Have you anyone you know who is negative? I did and i find it so annoying when people have to look at the negative side of things, etc ''I can't wait to get to the party'' and then someone says 'Its not a party, there will be music and food'',That will be it''.Which i found annoying it was good, i looked on the positive side.
Do you find anyone really annoying, who looks on the negative side of things you do?
2006-10-13 10:43:05 · 28 answers · asked by Sereniti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
negative, smegative, .....stay positive
you'll always find oppisites in the world
2006-10-13 10:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by stumped 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. I know a chap who is the most negative and miserable person ever. Not only would his glass be half empty, he would query why the glass was so big in the first place!
He depresses me SO much that I have caller display on my phone now so that when he calls I don't answer it.
He is a 'happiness Hoover' as he can suck the joy out of any situation. He is one of those people who, when he enters the room, a flat, dead mood descends on everyone in it. He is the killjoy to end all killjoys.
He should have been drowned at birth so save people from his particular brand of misery, a complete waste of space - literally.
2006-10-13 10:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyfromdrum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Serenity,
flippin eck, story of my life innit. However I now try to combat it by not being with really negative people for to long. I have been round critical people most of my life and some of it has rubbed off onto me. However l have become more positive in my outlook and try to respond in positive ways to people that are negative. xx
Serenity I think negativity can be used as a manipulation to control you. People respond much better to positivity. I can spot a negative person at 20 paces now lol xx
2006-10-13 10:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know several people who look at the negative side of everything and can't say one positive thing...I don't give them the time of day anymore !
I like to consider myself an upbeat person, and people like that just bring you down...I'd rather enjoy the company of people who have a life, or who can at least look at the positive sides as well as negative.
2006-10-13 10:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess we all do, when its not directed at me, I always try to make them see the positive side. If its directed to me I usually tell them off, because I don't need it, life is difficult enough without negativity.
2006-10-13 12:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup and i just is ignore them cause people who think negative about the out come of life will think negative about themselves they are not the best people to be around.
2006-10-13 10:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! but I remember being told that it is actually easier for the human mind to think in negative terms.
The problem with negaitve people is that they seem to suck the energy out of YOU, too. They're like energy vampires- always seeing "snags".....
2006-10-13 10:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know alot of negative ppl and it seems lately that they are all coming out . I just ignore them , I let them talk all the crap the want , it goes in one ear and out the other
2006-10-13 10:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My significant other tends to be negative. I just don't understand why it is he that falls asleep so easily while I'm the one that tosses and turns. He should lie awake worrying.
2006-10-13 10:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes lots
2006-10-14 04:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by Rod T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people...instead of working under the "Every dark cloud has a silver lining" mentality...it's more like "Every silver lining has a dark cloud".
It's the Eeyore vision of the world...
2006-10-13 10:46:10 · answer #11 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋