which is better to ask a girl to a dance? phone, in person, or e mail?

Answer 1

In person or at least by phone - but call her not write!
Or, in an oldfashioned way, send her an invitation;P

Answer 2

Personally when it comes to guys asking me to a dance I would rather have them do it in person. It shows that they are willing to take a chance and that they arent afraid to talk to me. Not to mention if the girl is asked by several people they are more inclined to go with someone who asked them in person. Calling them or emailing shows that they may not be mature enough to just ask. Not to mention if you cant talk to this person face to face then you probably shouldnt be going to a dance with them or on a date because that requires a lot of face to face communication. I have a friend who is going to Homecoming with her crush and they have only talked once in person all they did was right notes and then when they finally talked all they said was hi and then there was an occward silence that followed. Trust me on this one, when you want to ask someone to go to the dance do it in person the girl will usually be flattered and it will make going to the dance together so much easier...

Answer 3

All three, call her on the phone, tell her that you have sent her an e-mail, in the e-mail make a cute rhyme about wanting to see her in person, when you see her in person ask her to the dance, she will love it!

Answer 4

In person would be best.... If you can't handle that, she won't like it... However, some girls are dying for a guy's attention and will "lower expectations" or "forgive a guy" if he will call. Make sure that it is early enough in the week so she can make plans on what to dress... If you call and a parent answers... "Mr. ____, Good evening, sir. This is _____, May I speak to your daughter ________?" HUGE BROWNIE POINTS!!!

You should pick her up and let her know if she should expect dinner with you. Make sure to inform her that if the dance is at 8PM and you are going to pick her up at 6PM... That's two hours, DON'T assume she'll have something to eat. It doesn't have to be a fancy meal... Do you enjoy pizza? Because I know a place that serves... Have you ever been there?

When you pick her up at the door... Her dad or mom will probably meet you first. You need to look presentable. Don't worry if you don't have a suit on if it's not a formal dance. Wear something CLEAN and NEAT... Appear like a NORMAL human being... If your hair is all shaggy, get a hair cut a couple of days before... A shirt with a collar, khaki pants, nice comfortable shoes( you are going to a DANCE)... Brush your teeth, floss, and use mouth wash... Deodorant...

You'd be surprised how many guys are STUPID around parents. I know one guy who showed up at a parent's door wreaking of alcohol. The parents bid him a good evening and closed the door.

Be polite to the parents. Yes Sir, No Sir, Yes, Ma'am, No Ma'am... Assure them of where you are going, who you are going with, when you'll have her back... If you have a cell phone, let them have your number... In case of an emergency, they can contact you/her. If your car breaks down or something, you can call them and tell them, "Mr./Mrs. _____, I'm afraid that my car has broken down and I've called my parents for assistance... They should have (details of when to expect their daughter home safe and secure)

Another thing, when you take her home... Escort her to the door... Don't honk the horn and sit in the car because it is raining.. You grab an umbrella, go to her door, making sure she does not get that wet... Walk her to the door, ring the doorbell if she has forgotten her key...

IF... You get to the door and it's been a horrible night.. Thank her for her time, be gracious and complimentary... Even if she has been date from hell... Find something to say that is nice and when the parents have her back safely in her home... Bid them good evening and exit as quietly as possible.

Don't worry how SHE acts, she's responsible for her actions. You're only responsible for YOUR actions and YOUR reactions.

If she smiles and says, "I had a wonderful time..." Nod affirmatively and say, "It was my pleasure..." You don't have to admit that you'd never date her again. Be as nice as you can be... YOU NEVER KNOW when it might be one of her friends says, "I think he's kinda cute, would you mind if I went out with him."

Then again, she may be wonderful to be around, you get her to the door and you get the peck on the cheek... Heck she may be so excited by the way all her friends tell horror stories about the guys on their dates.. You might get a kiss that will take you breathe away(that's why I suggested the brushing, flossing, and mouth wash)

Good luck bud... I recommend the in person ask, because you generally can find a time to ask her without talking to the parents.

Answer 5

well you can't dance with a girl on the phone, nor on the computer via email

so my best guess is that it is best to ask a girl to dance in person

Answer 6

I am the romantic type so i love it when a guy CAN dance and asks me too. then later if he asks me to go on a date i will say YES!!!!!!! in a heart beat!!!!!!!!!!!!! If a guy can dance and is romantic he is sure to win 9/10 girls hearts......that's about 90% or more girls in the world.............that love romantic guy but most of the time that is like asking for a fairytale to come true......

Answer 7

either on the phone or in person e-mail is just too impersonal . I would do it in oerson but good luck with everything

Answer 8

Definatly in person. It is easier for someone to say no to you when they don't have to see your face. So email and phone arn't the best choice. And if they still say no, then they are coldhearted.

Answer 9

In person for the other two choices are not personal and in person its better for she will be flatter that you had the guts to ask her in person

Answer 10

In person.