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Everything was fine until the other boy came along he's wrecked everything! Someone help me plz! Girls or Boyz!!

2006-10-15 08:12:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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well dnt try 2 hard 2 impress her. speaking as a girl, i fink u shud just let them be for a while, but stay good friends with her. make sure she knows she can rely on you and that you are there for her. that way when they split, you will be the first she turns 2, thats wen u make ur move! :P gud luk xx

2006-10-15 08:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by LifeLiveLove 2 · 0 0

If her attention has been distracted as much as you say it has by the arrival of someone else on the scene, forget it. She will only turn back to you if he doesn't return the attention. That is, until the next time. The fact she is interested in him shows she is not committed to you, trust me. Your only hope is to demonstrate less interest yourself. If she does care for you, this will bring her up sharp. As long as she thinks you are always going to be there no matter what, you will always be open to disrespect. You have to be strong and not allow yourself to be messed about with flirtation or worse! It is hard to do if you are so in love I know. Of course we still get attracted to other people even in good relationships. But if we act on it or make a partner unhappy, that is the sign that we are behaving badly. So don't allow yourself to be humiliated, back off a little and see what happens. If she returns to you she realises she has made a bad mistake and won't do it again. If she strays then it means she is not for you, and there is someone else out there for you. I will be thinking of you and I wish you all the very best. Now!! Deep breath and back off-start perhaps by not being too available? Or be a bit mysterious!!!

2006-10-15 08:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by jonquilblack 4 · 0 0

Find someone else..she obviously doesn't respect you. Who's to say if you and her were in a relationship she wouldn't stray. Sounds like you'll do until someone better comes along. Knock it on the head now...you'll be hurting for a while yet cos you're in love with this girl, but how will you feel if this happens 1 or 2 years down the line? Chin up, there's someone for everyone out there.

2006-10-15 08:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mini-Me 2 · 0 0

definite, i have lost activity in staring at American Idol. The very last of my activity dwindled very last week at the same time as Chris Sligh replaced into kicked off. He wasn't the perfect singer, yet he replaced into humorous and exciting to exhibit screen. combine that with the actual incontrovertible truth that a horrid "singer" like Sanjaya keeps coming decrease back and that i do in basic terms not care to witness the prepare smash anymore. And it DOES count number about Sanjaya, because the longer he remains on the tutor, the further likely it's going to be that some record label will positioned out his albums, accosting the radio waves and information superhighway mutually with his poor voice. It in basic terms is going to extra tutor that making a music expertise has no longer something to do with this tutor, because Sanjaya doesn't have any and he remains on it. If I do song in, this is to hearken to Melinda sing and to work out Haley, who i imagine is desirable.

2016-12-04 20:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Life is very very short-and that is being positive, not negative. Ask her who she prefers and go from there. Don't give her an ultimatum, but ask her straight out. If she likes the other guy, then she would have liked him in 5 mins, 5 days or 5 years time-in short, don't hang around. You cannot live your life waiting for other people to make up their minds

2006-10-15 08:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sorry about that but it happens!
You only sound young and I assumeshe is as well.
Have you asked her what she wants? tell her that she can't have both if she does want both then you can't trust her and get rid now as to not get hurt anymore
You will be happy so don't worry too much
Good Luck
Jeff

2006-10-15 08:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by JEFF K 3 · 0 0

Show her why you're the one for her. If that doesn't work then you could always suggest a threesome. Chances are he will run a mile and she will be all yours. Have the courage to follow your convictions if he doesn't run though. Good luck

2006-10-15 08:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by MGN2006 4 · 0 0

Tough situation. But you have to tell her exactly how you feel about her. Its the best. because if you don't she'll never think of you as a potential bf. Believe me, you'll feel much better if you tell her. good luck ;)

2006-10-15 08:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kristian55 3 · 0 0

Sounds like you fell in love with the wrong girl. Sorry for you.

2006-10-15 08:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by letem haveit 4 · 0 0

how old are you? im not sure if ur in love i think it might just be lust people often mistake them for each other so id step back and reevaluate and not only that but if shes going after other guys she isnt completly into you and it probably isnt love...

2006-10-15 08:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by mel w 3 · 0 0

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