you are currently broken up but have a strong desire to have relations with someone. human nature is calling. It needs to be tended to but if he would not have dissapeared this weekend my needs will have been met and we would still be together. Is it cheating? I have been waiting on him all week to take care of my needs he no called no showed so I left him a voice mail ending our 11/2 year relationship.
2006-10-15 08:22:48 · 19 answers · asked by Leslie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats not cheating. If you are already broken up then why did you have to call him up to end it?
2006-10-15 08:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this If he disappeared and you haven't heard form him or seen him. maybe you should take it up to find out what is going if he is alright. Instead you handle it by calling off the relationship? Maybe you desire's and obviously certain needs are more importent than you actually caring enough.
Don't get me wrong I don't know the whole story but from what I get out of what you wrote above it seems that other things are of more importance than the fact that you may love him or that he loves you and by ending it in the manner in which you say you did for the reason you say you did.
2006-10-15 15:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels like cheating then it is...
If you ended a relationship solely on the fact that you have sexual needs that aren't being met for a weekend then your problems run much deeper than lack of sex.
Typically when one puts so much emphasis on sex it is because other areas of ones life is lacking. I am willing to bet that you suffer from low self esteem and turn to sex as a quick fix.
Take time to care for yourself before you end up with some disease. Work on self-improvement and in turn you will be happier and not put so much emphasis on sex.
2006-10-15 15:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature is so strong for a reason. Go ahead...like Nike says, "Just do it". If he placed you first in his life, then he would have taken care of your needs this weekend. You should be the first priority. You are not unfaithful to fulfil your needs.
2006-10-15 15:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it? " I've been waiting on him all week to take care of my needs . . ." ? You waited for him to make the moves? Remind me, this is 2006 right? If you wanted "IT", YOU make the moves!!!! And in answer to your question, YES! One weekend ended a year & half releationship
2006-10-15 15:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by missbubbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....U tryed to get ahold of him and for awekk he left u hang..Well now it is his turn to sit back and think and wait on u....Even tho u love someone u shouldnt just say o she/he knows i love her/him...U need to feel it and if he don't take care of u for a week then who is he taking care of???Men have needs too.
2006-10-15 15:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all im suprised u left hima voice mail to break up with him.... how lame. second, you only think you are cheating because you still have feelings for him. LET IT GO...
2006-10-15 15:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by dawggiestile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have broken up already with him, then that's not cheating. And what kind of a "need" are you having???
2006-10-15 15:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
h1) Are you planning on getting back with the person you broke up with?
2)If you can't go a week without sex, you may be an addict. Get help-professional psychiatric help.
2006-10-15 15:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by MigukInUJB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not cheating if u are borken up but r u doing it to get back at him. if so rethink it because it will be hovering over u if u two get back together. do it because u want to and u wont feel guilty later. but if u do it to get back at him u will feel like crap when u get back 2gether
2006-10-15 15:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by mekhia81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋