Okay, I like this guy a lot. His locker is about 20 lockers away from mine. Well, I catch him staring at me in I.Tech. a lot, and my friends even see him staring at me, too. Well, I.Tech. is the only class that we have together, and he sits way on the other side of the room. We also have the same lunch period as well, and he only stares at me a couple of times during lunch.
Well, I had my friend ask him if he liked me, and he shook his head, "No". But he still continues to stare at me. I don't know if he was just lying to my friend, or not, but I have to find out if he does like me or not!
Than, there was a or going around the school that I was going out with him, which was not true of course, so I asked him why people are saying that we're going out. He didn't even know that it was happening! Than another guy right next to him told me that the ors were true, and I, as well as him, were just like, "What?".
My friends think that he likes me, but I'm still not sure...
So, please, help me clear some stuff up! I am so clueless! :D
Thank you so much!
2006-10-15 08:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should ask him yourself instead of having your friends do it. He may think your friends are just being nosy and he may be a private guy. Guys will stare only if they are attracted, so he probably does like you. He may be looking for a more mature girl and it does not show maturity to have your friends ask him what he thinks of you. It may be scary to ask him but it will pay off if the answer is one you like. Go ahead and ask. be brave and grown up. Go ahead, Do it!!
2006-10-15 08:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by carol n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him....................i know it sounds corny but that is the only way to find out. do it when it is just u two so it doesn't become a show. just pull him to the side and say "i noticed that i have caught ur eye a few times and u have caught my eye as well and i just wanna know r u crushing on me are what cuz i think u r really cute and I kinda have a little crush on u" (or something similar) if he says no then HIS LOSS! If he says yes then cool move on from there.
If we are always asking question but never asking the right questions we will never get the real answers we want to hear.
PS: NEVER SEND UR FRIENDS TO DO UR DIRTY WORK ONE DAY IT WILL BACKFIRE ON U!
2006-10-15 15:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by mekhia81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont really know what to answer... One thing I can say however, is that just because he said he didn't like you to your friend, doesn't mean he doesn't actually like you. Asking a question like that would have put him under pressure or maybe he was too shy to admit it. I have done the exact same thing once, and I regret it >_<
2006-10-15 15:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by NameEditedOut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by asking him yourself, having your friends ask questions for you makes it seem like you're not mature enough to handle a relationship. If he knew that you were interested in him, maybe he would be interested in you. Someone always has to take the first step, leave your friends out of it.
2006-10-15 15:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will think u of a coward if u ask other ppl to ask him abpu this feelins...hes not answerable to them... u want the correct answer U GO ASK HIM whts the truth
2006-10-15 15:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....
he mite like you and he may not.
im afraid the only way to find out if he likes you is to ask him urself. having a friend ask him.... well.... its not the best approach.
ask him urself, and who kknows, maybe it'll be worth it
2006-10-15 15:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's saying no, then he doesn't want to have a relationbship with you whether he really does like you or not.
2006-10-15 15:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going up to one of his friends and ask them if he likes you. They most likely won't have a problem admitting it to you, even if he has a problem admitting it to one of your friends.
either that, or just plainly ask him yourself.
hope i helped!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-15 15:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he likes you, I'm sure he'll say yes. He doesn't want anyone else to know anyway.
2006-10-15 15:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋