Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

Married couple working on hier marriage after it was discoved that the wife was cheating. Since then she has said hat she wants to work on the marriage. Here goes the question:

When an individual tells you that they love you, but they are not in love with you. Can he marriage work out in time. I believe that you cannot learn to love someone if you can make that statement. What do you think. Should I stay and see if it works out or fly. Thanks....

2006-10-13 10:47:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The funeral is for my husbands grandfathers companion. it is for tuesday at 1 pm. i asked my mom if she could watch my baby(2 years old).she is a realitor. she loves my child very much but is also very busy.so when i asked, she sounded like she couldnt but said "yea I can watch her." but i know my mom and shes lying. so then i said look if you cant, let me know by the wekend and i'll find someone else. she laughed and said yea right, you--she said this because i only have like one friend. anyways i felt so angry. should i just stay home and not go, or should i let her watch her?she'll watch her for like 5 hours.

2006-10-13 10:46:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok..I'm not in love with my boyfriend..but I do love him..isnt it bad to have second thought of who you wanna be with??..I think I wanna be with him..then I think I wanna be with someone else..I dont know what my heart is set on..my mom thinks I should be with the other guy instead of my boyfriend and my mom always makes good choices for me..my heads tellin me to stay with the guy im with but my heart is tellin me to be with the other guy..how do I know which one I wanna be with??..how can I figure this one out??..I need help..badly

2006-10-13 10:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by Still Inlove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 10:46:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 10:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by m2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 10:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by ump2221 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 10:43:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've meet this girl a few months back, at the time she had a BF, one day she told me he was a real jerk and I told her your better off breaking up with him if that's the case and sure enough she tells me she does a few days later. After this happened, I did notice we started to talk and hang out more often. She always laughs at my jokes and stories, she had me over for dinner, and I've had her over for a few drinks just the 2 of us. Tommorow nite she's coming over again for some drinks. So far nothing has really happened between us besides the things I mentioned. I don't know if she's trying to be friendly or if she likes me. She is kind of shy as well so I don't know what to do.

2006-10-13 10:43:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you anyone you know who is negative? I did and i find it so annoying when people have to look at the negative side of things, etc ''I can't wait to get to the party'' and then someone says 'Its not a party, there will be music and food'',That will be it''.Which i found annoying it was good, i looked on the positive side.

Do you find anyone really annoying, who looks on the negative side of things you do?

2006-10-13 10:43:05 · 28 answers · asked by Sereniti 2 in Friends

I consider myself to be quiet and I don't talk much but I'm always nice to people. Do you think people like or dislike people like that? Sometimes I worry that people when you don't talk people don't think you're not interested in what they have to say but I just would rather just listen most of the time..

2006-10-13 10:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

I have gone with the idea of a news paper from the day he was born but, i need more ideas for my sis to get him at a reasonable price to?
He is a Golfing copper who has just about everything.

2006-10-13 10:41:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what is left of the relationship with my boyfriend of two years and i is mediocre (to say the least). right now i just feel done. im tired of being hurt and tired of always being blamed. i am limited to freedom for example i am not allowed to have friends, not allowed to talk to other guys, wear certain things, go out anywhere except if with my family... etc... i mean to me this is a very unhealthy relationship but i am scared to be without you. some of the time i am fine without him, and sometimes especially at night, i am not. we have broken up (last week i dumped him) but we have still acted like we are together. what is a way to tell him that i wnat to be COMPLETELY over and STAY over? i always crawl back to him... thank you

2006-10-13 10:41:42 · 4 answers · asked by Kayla-Ann 3 in Singles & Dating

So, I'm married. My husband has a child from his previous relationship. A child who's life I've been in since she was 6months old. For the better part of her life she's stayed with her dad. Her mom is what you would call a dead beat. (as in wasnever there can't stay in her life for longer than a month or so at a time even her own family says she tryflin'. So I would like to say lately but its been on and off now for about years but its gotten worse the last few years. Her attitude about me has been on the decline for some time now. And to be honest, my attitude about her isn't the best either. My husband and I have four other children together. 1 boy, 3 girls. All 7 of us stay in one house. My dilema is about her attitude about how she interacts with me which until a few years ago I would take to an extent because she is a child. In no way has she been rude, but she is slick to a fault. And of course my husband doesn't see this except when she does it to him. I've had her recently her be mean to the other kids as well as start going thru my personal things even thoughI've told her numerous times to not go thru my things simply because I would not go thru hers. She's made it clear that she doesn't want anything from me, ex for he birthday 4 years ago I bought her a winter wardrobe I found out not only did she no wear any of the things I bought but she gave most of the pieces away. Also insted of letting me do her hair she would rather walk around with it not combed because she wants her mother or sister or anyone else but me to do it. At first I was hurt then upset but soon afetr I decided that it she doesn;t want anything from me then I won't get it or offer. Once shw realized that everyone was getting new things and she wasn't she tried to raise a stink but her father actually backed me up and checked her on it. Now here in the last couple of weeks she's been gettig things without asking and I've been told by my boy that sh'es actually called me a ***** when I've corrected her about something. She's always telling anyone who will listen that she can't wait till her mother comes to get her so she can live with her. But her mother and my husband already talked and decided against it. They've told her this but she doesn't care she just keeps it up. I'm at my wits end with her If she's like this now what's gonna happen in another year or so when she thinks she's really grown. And personally my husband and I are already at a strained point in aour relationship this thing with my pre-teen is about to be a deal breaker because I'm not going to put my hand on her even though she tempting me to. Any suggestions before I ask my husband and my daughter to get ta stepping.

2006-10-13 10:41:21 · 11 answers · asked by Dani L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 10:40:53 · 15 answers · asked by cheezehead 2 in Friends

2006-10-13 10:40:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 10:40:02 · 13 answers · asked by miataraceman 2 in Singles & Dating

I have tried very hard to get along. But I am not perfect & they don't like me. I don't think it is necessary personal. They seems miserable in every area of their lives. How do I deal with the rudeness?

2006-10-13 10:39:27 · 8 answers · asked by shouldbworkn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 10:39:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been a military brat my whole life. now that im old enough to date ive found this amazing guy who is all i could ever ask for. ive dated several great guys in the past, but with this one, we talk about ending up together and things that i dont talk about with my ex's when we dated. now, next summer i may be moving and i dont want to leave him. by then we would have been dating for over a year. should we try to keep dating for as long as we can?? how can i make this work??

2006-10-13 10:39:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ARE THESE THE IDEAL GIFT FOR MY SEXY NEIGHBOUR AND WHERE CAN I GET THEM........??

2006-10-13 10:38:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 10:38:21 · 6 answers · asked by jakezjanique 2 in Singles & Dating

When you wear a short dress, low tops that expose your breast, or short enough skirts that your panties are almost exposed, low rider jeans, showing your butt crack, Why do you look at us men as if were perverts when we look at you, or make a comment. You picked that outfit , then live with your choice. what are you trying to achieve with this kind of look ?

2006-10-13 10:37:58 · 30 answers · asked by John S 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 10:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 10:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by ILoveMyKitten 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 10:36:40 · 22 answers · asked by gungann11 1 in Singles & Dating

plllllz tell me im trying to win an argument with someone?????

2006-10-13 10:36:21 · 13 answers · asked by vballplayer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do will people judge me on who i sit with what if they ask why im sitting with them?

2006-10-13 10:35:03 · 12 answers · asked by sklincky 1 in Friends

Due you guys get trun- off when u guys find a gril is a virgin
or she might me too incent
due you guys like that in a gril?
b/c i feel like guys only go for the easy grils

2006-10-13 10:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 8 months, living together for 2. She says she misses her old life where she didnt have to worry about being tied down. Says she loves me and does want to work things out. What do I do to keep her interested and not let her run away like she always has when she didnt like something? I give her everything I can but still sometimes that doesnt seem enough and she wants to be gone all day and not have any contact with me. Any women that could give input would be greatly appreciated. I'd do anything to keep this lady from giving up on us and leaving my life.

2006-10-13 10:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by wizsap 2 in Singles & Dating

im going to a haunted house tonight with my friend whos taking her other friend along also. i havent even met her yet and shes already coughing up an attitude with me. i told my friend i wanted to spend some time with my boyfriend before they picked me up and my friends friend was trying to make me go with them now and not spend time with my boyfriend! i hate girls who are pushy like that and i can tell this isnt going to be a good night, how do i deal with someone who's being a ***** but still keep things calm for the evening? any advice?

2006-10-13 10:34:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating