I've meet this girl a few months back, at the time she had a BF, one day she told me he was a real jerk and I told her your better off breaking up with him if that's the case and sure enough she tells me she does a few days later. After this happened, I did notice we started to talk and hang out more often. She always laughs at my jokes and stories, she had me over for dinner, and I've had her over for a few drinks just the 2 of us. Tommorow nite she's coming over again for some drinks. So far nothing has really happened between us besides the things I mentioned. I don't know if she's trying to be friendly or if she likes me. She is kind of shy as well so I don't know what to do.
2006-10-13 10:43:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has been broke up from her old BF for around a month now.
2006-10-13 10:51:46 · update #1
She definitely likes you, and it sounds like you will need to make the first move. Don't focus so much on defining the relationship at first, just enjoy being around her. Coming out of a relationship, she may feel uneasy telling you she likes you and possibly being rejected. Either tell her you like her first, or just SHOW her she is more than a friend and don't worry with words. She'll get your message.
2006-10-13 11:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suggested breaking up with her boyfriend and she did, I think that means something. She may have read into it and thought that meant that you wanted her to be single so you could be with her. That explains why you two have been spending so much time together. As far as why nothing else has happened... she probably doesn't want to make a move and seem desperate! She just broke up with a guy and she knows you know that. If you like her, make a move and ask. Suggest something else to do like a movie or dinner. You never know, this could be something great if you act on it.
2006-10-13 17:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very possible. She could have a thing for you and it sounds like you have somewhat of a thing for her, too.
I know that when I like a guy, I act the same way. But, different girls do give off different signals.
The question is....... Do you really like her?
If you do, I say GO FOR IT!!!! You will always wonder what could've happened if you would've just asked her out. You will never know. She might really like you, she might think that you are so sweet.
But think about this, do you want to ask her out when she has just broke things off with her boyfriend? She might go out with you just so she can make him angry and jealous. Do you want that? You probabaly will end up getting hurt.
Just be prepared for BOTH possibilities. Just ask her out and see what happens. We normally regret what we DON'T do rather if we had just taken a shot at it.
I wish you the very best with whatever decision you make with this.
I really do hope this helps you and good luck.
I hope you will end up happy in the end of it all.
Most Sincerley,
Blondie, YO!
2006-10-15 20:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ily♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm a girl myself, so i think i can tell you some good advice... you know how girls sometimes blush when men say something funny or something like that? well that is a sign of liking you. and you said she is coming over for drinks, well, maybe then when ur a little tipsy, you can ask her if she likes you. the reason i say that is because she won't take it in the wronge way because she is tipsy. but, if you don't get to that point, then here's a way to get through confusion... men r the 1's who need to let us know if you like them or not. so one day say "i need to talk. you know how we've been going through this faze of togetherness? well i was wondering if maybe we could go out sometime. ok?" if she says yes, then keep going, but, if she is still a little confused... then i can't tell you because i won't know what her reaction is. but remember to move at a slow pace. women don't like fast reactions. good luck!!
2006-10-13 17:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by beachbum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she does, trust me on this.
But
If her previous relationship was a serious one it is possible that she is 'on the rebound', she may be emotinally vulnerable and in need of male company, if you are looking at starting a serious relationship with this girl you should ask her about this before it becomes too serious.
But yeah, she likes you, she dumped her man because she wanted you and now she's trying to start something with you.
2006-10-13 17:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by wild boar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a female, take it slow, continue to be a gentleman, but when she do throw signs move in don't hazitate, a women likes a man that knows what he is doing, but if you show a sign that your're in doubt, that might change her oppinion. Best thing be yourself and enjoy each others company.
2006-10-13 17:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. Since she's shy, she's more likely to want to take things slow. You'll most likely have to make the first move. Give her another week with things like they are now before you make your move.
Good Luck.
2006-10-13 17:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay bro, never forget, carpe diem. Sieze the moment. Take a chance. Life is all about taking risks, if you like her, tell her.
2006-10-13 17:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cyclone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date to show her you want to be more than friends.
2006-10-13 17:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by mstycain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask her, if she says yes then you better get her before someone else does.
2006-10-13 17:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋