This is a repost coz i am so confused i dont know what to do. Help. I felt i was not included coz im the only fat girl in the group and the bride is on a tight budget. I can afford my own gown if she thinks she'd spend more on my gown. I treated them as my closefriends since highschool but i feel they treat me differently just coz im fat. they criticize the way i dress, how bad my body looks in our pictures, laugh at me. My ex bf in highschool got married and i was the only one he didnt invite among our group. I only knew about it when we went out and they were talking about their gowns that day, how happy they were. and suddenly i realized im the only the guy didnt invite when the rest of my 6 girl pals were there. Why did they not tell me about it. This is hurting me a lot. What should i do? Should i revenge? how?
2006-10-15 08:14:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they are laughing at you because of the size of your body, then they are not your friends. They are mean and cruel and immature. I know it will be hard to do, but I would recommend dropping them all and finding a better class of people to hang around with.
Trust me, not everyone judges people based on the size of clothes they wear. You can find better people out there to be friends with.
I know, because I've been overweight all my life, and none of my friends judge me based on my size. I've run across people like that before, but I just let them leave my life. Life's too short to surround yourself with people who will put you down.
{{{hugs}}} and good luck, sweetie!
2006-10-15 08:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they're not treating you like a friend. Take a real hard, truthful look as to whether you are really part of that group. Their actions towards you are speaking loudly. No matter how much you want to be their friend and be involved in life's special events like this wedding, they're not doing anything it takes to keep YOUR friendship. Don't worry about revenge, why even bother? You've wasted enough time with these people already. Move on with your own life, there's better things to do and better people to be with.
2006-10-15 08:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Portango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say residing properly is the suited revenge. in case you narrow down and initiate finding outstanding, they could remorseful approximately having been chilly to you. i've got been extra or much less fat all my existence, and that i comprehend it hurts whilst people do this. yet face it: there is an suited weight, and people are comfortable to the look of a individual heavily above that weight, notably wearing an comparable dress to those that are all narrow. an exceedingly state-of-the-paintings buddy could comprehend that she could practice her compassion and loyalty to a chum if she coated you, yet I in no way blamed my friends who needed their wedding ceremony photos to look superb. it extremely is in basic terms genuine that cameras exaggerate one's length, and there could be no keeping off which you may stand out like the proverbial sore thumb. Take it as a mark of the obstacles of the friendship: one among those the place she's ok as long as you do not assume too lots. truthfully, which includes you in the marriage occasion could properly assume too lots.
2016-10-16 05:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is silly and a waste of time.
I would never expect to be invited to my ex's wedding. That's beyond ackward. It's the bride and groom's day... not the ex-girlfriend of the groom's day.
Let it go. And honestly, if your "friends" do treat you that way, they aren't your friends and you're better off letting them go and finding people who appreciate and respect you.
2006-10-15 08:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by misskate12001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be vengeful. Be practical. If you are invited, then be there. If they can't afford to get you a dress, then get one of your own. And about your so-called friends, I don't think they're treating you like one. I suggest that you start getting a life and have someone who's worthy to be called a FRIEND.
2006-10-15 08:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not invited. Grow up. Its probably not because of your weight but because you are acting like a drama queen. Salvage your self and do your own thing.
2006-10-15 08:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex boyfriend didn't invite you because your his ex. Theres nothing wrong with you, he probably didn't think you'd want to be there seeing him get married.
I didn't invite my ex to my wedding. I really didn't think he'd want to be there, people looking at him to watch his reactions all day.
2006-10-15 08:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by chieko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best revenge is to ignore these people and get some new friends.
2006-10-15 08:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by Serendipity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you might want to talk to them and let them know how you feel. if they don't respond appropriately, then you have to accept that these people are NOT your friends... that is not how you treat people you care about.
2006-10-15 08:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think i would call them my ture friend....No mater what the looks or the color once a friend they should always be a frined....
2006-10-15 08:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋