, and he sits way on the other side of the room. We also have the same lunch period as well, and he only stares at me a couple of times during lunch.

Well, I had my friend ask him if he liked me, and he shook his head, "No". But he still continues to stare at me. I don't know if he was just lying to my friend, or not, but I have to find out if he does like me or not!

Than, there was a or going around the school that I was going out with him, which was not true of course, so I asked him why people are saying that we're going out. He didn't even know that it was happening! Than another guy right next to him told me that the ors were true, and I, as well as him, were just like, "What?".

My friends think that he likes me, but I'm still not sure...

So, please, help me clear some stuff up! I am so clueless! :D

Thank you so much!

2006-10-15 08:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have never recieved support and he owes 20,000+his name is jeffrey scott jackson and his birthday is july 6,1966

2006-10-15 08:16:29 · 6 answers · asked by tonjiabranch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this gurl i like in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her and once i even gave her a teddy bear and i've been really nice 2 her without her acting diferent in any way. But in the last few days i've noticed that shes acting diferently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me. When she says bye 2 me shes starting 2 say it in that i like u-ish tone. Has she picked up my signals and started 2 like me or is it just my imagination?

2006-10-15 08:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 08:15:03 · 12 answers · asked by Qmarc Q 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is a repost coz i am so confused i dont know what to do. Help. I felt i was not included coz im the only fat girl in the group and the bride is on a tight budget. I can afford my own gown if she thinks she'd spend more on my gown. I treated them as my closefriends since highschool but i feel they treat me differently just coz im fat. they criticize the way i dress, how bad my body looks in our pictures, laugh at me. My ex bf in highschool got married and i was the only one he didnt invite among our group. I only knew about it when we went out and they were talking about their gowns that day, how happy they were. and suddenly i realized im the only the guy didnt invite when the rest of my 6 girl pals were there. Why did they not tell me about it. This is hurting me a lot. What should i do? Should i revenge? how?

2006-10-15 08:14:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-15 08:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family

house and money in my husbands name . do i have any legal rights to claim

2006-10-15 08:14:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im a freak when it comes to the bedroom and i like to have threesomes but my boyfriend doesn't ive been trying to get him to have one but he won't i even offered to let him pick the chick we would have it with but he still said no. WHY????????

2006-10-15 08:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you were snobed by a rich azzhole?

2006-10-15 08:14:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance left me 4 years ago when I fell pregnant with our baby although he did not want the child at the time. I tried everything to try and reconcille with him but he refused to have anything to do with me and the child. He now pays maintenance for the child involuntarily.

Last month he called me after 4 years and said he wanted us to be friends again but has refused to talk about or even see our son. I have met up with him once and could not even discuss our son and I am due to meet him again and have to pretend. I do not know what to do and how to integrate our son into the picture as he has warned me not to talk about him, but he wants to have a relationship with me. How can I have a relationship with him without involving our son? I feel it is morally wrong and I am torn apart with guilt when I see him and do not know what to do. Should I give him time to get used to the idea of his son or move on and refer him for counselling?

2006-10-15 08:14:22 · 12 answers · asked by nonsane7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, one of my best friends (a guy) has told me that he has low self-esteem. He's always talkin about himself, but I never notice what he's talking about. I always tell him he's cute, and he looks great, but he probably thinks I'm lying...I'm telling him the truth! Should I just keep doin what I already am to boost his self esteem? Or should I try a different approach?

2006-10-15 08:13:31 · 7 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Friends

I am 24 yr old male seeking advice. My lust problem started at 16. At the time, I was in severe mental pains with severe depression. I tried sports, reading books, riding bicycle, etc. to mitigate the pains. However, it would only dull pains temporarily and never fixed my depression.
At the time, I didn't even know depression is a serious mental illness. I felt I have to somehow overcome it with my mental strength.
The pain was just too much for me to bear and I desperately wanted to find escape route from it. I knew how bad, evil drugs, alcohol, tobacco, sex were. So I stayed away from them.
Then I found masturbation and porn and I was hooked to it instantly. I have never even thought it could be addicting cuz everyone said it is healthy and normal way to relieve tensions. Hence, I didn't feel guilty at all and have been using them as escape route until recently.
Now I am having to deal with lust problem on daily basis in addition to severe depression. Can you offer me advice?

2006-10-15 08:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1 in Singles & Dating

Everything was fine until the other boy came along he's wrecked everything! Someone help me plz! Girls or Boyz!!

2006-10-15 08:12:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think i would be a good friend im quiet but caring give people there space but im there when they need me

2006-10-15 08:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by sk8erhjk 3 in Friends

a girl living in a 3rd world country with only your mom in a small house, then one day you meet a nice handsome guy (Cute, good heart & smart). He declares that he likes you very much, and wants to invite you to America (Miami Beach, FL to be exact..) and also would like something more special in the relationship. What would you say? You are 21, and he is 19 , and we're in both in school. We've known each other since 2003 though we stopped talking from 04-05, and we started to talk again this summer of 06.

Asking this cuz sometimes I don't get her.........I've come to the conclusion that she is either scared of committing with someone like me, she's dumb, or not interested. Mixed signals are a bliss.

2006-10-15 08:11:25 · 11 answers · asked by FeverLust 3 in Singles & Dating